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I'm about to relapse, please help! in Psychology · Jun 21, 2007

The girl made herself perfectly clear in her opening post.
So please stop badgering her about hooking up when she isn't interested, even if I’d probably give her the same advice.

In my opinion, your best bet is to have your grandma pick up the slack for you.😛
A junkie could definitely pull that off.
I just hope she isn't out on leave too.😬

Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy · Jun 16, 2007

Paul Perez said:
up99 says:
If he just completely cut himself off from society, he wouldn't have any fears left, right? He’d just be vibing in his own hallucinations without a single worry or any pain involved.

That is exactly my point.
What you're calling the "social component" is actually a totally fluid concept that shifts depending on the era, much like what people decide counts as "normal thought" at any given time.

It all boils down to context...

It’s just like how we look at physiological changes—like brain structure, for example. You can label them as anomalies if you're looking through the lens of the "statistical majority," or you can see them as simple variations if you're looking through the lens of evolution.

Exactly.

I wonder how long it will take us to realize the destructive impact of these conclusions, which are so often tied to labeling things as "anomalies."
Everywhere you look, people are shouting "anomaly!", failing to grasp that a human being is a creature with a body—which has likely evolved toward its peak—and a soul that is still in the process of evolving toward perfection.
How much longer until we understand that these perspectives act as anchors, forcing one stage of spiritual evolution to be treated as a final state just because it was diagnosed as an anomaly? Who even gives anyone the right to do that?!!

And then what? Just hand out more drugs to the "patient" to ensure they stay stuck in that initial phase.
They refuse to leave the cave, never knowing what lies outside.!!

Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy · Jun 16, 2007

Paul Perez said:
up99 says:
If he just completely cut himself off from society, he wouldn't have any fears left, right? He’d just be vibing in his own hallucinations without a single worry or any pain involved.

That is exactly my point.
What you're calling the "social component" is actually a totally fluid concept that shifts depending on the era, much like what people decide counts as "normal thought" at any given time.

It all boils down to context...

It’s just like how we look at physiological changes—like brain structure, for example. You can label them as anomalies if you're looking through the lens of the "statistical majority," or you can see them as simple variations if you're looking through the lens of evolution.

And that leads us right to the conclusion that the social component is essentially a byproduct of our egos. Because of that, it's constantly shifting and unstable.
Since it's so fluid, you can't go looking for truth within it, because truth is timeless. What was true a thousand years ago remains true today, and will stay true for the next thousand.
Ultimately, this suggests the ego isn't truth—it's just a distorted reflection of our actual nature.
People with schizophrenia, whether fully or partially, lack an ego.

So, what does that tell us, and why are there so many contradictions?
Why do they endure pain, suffering, and intense hallucinations, while we—who are so certain of our egos—are considered perfectly "normal"?

What even is "normal"? Perhaps what isn't normal wouldn't be considered so if the majority weren't fundamentally abnormal themselves...😁

Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy · Jun 15, 2007

Paul Perez, I honestly think someone with schizophrenia is actually terrified of their own hallucinations.
Look, I’ve spent my whole life experimenting with different substances—I’ve tried pretty much everything—so I feel like I have enough experience to speak on this.

When you really start digging into your own psyche, you realize that what we call "society" is just one single dimension of consciousness. It's a dimension that each of us shapes through our own unique experiences, and you have to mold your thoughts specifically to fit into it if you want to belong.
For someone with schizophrenia, reality becomes relative, which clashes with our standard perception of the world that is entirely conditioned by social factors.
Because of that, every "normal" thought gets twisted. Everything that is accepted as fact can be completely upended in their mind.
In a way, they aren't wrong.

If a person with schizophrenia could totally detach from the social component, they wouldn't have any fears; they could just exist within their hallucinations without any of the pain.

Is spirituality a form of personal growth? in Spirituality · May 31, 2007

bluebison70 said:Problems always seem to crop up whenever we use a word as vague as "ego." I mean, are we talking about the ego in a Freudian sense? Or is it just the simple "I" that I keep using—as in, I work, I eat lunch, I write, I sleep, I don't think, I think? Is there even a real "I," or is it just a placeholder term used to cover up something much more indeterminate?

Then there's the whole issue of identity. It's another unknown. What does someone actually mean when they say "identity"? Are we talking about national identity, cultural identity, gender identity, and so on? How can we even define it enough to have a meaningful discussion? If everyone is operating under a different definition, then I guess we're all just talking past each other.

Show me what you look like without an ego.

By the way, this was nicely written..

Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy · May 31, 2007

@Brian Mitchell44, if your friend isn't looking for help, you aren't actually helping him by trying to force it on him...

Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy · May 30, 2007

I did a quick Google search, and apparently, that’s an antipsychotic. It's typically prescribed for people dealing with acute psychosis... which doesn't necessarily mean they have schizophrenia, though it could be the case.
It might be worth reaching out to Dorothy; she really knows her stuff about this kind of thing.
From what I understand, if that’s the only medication being taken, I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that it's schizophrenia.

Well, why don't you just ask him directly? It could just be a temporary psychotic episode, which might explain why he seems so emotionally volatile from the meds.
Maybe tell him not to worry too much about it unnecessarily.

Has there been any history of drug use?

Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy · May 30, 2007

swiftowl69 said:Hey everyone.

I really need some input here because I’m completely lost. I married someone who has schizophrenia—something I didn't even realize until about a month ago. For a long time, I couldn't make sense of anything—the erratic behavior, the weird shifts, just a mountain of things I couldn't put a finger on. Then, by pure chance, I found his medication, did a quick search online, and felt like the floor dropped out from under me. He still hasn't realized that I know. He shows no sign of ever coming clean, and frankly, I have no idea how to handle this. Please don't mistake me for being selfish—I'm not just thinking about myself—but I need to know: am I in danger? At first, I just thought he was being stubborn; I came up with all sorts of excuses for his behavior to justify it to myself. But once the truth clicked, I just... shut down. I stopped pushing back. Now, he’s perfectly content because I’ve become this "wonderful," compliant version of myself, and honestly? It scares me. If I hadn't stumbled upon those pills, I would never have suspected a medical issue. He’s brilliant, has a great career, and loves me—but when he gets angry, he retreats into himself. He isn't physically aggressive, but he's verbally intense—he deflects by attacking, insists everything is my fault, tells me I'm the one who isn't "normal" and needs help... he says it all. Before I knew the truth, I actually started believing him. He refuses to acknowledge any issues exist; he just demands constant happiness and positivity, which is impossible. From what I can tell, he’s on high-end meds, though I still don't know how long he's been dealing with this—he's 27 now. I'm trying to piece things together, but there are so many questions and so many gaps in the story.
Thanks.

That's an interesting situation... I see you aren't too panicked, and you shouldn't be... You see, some people just don't want trouble, they just want happiness. What can you do, he's a good soul...

What specific meds is he taking? I ask because it might not necessarily mean he has schizophrenia; it could just be one of the drugs used for other things, like treating phobias, for instance...

Also, I wanted to ask more about his behavior. I get that it's weird, but could you elaborate a bit?
For example, in Tibet, it's perfectly normal to come across someone who doesn't speak. Someone who hasn't uttered a word in years.
That man is respected there as a practitioner of silence, whereas here, he'd be on a cocktail of drugs or locked up, maybe even restrained.😲
It's terrible, creepy, and totally inhuman and selfish...👎

I feel so ugly... in Psychology · May 29, 2007

Lawrence Reed5 said:Honestly, the only real way to tackle that issue of yours is to go all in on Accutane

Is this just some new, overhyped "Nivea" product that everyone is suddenly obsessed with? 😉

I feel so ugly... in Psychology · May 29, 2007

Laura Mendoza said:I hear you, I really do... but then again, you won't find a bus with zero wait times or zero passengers either, so there you go...🤣

It wouldn't be a bad idea if every country designated a specific city, small town, or even just a tiny corner where the local laws regarding bars don't apply—somewhere organized differently, where you have maximum freedom as long as you aren't hurting anyone.
I heard places like that exist in the Netherlands or Finland, somewhere along those lines.😁

I feel so ugly... in Psychology · May 29, 2007

brightgardener40 said:and I thought she found someone better looking than you after she moved on 😉 🙂

Joe! 🙂 😁

Is spirituality a form of personal growth? in Spirituality · May 29, 2007

Nancy Thompson3 said:How exactly does selfishness actually serve humanity? I mean, think about it... how does just hoarding wealth—letting it sit there, gathering dust without ever actually putting it toward some kind of productive activity or meaningful cause—help anyone? It seems counterintuitive, I guess. Maybe there's a logic to it that I'm just too cynical to see, but on the surface, it feels like we're just spinning our wheels.
Tesla basically walked away from making a profit on AC power. I mean, he didn't exactly have a fleet of 100 Rolls Royces to his name, though honestly, he could've easily had every single Rolls Royce on the planet if he'd played it differently. Maybe he just didn't care about the money, I guess. It’s just one of those things.
He wasn't being selfish, really... I mean, if you look at it that way, the only thing he actually lived for was the WORK. Just pure, unadulterated labor. That was his entire existence, I guess.
Osho was nothing more than a master of the bluff—just constant pivoting, empty posturing, and endless streams of nonsense. Honestly, I guess if you look past all that noise, there’s really nothing left behind but a total illusion.

I guess both sides probably got what they wanted out of it. We can't really ignore the fact that we're talking about two completely different cultures here. And let's be honest—Osho could have easily cruised through with his whole philosophy back in the 60s in the States, especially during that massive explosion of LSD and hippie culture. It was just the right environment for him, I suppose.

I mean, honestly? None of that hippie culture stuff actually did anything useful for humanity. Maybe it gave us a slight bump in birth rates, but that’s about it. Everything else stayed exactly the same—if anything, things actually got worse. The military-industrial complex and those central power hubs just found a better excuse to tighten their grip on everything. It was basically just a way for them to say, "Look at these hippies and what happens the second we loosen the reins even slightly."
Drugs aren't positive. They never will be. I mean, honestly, people try to spin it however they want, but at the end of the day, it's just not a positive thing. It's never going to be.

🙏

I'm stepping in!

You both make valid points. I'll admit that..

And I don't think drugs are positive either, except maybe weed..😁

I feel so ugly... in Psychology · May 29, 2007

restlesshound27 said:Man, now you've actually got me curious.....😕

Was it about her or you? You can always hit me up in a DM if you don't wanna deal with all the random people on here who think they're experts on everything...😬

🙂

It’s not about looks, and it’s about me..
Let's just say we listened to The Beatles a little too much back then, and I wasn't exactly feeling great about myself either.
We were just two lost college kids in NYC, completely unprepared for the real world.

That's all

Is spirituality a form of personal growth? in Spirituality · May 29, 2007

boldsailor2 said:latifa@
I'm not even talking about you—just speaking generally...
😉

If you want me to be blunt, here it is—

Yoga practice is all about building strength on every level—which naturally leads to more confidence (and actual guts) along with mental peace and fulfillment. Anyone who's actually walking this path and staying consistent can tell you that—it’s definitely not just some abstract theory... 🙂

And what about Kundalini? That really boosts self-confidence..😬

For Borut> What you're saying about Osho makes sense, but don't forget that Osho and Tesla actually share one common goal: helping people and serving humanity..
And they both likely succeeded. We have to remember we're looking at two completely different cultures, and that Osho was able to casually "operate" with his message back in the 60s here in the USA during the explosion of LSD and hippie culture.

I feel so ugly... in Psychology · May 29, 2007

Laura Mendoza said:Look, honey... a couple of years ago, my skin wasn't great either, but thank God it cleared up eventually. Either way, it isn't the end of the world! Besides, this isn't permanent. At the very least, you have makeup available to cover things up today (I'm not necessarily preaching heavy foundation and all that, but if it helps you feel more confident...👍 )! There are people out there dealing with much heavier stuff, though I know our problems always seem to be the biggest...
For example, I have major issues with my legs! I'm thin, but my legs are just a disaster... and they'll always be that way. But those little breakouts of yours will vanish one day! Until then, don't let it get to you and stop thinking you're ugly. If everyone tells you that you aren't, believe them—I'm sure they aren't all lying to you! Just remember: there will always be something you aren't happy with, but try to embrace it as part of yourself. You definitely have beautiful features, so highlight them! If you have great legs, show them off! If you have a gorgeous smile, use it! If you have amazing hair, wear it down! Just keep moving forward like that and everything will be fine! 😘

Blueberries, there isn't a single city out there without some scammers... 🙂

(unfortunately)

I feel so ugly... in Psychology · May 29, 2007

Thanks, thanks everyone,

just listen to me...

thanks, really..

🙂 🙂

Oh, and nobody even asked how things ended with my ex. Honestly, it's probably better that way. I won't tell you..
It would just be a disaster for this thread, which has been on such an upward trajectory lately..👍

Is spirituality a form of personal growth? in Spirituality · May 29, 2007

Nancy Thompson3 said:It’s for the exact same reason wealthy Romans loved flaunting their gold. It's because he was just someone who rose from nothing—someone who jumped from rags to riches. I guess there isn't any other explanation. Anything else is just pure self-delusion.

Look, if you'll let me, I have a different take on this...
Everything there was to "unmask," Osho already unmasked. There isn't a question he won't answer—and by that, of course, I don't mean things like "what's the circumference of the sun" or "how many microchips are in a smartphone," topics where you clearly hold expert status.
Furthermore, since he answered all those questions, he naturally reached a certain level of realization. The real question is: what comes after that point? If it's nothingness, fine. Total void, whatever.
But when you actually arrive at that void, what then? You can choose to stay there and stop caring about material things entirely, or you can simply enjoy the material world while you're still living in it.
I think he chose the latter.
And he did it with, I'd say, a certain refined taste—complete with a bit of a rock 'n' roll attitude. Like, "Oh, you guys are flexing your gold? A single gold bar? Watch this, I'm going to build myself a car out of gold... and not just one, but five."

Do you see where I'm coming from, Nancy?

Is spirituality a form of personal growth? in Spirituality · May 28, 2007

Fair enough, this whole discussion makes sense. But just because I rely on my laptop or electricity doesn't mean I'm inherently interdependent with others. Similarly, participating in daily life shouldn't require me to adopt whatever dominant value system happens to be in place at the moment.

The fact that I work and earn money isn't about being conditioned by anyone else; it’s about being conditioned by my own Self. No one is forcing you to wake up at 8:00 AM, put on a tie, and head to the office—you’re the one pushing yourself to do that.
Nobody is forcing you to get up at 7:00 AM, throw on coveralls, and head to the car wash, either. You choose to do it, or you're driven by your own needs rather than someone else's.
Furthermore, absolutely nobody is forcing you to say hi to your neighbor or smile at the cashier. Those are entirely your own choices, even if they carry certain consequences (like your neighbor refusing to lend you their lawnmower later).

If you drive a nice Mercedes because you truly believe in its quality, comfort, and reliability, there's nothing wrong with that. It’s also not a problem if you drive it just so people will say, "Look, he's driving the latest Mercedes," but that's honestly a bit pathetic...

A question for Nancy Thompson3: why do you think Osho drove all those things he did, especially the gold ones?

Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy · May 27, 2007

Nicole Barrett76;8675518 said:
Nicole Barrett76 said:I find myself pondering a specific question, which I previously attempted to pose within the health forum—or so I believed. However, it seems my thread has vanished into the void.

The inquiry is this:

Is it entirely possible to endure a psychotic episode while completely alone in one's home? Or perhaps, could such an event occur so subtly that no one else notices, leaving you as the sole witness to your own fractured reality once the fog finally lifts?

Allow me to clarify my intent;

I am certainly not suggesting that such experiences are synonymous with schizophrenia. Rather, my curiosity lies in whether one can undergo such an episode without it necessarily serving as a definitive diagnosis of schizophrenia.

Furthermore, I feel it is high time that our psychiatric classifications expanded beyond the traditional silos of schizophrenia, depression, mania, bipolar disorder, neurosis, intellectual disability, and paranoia...

In fact, only the French psychiatric school treats paranoia as a distinct entity.

Regrettably, too many disparate conditions are being lumped together under the broad umbrella of schizophrenia. If only certain practitioners would take the time to actually differentiate these various entities—if only they would perform the nuanced analysis that was so desperately needed just the other day.

Of course it can...

It’s happened to me a hundred times, though some episodes are purely subjective. Sometimes they hit so hard in the moment that I can't even finish a conversation or talk normally with someone.
It doesn't depend on whether I'm alone or not; it's more like being hit by this negative energy, like some dark force.
I'll explain what it's like...
When I'm by myself, it manifests as a really uncomfortable experience. It feels like my consciousness starts to narrow, which triggers an incredibly unpleasant sensation...
It happens often enough that I've actually learned how to sense it coming before it fully hits.
Everything around me loses its sense of normalcy, and sounds get amplified—like, if my computer fan kicks on, the noise can drive me absolutely insane.
I just know it'll pass, so I "swallow the pill" and wait it out.

If I'm out with people or in the middle of a conversation when I feel it starting, I try to wrap up the discussion as quickly as possible so I can go settle down for a bit. If someone asks me something during those moments, I manage to focus enough to give a short answer.
And that's about it..

Why is everyone so pissed off? in Psychology · May 25, 2007

William Gonzalez3 said:Look, I wasn't asking if you needed an explanation—I was asking if you actually needed a translator, because it seems pretty obvious to anyone with half a brain what's going on here.

Cheers!