Ashley Moore8 said:It’s that whole "us" mentality—this idea that you absolutely have to give something to a doctor, a teacher, or a priest. 🙄
If people actually stopped offering bribes, and on the flip side, if someone who took one lost their license, got a slightly longer prison sentence, and had all their ill-gotten gains seized, we’d probably see some order established pretty quickly...
The problem is, people are naive. They think if they slide some cash to a certain professor, they'll get VIP treatment at the hospital. Yeah, right. 🙄
Usually, they just get "handled" by whatever resident happens to be on call 😛
instead.
Exactly. It's baked into our culture. Whenever I bring this up while living abroad, people act shocked—as if this is just how things work everywhere. Let me say it again: IT IS NOT. My director's daughter was recently born over in Germany, and he actually asked his sister if she should bring the doctor a little gift, like a bottle of whiskey, as a thank you. Luckily, his sister is a Canadian woman, so she set him straight immediately. She explained that in Germany, that kind of thing isn't even considered; the only thing you bring is flowers. Otherwise, both the parent and the doctor end up in hot water because it's illegal. We're also pathetic in the sense that you could be dying, but you won't get surgery for three months because you're stuck on some endless waiting list. It's ridiculous. 😠