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Fumić’s service shop up in Appalachia did such an incredible job fixing my bike back in the day that I can't help but sing their praises. They don't just employ mechanics there; they employ absolute legends when it comes to bicycles. 🙂
Dry oil? Now, I wonder...
Oh, what a wonderful topic! This is actually something I’ve been struggling with quite a bit lately.
What should I look for when buying chain lube, where can I find it, and what kind of prices am I looking at?

I have another question as well—I've noticed some tiny spots of rust starting to form on my bike frame, specifically right where the paint has been scratched. My bike used to stay tucked away in the garage, but recently I've had it out on the balcony, exposing it to the elements. It doesn't get rained on directly, but I've realized the humidity is really doing a number on it, causing it to deteriorate much faster than before. Now, I've moved it back into the hallway near the stairs—though that feels a little risky regarding potential theft—but I really want to protect it before the rust spreads further. Is there a way to touch up the paint or shield the areas that are already rusting? It’s not much yet, but I'm worried it might spread.

Does anyone have any suggestions on what I could use to clean those spots and then perhaps apply some oil, a clear coat, or something similar? Anyone?

And what about the chain?
What do you think it would have been like if a woman struggling with mental illness had given birth to a child who inherited those same issues?

You should be glad you finally moved on from her!
Lentil recipes: Megathread in Health ·
The contact lenses simply weren't manufactured correctly. That sensation you feel, like a cataract over your eye once you take them out, is actually a sign that the surface of your eye is being irritated because the lenses are poorly made. My previous doctor tried to convince me that the issue was entirely my own fault.

I eventually switched ophthalmologists, ordered a completely new set of lenses, and I have been perfectly happy for years. It was such a hassle. PLEASE, CHANGE THE DOCTOR WHO PRESCRIBED THESE TO YOU. It is absolutely necessary. Just buy new ones.
OB/GYN Discussion Thread in Women's Health ·
I recently visited Dr. Jennifer Sterling’s office. She is quite a lovely woman—very personable and kind, definitely not harsh in her manner. However, when it comes to actual efficiency? It’s hit or miss. It really seems to depend on what kind of mood she's in that day. Most of the conversation revolves around vague platitudes like "it'll pass," "just lose some weight," or "well, fuller women have those features," and so on.

When I actually pressed for specifics, the answers were frustrating. I asked if a certain issue would resolve itself once I lost weight, and the response was no, because it might not even be related to weight. When I inquired if there was a predisposition for cancer, the answer shifted to "yes, and it's a significant one." Thank goodness for the internet, allowing me to research things for myself. I have had this persistent, clean sensation that has been bothering me for quite some time, and when I first asked about it, she simply told me, "Oh, it's nothing serious." Yet, when I returned six months later to follow up, suddenly there was total panic—she insisted I needed an ultrasound immediately because it could be extremely dangerous. My goodness, I could have died during those six months while being told everything was fine! Now, suddenly, there's a crisis and a sudden flare of conscience, but when I asked why the sudden change in tone, she just brushed it off as "nothing important."

I can't help but wonder: if there truly is an increased predisposition for cancer, shouldn't she at least mention it so I know which symptoms to watch out for? Not that I expect her to sit me down for a heart-to-heart...

Ultimately, I am quite disappointed in her, despite her being a genuinely nice person at her core.
Adults with Attention deficit Disorder in Psychology ·
I honestly find this whole "condition" quite fascinating
If you ask me, I’d probably just label it as pure exhaustion, simple laziness, or even just sheer malice. But hey, if you really want to go through the trouble, we could certainly sit down and list out every single symptom and excuse imaginable just to give it a fancy name. Like I said before... don't think that exist
Fashion for curvy girls in Fashion ·
Well, Focus doesn't really deal with huge numbers.

If you head from the Chase building toward the Lady XXL lot near Cherry Hill—it’s alright, I guess—but honestly, you can find even cheaper options than Poker!
Adults with Attention deficit Disorder in Psychology ·
Has it occurred to you that he might just be tired? Or does everything immediately have to be some fancy medical condition?
Adults with Attention deficit Disorder in Psychology ·
I honestly don't believe such a thing exists. Isn't it just a clever way to label boredom or perhaps a lack of intellectual depth? Nothing more than that.
Am I overweight? in Health ·
Megan Peterson87 said:Look, girl. I'm 5'6" and 143 pounds, so I'd say I'm slim. Based on that, you're clearly anorexic and need to go get some help.


I really appreciate your perspective on the 🙂)

Honestly, anything under 130 pounds at your height is concerning. Please reach out for some professional support!
Total Cure for Cancer and Leukemia? in Health ·
Don't mention it. Honestly, I'm just not the type of person who gives up without a fight. I've been going back and forth with AT&T constantly. My friend actually thinks she can already see me installing my own satellite dish on top of the apartment building. And if you ask me? I might be closer to doing it than she thinks. 🙂🙂🙂

You should do the same. Just give it everything you've got. Isn't it more likely that you'll succeed than fail? I've proven that to myself a million times over, so... 🙂
Total Cure for Cancer and Leukemia? in Health ·
gentlebear36, the statistics suggest it's a fifty-fifty shot. Jose Miller3 feels similarly—I know exactly what I'm talking about here. New medications are on the horizon, and while they are obscenely expensive right now, they are set to spark a total revolution within the next decade.

There is still no definitive explanation for cancer; even today, we are left with nothing but speculation. I am so sorry you are going through this, and I truly empathize with you. I cannot begin to fathom what it means to live with the realization that your time might be running out, day after day, as the end draws closer. Honestly, if it were me, I think I would just want it all to end tomorrow.

I have heard about all sorts of miracles. I know of a child who recovered from a brain tumor as if it had never even existed. I know of a man who survived lung cancer despite undergoing twenty-five rounds of chemotherapy. And I also know those who passed away young and very suddenly.

One thing is certain—there are no rules. There really aren't any. No matter how difficult it feels to move forward, you must fight for yourself. Give it everything you have; if you don't fight, you won't have a chance. But if you do fight, you might just surprise both yourself and everyone else with the results. Go for it, girl! Good luck.
Total Cure for Cancer and Leukemia? in Health ·
I feel compelled to weigh in on this discussion.

The fundamental issue with this type of therapy is that it rejects conventional medicine—specifically chemotherapy. You can't combine them; it’s an all-or-nothing proposition. This raises a difficult question: who is prepared to abandon standard medical care, or deny a loved one a chance at recovery, in favor of a "fasting" regimen that could potentially exhaust someone to the point of death?

I heard about a man in New York City who turned his back on traditional medicine and decided to undergo a fasting protocol using nothing but sauerkraut juice. Apparently, he drank only that and ended up on the brink of death. When his condition worsened, his family finally rushed him to the hospital for IV fluids and stabilization, only for doctors to conclude there were no longer any signs of cancer. I am uncertain if that state persisted or if the cancer eventually returned, which is a vital piece of information I lack. I truly hope it didn't.

It seems to me this is a "to be or not to be" scenario; that is the only way such a decision would be made. In my view, this path should only be considered by those facing extremely aggressive, advanced stages of cancer where the prognosis is already quite grim.

If we are discussing early-stage diagnoses, I would personally stick with chemotherapy. I know several people for whom it was truly effective.
Once you get under a doctor's microscope, they always seem to find something wrong. It’s like, how can you be sent from specialist to specialist just because they keep unearthing more and more issues? You were perfectly fine before the appointment, and you’ll be fine after—yet somehow, you end up being labeled as increasingly unwell.

It truly feels to me like our mental state has a direct impact on our physical health. My personal theory? If nothing hurts, it’s probably best to stay far away from the doctor's office. Once you start visiting them regularly, you almost begin to feel sick just by association....

I actually had to switch dentists recently. The first guy was clearly just trying to squeeze extra money out of me; he insisted my bite was off, my teeth were subpar, I needed crowns, blah, blah, blah...

So, I went to a different one instead. He told me my dental health is actually above average for my age, that my teeth are incredibly white, and that everything looks great because the quality is high.

If I hadn't sought a second opinion, I would have genuinely believed I had the worst teeth on the planet. It’s the exact same story with doctors... the moment they lay hands on you, suddenly you're a major patient, even though I've never dealt with anything serious and honestly have more energy than most of them combined. When my physician tried to lecture me about needing to be more active (without even asking if I already was!!), I nearly lost it. I told her straight up that I walk twenty minutes to work and twenty minutes back every single day, plus I cycle, hike, and swim. I then asked her when was the last time she did any of those things! She had absolutely nothing left to say. That’s why I say: RESIST THE DOCTORS! TO THE BITTER END!!! 👍
OB/GYN Discussion Thread in Women's Health ·
Sophia Cook4 said:I used to see my gynecologist in a small town nearby, and honestly, he was a top-tier specialist.
But here’s the thing: I have an allergy to excess hair, so I always trim things down with a trimmer. When I went in for my first exam with him, he actually looked at me and commented, "My goodness, what a lovely hairstyle; it's truly wonderful to see someone with such an eye for design." (Good grief, just be professional!). Since that moment, I haven't stepped foot in a male gynecologist's office again. I'd much rather pay extra to switch to my current female doctor than ever deal with him again.

Hahahaha!👍 That guy is absolutely out of his mind.😉 😉 Can I book an appointment with him just to debate hairstyles?🤣
How to get rid of smelly feet? in Health ·
This could stem from several factors, such as stress or hormonal imbalances.
I would strongly suggest cotton socks with at least an 80 percent cotton content. That is the absolute minimum!
Leather footwear is also key—try to own several pairs so he can rotate them daily.

Rather than dealing with various creams and oils, I would recommend a foot deodorant spray instead. You can find them at Walmart for about five dollars. They are incredibly easy to apply, unlike oils or creams, which can be quite a hassle. The results are fantastic! Buy him a spray as soon as possible; it will be a lifesaver!
What defines a frustrated single woman? in Psychology ·
northerntrucker42 said:To be honest, most women seem to possess this somewhat irritating trait, and whether they happen to be married or not, it's something I find unappealing.
If I were to tally up every woman I know whom I actually respect, comparing those who are married against those who have never been: the married ones would lead by a margin of 3 to 1.

See? It seems we are in complete agreement on this matter!
What defines a frustrated single woman? in Psychology ·
I am concerned we might be drifting away from our original premise, which was that the percentage of an unnamed person is significantly higher among single people than among those who are married. While frustration exists in every demographic, it seems to me that for singles, that number climbs well above 80 percent, whereas for married individuals or men, it likely stays under 50 percent.

There are frustrated men out there, too. In fact, I was just grabbing coffee today with one who was acting quite hysterical. Not only did I find myself wondering why I agreed to this meeting (as if I didn't have enough of my own frustrations to deal with without absorbing his!), but I actually told him exactly what I thought. I gave it to him straight.

Have any of you ever been completely blunt with a frustrated single man or woman about how they are acting and how it usually ends up? 🙂 I just want to know what I have to look forward to... ha ha. I suspect that very soon, nobody will want to grab a coffee with me! Boo!
What defines a frustrated single woman? in Psychology ·
All the comments here are excellent and likely spot on. I’ve been focusing my observations on unhappy single women since that is the experience most familiar to me. I don't necessarily believe that single older men are any better; rather, it seems to me they are less high-strung and more prone to depression and self-pity, whereas women tend to be more aggressive in their discontent, sometimes even being quite pushy.

There are undoubtedly plenty of frustrated married people out there as well—that is certainly true—but it feels to me as though their share within the married population is smaller than the share of frustrated individuals within the single population.

I am also increasingly convinced that one can only deal with such intense personalities by cutting off all contact entirely. Kind words, explanations, or hoping things will improve—none of it carries any weight. It is quite simple: select, delete!