Mind-body connection?
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restlessmarlin6 said:. Honestly, I just wonder what’s going to happen. Sometimes I hate myself for being such a sensitive weakling, a total pushover... 😢 It's hard to believe that every little bit of stress hits me this hard.
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Don't be so hard on yourself... it has nothing to do with being weak...😢
I don't know exactly why you're feeling this way... but it definitely isn't just simple weakness or being overly sensitive, so please don't blame yourself...
Have you thought about trying therapy?
(Sorry, I haven't been reading since the beginning, so I'm just jumping in blindly)
You mentioned your friends suggested seeing someone at a clinic; I don't know how you feel about it, but there's really nothing wrong with talking things through regularly, especially with a professional...
For me, some meditation and relaxation techniques really helped...
And also living with my boyfriend—whenever I couldn't sleep or settle down, he would just hold me... physical touch really does help with stuff like this...
And what T-Mobile said is important too...
Maybe you're just afraid of the future, or stuck in a status quo where taking that next step feels impossible...
I get it, that feeling where you can't relax enough to focus on anything because you're just paralyzed by anxiety and fear of what's coming...
But the best thing you can do is stop blaming yourself and just be patient. These things take time... probably just as long as the stress that caused it all in the first place...
Again, sorry if you already covered all this and I'm just rambling... don't be mad...