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Lack of integrity and transparency at US in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Sophia Thomas7 said:Ahem. He wasn't just banned because of my report; he actually racked up over 100 points. In this case, we're talking three separate reports (and no, I didn't file them). He ended up getting an extended ban because he tried to open a burner account just to keep spamming this thread.

I guess we can just agree to disagree on this one.

Personally, I don't buy it (and honestly, I’d love for the admins or supermods to take a look at this one)—the idea that a moderator is allowed to stir the pot just to shut down the debate with their powers once they realize they're losing the argument. It’s one thing to moderate, but using those tools to forcibly end a discussion just because someone actually backed up their points? That feels less like management and more like picking on dissenters. 🤮

In a situation like that, I really think either another moderator on the subforum or someone from upper management should step in and address it.
Lack of integrity and transparency at US in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Sophia Thomas7 said:Actually, it just proves that warnings don't do squat, which makes deleting posts the only logical move. I don't have much else to say on it—if the admins want to clear the warnings, they can, but the posts stay gone.

🙂

Look, I wasn't even complaining about my own reputation hit. Nor was I begging to have my deleted posts restored. I simply wanted to clarify my reasoning behind what happened. Personally, I think neonfox12 was punished way too harshly with that ban.
Maybe it’s because the title of this thread is actually pretty spot-on. To me, this whole situation reeks of a lack of transparency and basic ethics. I’m not being dramatic—I’m actually quite happy with how the mods handle this sub most of the time—but in this specific instance? Yeah, it’s definitely an issue.
Lack of integrity and transparency at US in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Sophia Thomas7 said:Well, that’s it. This discussion is officially dead in the water. Honestly, looking at how this group has handled things lately, it's pretty clear the whole thing has just gone soft.

I really think we could all use a refresher on how the forum rules actually work. Honestly, both neonfox12 and you were clearly playing the game when you started your posts with "I know I’m going to get a strike, but..." You both knew exactly what you were doing.

You play the victim and act like you don't know any better whenever it suits you. But let's be real—you're sitting in a position of power, and that’s exactly why nobody is holding you accountable.

Sophia Thomas7 said:Well, that’s it. This discussion is officially dead in the water. Honestly, looking at how this group has handled things lately, it's pretty clear the whole thing has just gone soft.

I really think we could all use a refresher on how the forum rules actually work. Honestly, both neonfox12 and you were clearly playing the game when you started your posts with "I know I’m going to get a strike, but..." You both knew exactly what you were doing.

Sure, that just goes to show we actually know the forum rules inside and out. We just decided to take the hit and risk an extended ban because we were chasing something bigger—the greater good, if you will. But hey, I guess that kind of selfless logic is a bit hard for an opportunist like you to wrap your head around. 🙄
Lack of integrity and transparency at US in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Sophia Thomas7 said:If a moderator posts basically the exact same explanation twice, I don't see the point. Plus, if a huge chunk of posts gets wiped (without any formal bans), that should be taken as a good sign.

Why? In your case, you broke the rules, plain and simple. You don't comment on a moderator's official warning.

A positive sign for who, though? Or for what? Personally, I find having posts deleted to be a much harsher punishment than getting hit with a red card.

Sophia Thomas7 said:If a moderator posts basically the exact same explanation twice, I don't see the point. Plus, if a huge chunk of posts gets wiped (without any formal bans), that should be taken as a good sign.

Why? In your case, you broke the rules, plain and simple. You don't comment on a moderator's official warning.

It's simply so things don't look like an abuse of power just because we happen to have conflicting opinions on a topic. That's why.
Lack of integrity and transparency at US in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Sophia Thomas7 said:Opening a clone account while you're under a ban? Real genius move right there. How does that work again? You get a 7-day extended ban on your main profile, and then the admins will deal with this one. 🙂

p.s. The user got flagged because she decided to reply to a moderator warning using a different font color, which is definitely not how we do things here. Peace out.

Well, someone really needed to point that out—though, let's be honest, you were the one who kicked things off by claiming that views on the marriage definition referendum are the ultimate litmus test for choosing a partner, so it’s actually pretty relevant here. But the second two other folks jumped in to explain their "YES" votes with actual logic instead of just hurling insults, suddenly this whole discussion became "unwanted." 😵

And just so it doesn't look like you're being vindictive, it would have been tactically smarter if some other moderator had handed me the card (assuming I actually committed an unforgivable offense) rather than you specifically.
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
ironrider11 said:Mine was just sitting in the car under the sunshade; there was some little slip of paper inside that got stuck to the photo from all the condensation. It basically made the whole thing "invalid"...
Now... when? Like, two months ago I swapped out my other one, and it wasn't until I got home that I realized they shortened my "expiration date" by ten years... damn it...
Nobody even asked me for extra verification. Just receipts, the form, photos, my ID, old driver's license, and that was it....
Isn't that stuff only required for the first time"?

As for me, since I wear glasses, I have restrictions on my license (it used to be every 3 years, then 5, and now they’ve bumped me up to 10), which means I have to go back for medical checkups every so often. Sometimes they tell me I only need to see an eye doctor, but other times they demand a full physical examination.
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
Larry Lewis said:Does he already have a license from somewhere else?

I've had my license since I was 18—well, let's be real, I've been mentally unstable since I was 21.🙂
Nobody ever asked me a single thing—not even when the cops pulled me over while I was drunk and getting into a shouting match with them because I thought they were wiretapping my phone. That was back when I was deep in a psychosis... thinking they were tapping the lines, following me, reading my mind, all that nonsense.
But a friend of mine—she deals with some sort of psychotic episodes herself—told me they told her she had to provide medical clearance proving she doesn't have mental health issues. Unfortunately, I don't know much more than that.

Last year, when I went for my medical checkup to renew my driver's license, they asked me to bring in a signed note from my primary care physician. My doctor handed me the clearance without any drama at all, even though I’d been managing depression for the last couple of years.
Alternatives to suicide? in Psychology & Therapy ·
mellownomad30 said:Truth be told, I was doing a bit better back then

It was ages ago, though. My whole perspective has shifted since then.

I could never bring myself to take my own life. To me, that just feels like throwing in the towel.

But if things ever pushed me back to that edge again... honestly, some kind of assisted suicide would probably be the easiest way out.

The weirdest part was the week after. I wasn't even thinking about my own mess; I was stuck on that guy.
🤷If I’d gone over and provoked him, if I'd acted like a total idiot, he would’ve ended two lives in one go. He’d have been carrying a weight far heavier than anything I’m dealing with right now. I just felt bad for him, you know?

Maybe try focusing a little more on how everyone else is doing instead of making everything about you. You’re a lot easier to be around that way.
Alternatives to suicide? in Psychology & Therapy ·
mellownomad30 said:This isn't really about suicide, but it’s pretty damn close

I remember this one night hanging out with some buddies, ended up at a local dive bar, and after a few too many drinks, we decided to head out.

Just past the exit, there was this group of guys, maybe in their early 30s. As I was walking by, one of them calls out, "Hey, get over here!"
My crew just kept moving, leaving me standing there facing this guy who was clearly wasted. He starts rambling at me about his big celebrations, how he’s getting married soon, bachelor parties, all that junk. I just gave him a shrug and said, "Alright, so what now?" But as I turned to walk away, the guy grabbed my shoulder and spun me back around.
He flips open his jacket, and there it is—a handgun. He goes, "Why you acting so cocky? What if I just shot you right here?"
I don't know why, but I stayed weirdly calm. The only thought running through my head was, *Man, I hope he doesn't hit my gut; that would be the worst.* Instead of panicking, I just looked him dead in the eye and said, "Look, if you're actually gonna do it, just shoot me in the head so I don't have to suffer."
The guy just froze. He turned around and walked off. His buddy caught up to me a second later and explained the dude had just had way too much to drink and claimed he was some kind of cop or something.

The thing is, once I truly reached that point where I didn't give a damn what happened next, I actually felt... good. Like, strangely light. So, I wouldn't be surprised if people who decide to end things feel that exact same sense of peace.

It happens when they finally accept that everything is just irrelevant, and whatever comes, comes.🤷

People who decide to end their lives usually reach a point where they simply can't see any other way out of their suffering or their problems. It’s like hitting a dead end in a dark alley with no streetlights. And here’s the kicker: at the exact moment they make that decision, they might actually seem calmer. They might even appear more at peace. That’s what makes it such a massive shock to everyone around them—because to the outside world, it looks like they were finally starting to pull themselves together or having a "better" few days. It’s a heavy, jarring reality that catches people completely off guard. 😢
Psychotropic medication discussion thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Chloe Hughes6 said:Why not simply give your local pharmacy a quick call to ask? Honestly, isn't that the most direct way to get answers? You can find everything you need by talking to your pharmacist, consulting your doctor, or even just reading the printed insert inside the medication packaging—does that make sense?🙂 That little leaflet actually contains all the essential details! It’s not just a flimsy piece of paper meant to keep the tablets from rattling around like tissue paper in a shoebox; it actually provides useful information if you take a moment to look! 😁

Sure, you can check the price at CVS, and you can read the side effects and dosage instructions right on the pamphlet. But honestly, swapping info here still makes sense because people share their real-world experiences. There are certain things that aren't listed on the official insert, nor did my doctor ever mention them to me; I only found out by talking to other people who have actually taken the same medication.
My epic curve in Psychology & Therapy ·
Brian Hayes43 said:It feels as though Philip K. Dick already covered every possible corner of the imagination. 🙂

Look, he definitely wrote a massive amount of high-quality stuff, but I wouldn't say *everything*; he still left a little room for you to breathe. 😁
Why hasn't the Mount Rainier gondola been renovated yet? in Close to Politics ·
You guys seriously don't get it: the lack of a gondola is actually a massive win for public health. It forces you to actually hit the trails on foot up toward Mount Rainier. 😁
Music survey - Need your input! in Psychology ·
Honestly, I don't mind any of them, but I’ve always been more of a silent study type. It's just easier to actually lock in when things are quiet. When there's music playing, my brain ends up splitting its attention between the material and the track, which totally kills my focus.
Psychotropic medication discussion thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
fadedbear92 said:That's news to me—it usually makes me feel wired—and most people deal with some pretty nasty side effects, but I've honestly never heard of anyone using it to sleep... aren't you thinking of Seroquel?🤷

Paxil knocks me out, so I’ve started taking it at night. When I was following the original prescription and taking it in the morning, I’d be fighting to stay awake all day—which, let's be honest, was a total disaster for my productivity at work. It’s funny because if you look at the side effects, they list both insomnia and drowsiness. Clearly, everyone reacts to this stuff differently. Even my psychiatrist was scratching her head, totally baffled by how much it was making me sleep.
Psychotropic medication discussion thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Chloe Hughes6 said:Oh, brilliant! Simply wonderful! Why don't you take a look at the previous posts on this forum and find my specific thread regarding Seroquel? It is also categorized as an antidepressant, yet the manufacturer has had to pay out $600,000,000 due to various lawsuits! The New York Times even ran a headline about a $560,000,000 settlement to "fix things" regarding Seroquel. The American commission told the Pentagon not to give it to soldiers in combat, yet they continue to provide it—and every doctor will insist it's a great antidepressant, even though it's primarily used for schizophrenia! It is one of the most frequently prescribed drugs in the world. Can you find me a single patient who has stayed on the exact same antidepressant long-term without their therapy being adjusted? These studies claiming antidepressants promote neurogenesis are nothing more than fabricated data, just like the claim that Seroquel is an antidepressant; in fact, it is banned for use as an antidepressant in Canada! Do you really think The New York Times would dare run a front-page exposé on pharmaceutical fraud if there weren't hard evidence? And can you even imagine the legal firepower of a company that earns more from that one supposed "antidepressant" than the entire annual budget of the Department of Defense? Where does all that money go? Why are posts pointing out the flaws and incompetence within psychopharmacology being deleted? My post about Seroquel is still here, but whether our colleagues above will let it stay, I cannot say.

Look, Seroquel is an antipsychotic, not an antidepressant. That said, it does get prescribed occasionally to people dealing with severe depression if standard antidepressants just aren't cutting it.
Sean Sanders said:Justifying crimes is a psychopathic move. In your head, you’re trying to make those atrocities okay. The point is, you're one of those people who refuses to acknowledge what Mexicans put everyone through during those five centuries of terror, because if you did, Srebrenica would look like a drop in the ocean. That wouldn't fit your genocidal propaganda, right? You want to act like Mexicans just did it for kicks—like they were bored and decided to pull off some genocide just to be the most genocidal people in the North America—even though the NDH records show a completely different story.

Since you're clearly aware that justifying crimes is a psychopathic thing to do, why exactly are you doing it? 😕 🤷
Melissa Peterson19 said:

So, what, everyone the partisans killed after the war was some kind of monster?!? 😵 🤦 And most of them were executed without any sort of trial.
In my humble opinion, making claims about the partisans being sinless should be treated with the same level of scrutiny as claiming the Holocaust didn't happen or that Jews somehow deserved it.
The summary judgment is perfectly legal. You don't hold trials for terrorists who refuse to stop fighting; you deal with them on the spot. Many who weren't found guilty have already been released. Most managed to survive their Crusader journeys.

Look, are you seriously using the word "equal" to compare the Nationalists killed by the partisans to Jews? Those Nationalists were murdering Jews; that is exactly why they were eliminated, among other reasons. Hey!

Provide the specifications. My claim was a generalization, not a calculated count. If you intend to refute it, present precise data so we can actually examine it. Otherwise, be quiet.
At Bleiburg and during those Crusader marches, it wasn't "terrorists continuing the fight" being slaughtered—it was unarmed home guards and civilians. That’s the partisan atrocity I’m talking about!
The Nationalists (especially the ones who actually pulled the trigger) mostly weren't part of the group that surrendered to the British and ended up in pits in Canada and elsewhere; instead, they fled and just went on living their lives in South America.
And yeah, denying or justifying anyone's crimes should be punished equally.
Melissa Peterson19 said:Come on, if you have specific data, present it and draw a conclusion. Once again, we’re just hearing people lament about perceived injustices regarding who hasn't been prosecuted. Let's see the facts.

Double that. You can't commit a crime against a criminal. Punishment and legal execution—that’s the only way.

So, what, everyone the partisans killed after the war was some kind of monster?!? 😵 🤦 And most of them were executed without any sort of trial.
In my humble opinion, making claims about the partisans being sinless should be treated with the same level of scrutiny as claiming the Holocaust didn't happen or that Jews somehow deserved it.
jadeseal4 said:The persistent silence maintained by the government, the prosecutor's office, and the various NGOs—those groups that typically command so much media attention—regarding the partisan atrocities committed against Americans, Nationalists, and Home Guard members alike, serves as a powerful indictment of the deeply one-sided way in which victims are treated today.

I can already hear the partisan sympathizers jumping in to claim that the term "partisan crime" is a contradictio in adiecto. 🙄
Nicholas King said:I didn't 🙂.
Personally, I don't mind if someone lets out a few choice words when they're genuinely angry—even if the profanity is particularly foul. But if someone isn't even upset and just starts swearing—especially using God's name—simply because they feel they can... well, that really rubs me the wrong way.

It’s quite a curious phenomenon, I suppose—this massive group of people who, while literally leaning against a church pew, manage to conjure up the most complex and elaborate blasphemous insults during a heated debate—insults that a simple-minded agnostic or atheist mind probably wouldn't even be capable of dreaming up.

It remains a bit of an enigma to me. And honestly, the moment we touch upon that subject, we find ourselves jumping straight into a full-blown forum war about religion and all that other stuff—which is something I try my best to avoid🙂.

Fine, I did what I was told and searched on Google. 😁

Nicholas King said:I didn't 🙂.
Personally, I don't mind if someone lets out a few choice words when they're genuinely angry—even if the profanity is particularly foul. But if someone isn't even upset and just starts swearing—especially using God's name—simply because they feel they can... well, that really rubs me the wrong way.

It’s quite a curious phenomenon, I suppose—this massive group of people who, while literally leaning against a church pew, manage to conjure up the most complex and elaborate blasphemous insults during a heated debate—insults that a simple-minded agnostic or atheist mind probably wouldn't even be capable of dreaming up.

It remains a bit of an enigma to me. And honestly, the moment we touch upon that subject, we find ourselves jumping straight into a full-blown forum war about religion and all that other stuff—which is something I try my best to avoid🙂.

No, in my specific case, we were dealing with a textbook example of an agnostic-atheist individual.