Sam Ramos85 said:I know this one married couple with a kid who ended up moving back in with their parents after just a few months because they couldn't even keep up with the rent. Between utility bills skyrocketing, childcare, car payments, gas, and groceries... they told me it’s going to take them at least a year just to get back to zero...
Even subletting isn't really an option in this absolute mess of a state we live in, because you still need a steady, reliable income just to afford a sublet. And as for buying a home with a mortgage? I mean, anyone actually considering that right now needs to sit down, get sober, and think about it a hundred times over before making such a massive mistake.
Exactly. I'm with you on this.
urbanviper8 said:This really takes me back to that old-school mindset from the previous era—you know, when the State was the one providing everything...
But who is supposed to be "providing" nowadays?? The whole system is practically engineered to funnel resources toward massive corporations and big capital, rather than the little guy...
That’s why you can’t just sit around waiting for someone to step up, secure things, or make it possible for you.... you have to fight for that kind of stuff yourself...
Anyway, back to the topic at hand... huge congrats to you!!! Your story actually reminds me of that old cartoon where a stork tries to swallow a frog, but the frog ends up squeezing the stork's neck so hard that it actually manages to save itself..
True. At first glance, my post might look like I'm some nostalgic supporter of the old way of doing things. But here’s my reality:
Age: thirties
Education: Engineering degree
Married, two kids. Mortgage holder. Both of us work. Wages are shrinking.
And most importantly,
without any help from my parents, nobody gave us anything. Literally.
In other words, we fought for everything we have. On our own. Now, interest rates have spiked and wages have dropped... well, it's getting much harder to fight. And the kids are growing up fast. Etc, etc...