Patrick Sullivan3 said:I find myself part of a group that defaults to "I don't know" whenever the question comes up: "Does God exist?" Even though I grew up in a very strict, deeply religious household, my answer today remains "I don't know." Growing up, I was told that saying "I don't know" is actually worse than just saying "no." They claimed that if you can't give a definitive answer, you aren't a stable, strong, or wise person. But isn't "I don't know" actually the most objective response? Especially when you've weighed both sides and all the subjective evidence out there.
Why is it that we never experience anything concrete enough to be absolutely certain—even though our religious ancestors claim they were? And what if being certain isn't even necessary? Why this desperate need to pick a side right now, while we're still alive? Do those people who swear their faith is unshakable ever, deep down, admit to themselves, "I'm just not sure"?
"I don't know" is the only honest answer; anything else is, in my opinion, mere fantasy and wishful thinking. Saying "I believe" involves a hope for which you have no actual proof. For concepts outside of God, "I believe" might include some sort of statistical probability—like saying "I believe the Sun will rise tomorrow," even though there remains a possibility it won't if something happens to the Earth or its people.
When you truly reflect on the question—once you've studied the evolution of thought through philosophy, the history of science, and the history of religion—saying "I don't know" is the most sincere thing you can offer. When you say "I don't know," you should understand *why* you don't know. When you say "I believe," you don't need a reason. It is enough to point out that a massive number of people believe it, and thus it is socially accepted. Faith is essentially a numbers game, which is either laughable or tragic to someone who actually thinks, yet those numbers and the resulting social laws ensure it must be tolerated. The concept of "political correctness" exists largely because of those numbers.