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neonstag63 said:Evelyn, yeah, it’s totally normal to take a break—you should probably expect your period within those 7 days anyway. 🙂

Dotty, I'm not really sure if your OBGYN would prescribe birth control for just a specific window of time. 🤔 In my case, I just got a recurring prescription and went back for a check-up after 12 months (plus, you need a regular exam once a year anyway, so you might as well get the refill while you're there). 😉

aha, that's what I thought—they made it sound like they usually only give you enough for a few months max here.
I don’t really know much about contraception—actually heading to my first appointment at Planned Parenthood soon. How long can they usually prescribe pills for at one time? I haven't scrolled through this thread yet, but has anyone found them helpful for things like PMS symptoms, unwanted hair growth, or whatever else...
slydriver56 said:Man, I get that for some people it’s a total nightmare—everyone handles stuff differently, obviously—but calling it "pleasant" is a massive stretch... definitely not.

Once the tampon was out, I wouldn't even let him touch my nose to clean it anymore—she'd practically start snarling at me🤣 so I just ended up doing it myself. Even now, thinking about getting a nose piercing makes me nervous about how she'd react when she feels something piercing the septum😳
slydriver56 said:Removing the packing only takes a few seconds—it’s more of an uncomfortable sensation than anything else, but you get through it fast 🙂)

Honestly, I'm terrified of the surgery itself... I'm just scared of how things will turn out in the end... brr

for me, having that packing removed was easily the worst part. everything else went smoothly, except for that one moment.
Dealing with bad cramps? in Women's Health ·
Benjamin Martin65 said:I can't help but wonder, why exactly is Neofen such a hard pill to swallow? 🤷
See, I deal with some pretty excruciating pain myself, and for quite a while now, Neofen has been my one reliable monthly staple, and I have to say, it does wonders for the discomfort, it really is excellent for that 🙏 and what I appreciate most is how incredibly fast it kicks in; usually within about twenty minutes, I'm already feeling a sense of relief... and it stays with me for a good long while... so, truthfully, I wouldn't dream of switching it out right now.

I don't get the hate either. Neofen Forte is a lifesaver for me—it hits fast.
Dealing with bad cramps? in Women's Health ·
Gary Kelly9 said:So, my period finally decided to show up on Tuesday afternoon, somewhere between 5 and 6 PM. My stomach is still absolutely killing me, which means we’re pushing the 48-hour mark now. Honestly, I was three days late, and let me tell you, those three days were pure agony; I knew I wasn't pregnant, but the wait was just torture because nothing was happening. During those three days, I was popping pills left and right because my lower back was basically breaking me—I kept feeling like it was finally starting, but then, nothing. When it finally hit on Tuesday, it was absolute chaos; I ended up taking a whole handful of meds plus some Advil Duo. Woke up this morning in total misery, and I spent the entire morning stuck to the toilet dealing with cramps and... well, you know. A friend told me, "Girl, every month you act like you're going through childbirth." And look, it’s always been painful since I started—my legs feel like jelly and everything—but a few times a year, it hits me with these insane waves that are just next level. On top of that, the bleeding is super light; there's barely anything on the pad unless I'm actually using the bathroom.
Now, what I really wanted to say is that I know exactly what real pain feels like, and honestly, rarely anyone gets how much it physically incapacitates you. Like I said, every cycle hurts and passes once you take enough meds, but during this two-day nightmare, I remembered this one month where I only took two pills six hours apart. The day before that cycle started, I happened to drink a liter of magnesium water—totally by accident. I'm wondering if it was just a fluke or if the magnesium actually did its thing, since there's about 1g of magnesium in a liter of that stuff. Either way, next month I am definitely drinking some a day or two beforehand, and I'll let you guys know how it goes. Plus, the magnesium helps move things along with digestion, which is also a huge struggle for me during PMS... that bloating is just the worst.

Same here😬—it really just sends me running to the bathroom, you know? 😳Here's the deal: ten days before, the PMS kicked in, but I couldn't afford to grab vitamins since they're so pricey these days. Now I'm just getting "false alarms" every single day until the real thing actually shows up.
Dealing with bad cramps? in Women's Health ·
Jesse Patel78 said:Have you managed to find any way to manage this that doesn't involve popping pills? For me, a warm or even hot bath usually does the trick—though how one is supposed to manage a full soak during those specific days of the month is quite the conundrum! 😢 I’ve been wondering if this is happening because I’ve become too sedentary lately; I don't get nearly enough leg exercise anymore, whereas I used to be significantly more active. What’s the situation on your end? Has this been a lifelong issue for you, or is it something new?

It is truly miserable—to the point where I am actually weeping from the sheer muscle pain during those days. 🤷

I can't really work out then—mostly because my whole body is aching and I feel dizzy as hell... honestly, I don't think I'd even be able to move after that kind of inflammation sets in.

A long, hot shower actually helps with the pain while I'm under the water—it makes a difference. What I really try to do is just sleep as much as possible on those days... and avoid people entirely. When the depression hits that hard, being around anyone is just too much. 🤷

Angela Wright said:Magnesium really does the trick for me because it helps dial down those muscle spasms. You might want to try taking some Advil.

Look, there’s zero proof that magnesium and calcium actually do anything—researchers just use that vague "may help" phrasing to stay safe. Anyway, I’m thinking about starting a supplement with magnesium, calcium, and zinc next month... we'll see if it actually does anything for these PMS symptoms or if it's just a waste of money...

bolddriver18 said:I managed to finally get my painful periods under control just by adjusting my diet and staying active. Apparently, certain foods can spike the hormone levels responsible for that cramping discomfort. It’s worth a shot—you really have nothing to lose.

Try switching up your eating habits at least a week before your cycle starts.

What you should be eating:

- Foods packed with essential fatty acids (think flaxseeds, walnuts, beans, soy, fish, pumpkin seeds, olive oil, peas...)

- Foods rich in calcium, zinc, and vitamins B, C, and E (legumes, barley, oats, corn, rye, rice, whole grains, leafy greens, broccoli, sauerkraut, peanuts, walnuts, almonds, sweet potatoes)

What to avoid for at least a week leading up to your period:

- Refined carbohydrates (cookies, pastries, white sugar, white bread, flour-based baked goods)

- Tropical fruits

- Meat, eggs, margarine, and vegetable shortening

- Fried or greasy foods, garlic, and onions

- Dairy products, ice cream, cottage cheese, and yogurt

One other thing that worked for me: I started taking a pain reliever right before the cramps actually kicked in, or even a day beforehand, and it made a noticeable difference in how much I suffered.

Give this a try for a month. Stick to the plan strictly and see if it makes a difference for you.

This is basically how I eat anyway. As for those tablets—I’m signing off on that idea—I just grab them the second I feel even a hint of my period coming... usually end up popping two at once. 😬Honestly, I don't even feel the pain until a few hours after the meds wear off. Sometimes—when my PMS is hitting me particularly hard—I've actually had to take them a couple of days early just to stay ahead of it...
Dealing with bad cramps? in Women's Health ·
Jesse Patel78 said:Does anyone else deal with intense muscle aches during those days? I mean—just like all of you—I get the standard abdominal cramping, the usual stuff—but my leg muscles get so inflamed during this time that I don't even notice the stomach pain anymore. Sometimes the ache in my legs is so debilitating that I can't even stand or walk; I just want to lie down and massage the sore spots indefinitely. This isn't something I've always dealt with—it’s a relatively recent development—and I’ve never actually brought it up with my doctor because, frankly, I always forget about the muscle pain in the moment—or perhaps I’ve just become desensitized to it... I don't take any pills unless the pain becomes truly unbearable. I'm curious—has anyone else encountered these specific symptoms?

Yeah. It’s basically my monthly routine at this point. The muscle inflammation is constant, and if I even bump into something lightly, I end up with these horrific bruises. One time, while dealing with PMS, I went out shopping—and honestly, just walking around and having my shopping bag brush against my leg was enough. A couple of days later, I realized the entire side of my leg was almost black... looked like I'd been hit by a car. 🤷
Dealing with bad cramps? in Women's Health ·
quietfox384 said:Well, alright then—what else is there for her to do if not try to reduce the pain? 😕
It costs her absolutely nothing to give it a shot. Maybe it could at least dull the discomfort enough so that her regular medication actually works—instead of having to resort to injections or ending up in the ER.

My bad, I phrased that poorly—what I meant was if the pain is that intense, she might not even notice if this "helps." I know from experience, sometimes my meds just don't cut it. Anyway, I'm all for taking vitamins and staying consistent with them.
Dealing with bad cramps? in Women's Health ·
quietfox384 said:And have you considered trying magnesium?
It isn't going to be some kind of miracle cure—not by a long shot—but it might just help a little.

That stuff is for PMS—calcium, magnesium, B & C vitamins, etc. I’m not sure if it would touch the pain, maybe just take the edge off. 🤷Personally, Advil helps me out—stops the pain almost instantly.
Period talk: Questions and advice in Women's Health ·
driftingheron97 said:It’s still lingering for me somehow—I don't know—it usually only lasts five days, so it doesn't feel normal having this brown stuff going on for days after I'm done... sorry... TMI...

Sounds pretty normal to me. I get some brownish spotting for a few days afterward too...🤷
Period talk: Questions and advice in Women's Health ·
I see this thread is picking up steam, so I figured I’d drop in here too...

Does anyone else deal with absolutely brutal PMS? Like, debilitating levels? I'm wondering if this is all just one massive hormonal imbalance—has anyone actually talked to their OB-GYN about it, and what was the verdict? It feels like things have just spiraled since I got older. Sometimes it hits me a week before my period, sometimes two... nausea, acne (which won't budge until my cycle starts), getting sick at the smell of food, weakness, cramps, headaches, even itching all over. I get these hot and cold sweats, and suddenly my clothes and blankets feel like they're pricking my skin... not to mention the mental toll. I become such a wreck during this time that I end up isolating myself from everyone. My relationships can't even survive because my anxiety attacks are so bad during my cycle, plus I've already been diagnosed with depression. I’m planning to see a specialist, but honestly, I’m terrified they won't take me seriously or bother running a full hormone panel.😢
Dealing with bad cramps? in Women's Health ·
What kind of painkillers actually work for you guys? I always just grab Neofen Forte—it’s basically the strongest thing I can get without a prescription 😢
To everyone who sent me those massive messages about Glusac—I’m currently without Wi-Fi. I’ll get back to you once I can, because messing around with mobile data and tethering is seriously driving me up the wall. Just so we’re clear, I’m not being a bitch or ignoring you... I know exactly how it feels when you're staring down a million questions at once. 😳
jadebison24 said:And one more thing—when you show up at the doctor's office, the very first thing you need to do is grab the contract and actually read the whole damn thing before signing.

Well, I didn't get any contract at all.
rustygardener172 said:... me, a total degenerate 🙈

...but if I'm being totally honest... before the surgery, you aren't even thinking about it because you're too terrified, and after it's done, you're just too wiped out... The next day when I went in to get everything removed, my mom paid him, and as far as I can remember, he didn't even give her a receipt. I should probably ask her... He didn't even bother counting the cash, he just tossed the envelope in a drawer next to some scrap paper and kept talking 😁 I remember thinking at the time how "cool" it was—that he clearly didn't care about the money and just trusted us... It’s a shame it didn't occur to me then that it was weird he didn't provide a receipt, and that he obviously cares way more about the cash than his "reputation" suggests 😁

Me too 🙈

Like you said, I was just sitting there in a knot of pure nerves while my mom was arguing with him—I don't recall him giving her a receipt, though maybe he did 🤔

Anyway, I agree with both the criticisms and the praise thrown his way.
Glusac's anesthesiologist was actually great. Really nice person, too—and everything went totally smooth without any issues. Honestly, I don't mind anesthesia at all... 😳
rustygardener172 said:😕 I didn't realize the cartilage on the outside of the nose was an issue...

They aren't just going to poke through the surface—they’ll end up making a hole right in your nose. 😬 That’s where the cartilage is, so think about it. Honestly, I'm terrified... I wouldn't even let Glušac look at my nose anymore after the surgery, so when someone gets close with a needle, I feel like they’re going to stab me right in the eye. 😁

As for the pain, it seems like nobody actually felt anything when the tampons were removed, but just thinking about it makes me want to gag. 😢 That’s really the only part that hurts, if it even hurts at all... It’s not about how intense the pain is, it’s more about the *type* of sensation. It’s just... ugh, disgusting.
rustygardener172 said:There’s nothing to worry about... it’s just skin.

You forgot about the crunch factor...😬
rustygardener172 said:She pierced my nose with one of those piercing guns...

There is zero chance she'd let anyone use a piercing gun on her!😱 I mean, maybe everything else doesn't hurt that much, but I just can't wrap my head around the idea that a nose wouldn't be sore right after surgery...😳 Honestly, I have this feeling the inside where they stitched it up is just going to pop open and fall right off—kind of like Michael Jackson. 😳