driftingcanyon16 said:The diaspora can't be the moderator if they don't want to, and I'm not asking them to be. But I do expect that when everyone starts complaining, she’ll ease up on the warnings and just let people talk. As soon as there's even a hint that a discussion might wander, she jumps in screaming "OFFTOPIC" or "NO CHAT." Honestly, it's getting ridiculous. 🤣
It’s become a joke; someone posts something slightly off-topic and suddenly Skattemus is ready to lay down the law. 🤣
Doesn't matter if it's just a yellow card and no points lost—it's the principle of it.
Yeah, but what's actually wrong with the warnings? I mean, would you rather she stay silent, stay silent, and then start handing out red cards once things really get out of hand? I think the warnings are just there to gently point out that you've stepped outside the scope of the thread..
As for the chat stuff, the explanation is below, so I won't write it twice...
Then why have separate threads for socializing? What's the point of splitting them up? Why isn't there just one big general chat? Or keep the specific threads and just have one massive shared chat for everyone.
Well, see... that's actually a pretty complicated issue. We tried having a joint chat a few times over the years, but it never ended well because the fighting was constant, almost like a brawl between Canada and Australia. People clearly can't handle joking around without clashing... And since folks from other topics weren't really involved, they just stayed quiet.. Basically, that whole project failed miserably a few times... 🤷
And regarding separate chats... Well, back when there was one giant topic for an entire country (like Canada or Australia), it was a mess because people would constantly jump in with questions that had been answered a million times already. It drove the veteran users crazy, and they either got ignored or trolled.
On top of that, the visibility was terrible. If you were looking for actual info, you had to dig through pages and pages of chatter to find anything useful. Since those threads would hit 200 or 300 pages, it was a huge waste of time...
Plus, even back then, you had multiple threads covering immigration, life, and jobs... Nothing has really changed fundamentally; we're just trying to keep this specific thread as chat-free as possible. It's to avoid that old situation where you had to wade through a mountain of fluff just to find a single piece of information...
I believe there are some problematic people in there, and there are. Sometimes I genuinely wonder what's wrong with certain people, but like I said, instead of dealing with them using heavy red cards—especially the real troublemakers who need permanent bans—she doesn't. She plays it safe with preventative warnings.
In reality, she's either afraid to confront the difficult ones, or she just doesn't know how. Meanwhile, the diaspora section continues to wither away as a boring, dead sub-forum that nobody wants to visit, especially the smart ones. 🤣😁I mean, I had to
Look, she’ll deal with them, but since this is just a small sub-forum, I don't think she wants to bury everyone in bans for no reason..
I know a few people have permanent access to this sub-forum and things are fine now, even if they keep cloning accounts to troll and cause trouble again..
So, overall, what you said about the troublemakers doesn't really hold up... most of the actual problems were handled, and the rest aren't bad enough to warrant a ban. Just give them a warning and call it a day. 🤷
And regarding the forum being boring or dead... well, that’s kind of on the users. I can't remember a single thread where people didn't start tearing each other apart pretty quickly—either because someone was too patriotic toward America, or because they were bashing the country they live in now, or arguing about how Americans, Southerners, or whatever group is being targeted... Honestly, after a while, every thread just goes south..🤷
People just don't know how to have a decent debate. If she starts handing out bans, everyone complains. If she stays hands-off and just uses warnings, they complain about that too. It feels like no matter what she does, she can't win... 🙄
The fact that she's in a different time zone isn't the users' problem. 🤷 I don't get why that matters. And what's the deal with la Luna? Why is she even a moderator then?
I'm just saying, it can be an issue..
As for la Luna, I'm not sure. Like she said, she hasn't had much time lately, which probably explains why she hasn't been active as a moderator recently (to be honest, I haven't seen her in months, so I don't know exactly what "recently" means to her)... She mentioned she'll be around more often, so hopefully things will settle down.. 🤷