Posts by fadedbear92

Where did you go? I hope we didn't scare you off with all those questions!🤷

Laura Murphy3 said:I’m all for anorexia, but I wouldn't touch suicide with a ten-foot pole.

Could you be a bit more specific? How long has this been going on—are you unhappy with your appearance?

ironraven13 said:Yeah, sure... he gets to go out and hang with his buddies whenever he wants, but not me. Because I’m a girl. And because everyone’s staring at me.
And yeah, I'll probably just get raped.

Seriously, what century is this guy living in?

ironraven13 said:Look, if someone’s being selfish here, it’s him. Period.

He’s acting way too protective over me—it's getting ridiculous. I tell him I want to go out, and he basically finds every excuse to make sure I stay put.
First, he fills my head with all this paranoia about maniacs out there—telling me I’ll get mugged, drugged, or worse... just straight up attacked or killed.
And then, he acts all satisfied when I just end up staying home. And he honestly thinks that isn't selfish?

It leads to this other thing where I’ll say, "Fine, then YOU come with me." But nope, he’s not down for that—says he’s not "that kind of guy," or we have nowhere to go,
or at best, he suggests we hang out with his group of friends. And what actually happens? We end up sitting in front of his TV like I’m some 70-year-old grandma
with absolutely nothing better to do with my life.

Maybe I haven't fully "grown up" yet, but I’ve been through enough crap in my life to know what's what. He uses his selfishness as an excuse to "protect" me,
which really just means he keeps me trapped. It's gotten to the point where I'm sneaking out of the house and telling him I'm still inside just to get a moment of freedom.

That’s just manipulation—it isn't love.

So, I figured I’d just ask him to go out with me instead—you know, give it a shot. But he’s just not feeling it; he’s really not the type for that sort of thing, and honestly, we don't have anywhere to go anyway.

Honestly, I just can't bring myself to get anything done today—and if I'm feeling this unmotivated, you probably aren't going to feel too great either.
Either we go with his crowd—at best—or we're stuck watching his TV, which honestly feels like being 70 years old all over again.
Well, we don't exactly have anything more productive to do.

Maybe I’m not fully mature yet—I'll be the first to admit that—but I know I've been through the ringer more times than I care to count. And then there's him... his selfishness actually manifests as this intense need to protect me.
My husband keeps trying to push me out the door to go out, even though I keep telling him I'm perfectly happy staying right here at home.[/I]

You've clearly outgrown this relationship and need your space—plus, he really needs to realize that manipulation isn't love. So, I'd say we're even.

Laura Murphy3 said:And what about the rest of it?

The lack of confidence, or finding oneself stuck in those social anxiety loops—or whatever the hell we're calling it these days?

What about all those random, scattered feelings that pop up at different times throughout the day, all tied back to that whole mess? 🙂

Who do you feel totally comfortable and relaxed around?
When you’re meeting someone new, do you get that anxious feeling?

Jessica Chavez4 said:If they start deleting everything at the borders, they'd be left with maybe three posts total on this whole thread.

😂🤣😂

Samuel Martinez19 said:Oh, you "had to"... really?

🤣

and that😂🤣😂

Wait, what? Are there actually specific topics set for the couch?😲🙄🤷

But seriously now, I mean it.

http://distractible.org/wp-content/u...wer-scream.jpg

I just had to!😂🤣😂

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VILw0hbLmz8

Seriously, what happened—did everyone just freeze up? It’s like we finally gained our freedom and now we have absolutely no clue how to actually use it.

driftingpilot said:Exactly what I was thinking.

We really need to draw a line between actual clinical psychology and this self-help stuff... 🙂

Anyway, enough chatter—I'm tired of just padding my post count while we wait for an actual moderator to show up.🙂 😁

And honestly, you know that gorgeous person in the photo has put on some serious weight since this was taken, right?!😂

http://dl2.glitter-graphics.net/pub/...ceqf707kbv.gif
Wait, where are all the mods?!
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casualharbor9 said:... hehe the gang's all gathering together...

Oh, thank you so much, you little leader of ants🙏🙏🙏

It’s like we're all just ants crawling over one another—give it another minute and we’ll be spilling off the sofa entirely!😂🤣😂
http://www.chrisbeetles.com/gallery/...s/C27506-b.jpg

casualharbor9 said:... I guess we'll find out soon enough... in the meantime, please: let's keep the trolling to a minimum 🙂

... just kidding, obviously... 😂

No chat, no trolling, just http://quizilla.teennick.com/user_im...8772_full.jpeg shut the hell up!!!!

Linda Taylor11 said:More like an excuse to fuel a binge-eating habit and rot your brain watching trashy reality TV. 😬

🤣

But... is that couch big enough?😁
I mean—so much could happen there... and we're all ready!http://images.cheezburger.com/comple...6014493952.jpg

Linda Taylor11 said:It's just gone now. Gone. 😈 🤣

I honestly have no clue if this is supposed to be a general chat sub-forum, a place for personal venting, or just... whatever this is. I’m kind of lost. Could someone maybe explain how I can actually start some super intelligent thread on here today? Like, what's the process?

Thanks! 🙂 😬

Is this more like a spot to just catch your breath and grab a quick nap?

mistyseal11 said:Are you actually planning on raising him to be the kind of guy who just hands out his work to friends for free?
Or are you gonna play the whole "protecting my competitive edge" card? You're the one who literally said "education equals value," remember?

But seriously, nobody’s out here trying to raise a saint, right?

So, what exactly is your grievance with your own parents?

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