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What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
silentraven6 said:It’s honestly not a good idea to get lazy in the long run if we want our standardized testing and high school graduation exams to actually mean something. I don't want us reaching a point where they base everything on trivial nonsense—like asking which song was playing in the background during that scene in *Olga* and *Lina* when they find the piano, or what color flower Julia had tucked in her hair when Romeo first saw her, or even what shade of blue the sky was in *Romeo and Juliet*. We need substance, not trivia.

The worst part about all this is that people start asking these kinds of questions before they’ve even sat kids down to explain what the symbols mean. They don't bother pointing out those specific moments that actually deserve extra attention—whether it's within the pacing, the overall work, or just the flow of the action itself.

The fundamental question really comes down to this: what is the actual purpose of required reading, and who exactly gets to decide which books earn the title of "classic," "canonical," or a "masterpiece"?

Like I’ve said before, what actually makes up "the canon" isn't some fixed, holy truth. It’s really just whatever the zeitgeist decides it is at any given moment. You’ve got groups of hyper-focused literary historians—including those self-proclaimed "experts" who act like they discovered everything yesterday—as well as the academic establishment (usually those folks over at the Academy of Sciences who, let's be honest, often lacked any real teaching intuition even back when they were lecturing at universities). Then you have the social order shaped by ideology, and even small circles of dedicated humanists who are genuinely trying to make a difference. The canon is always being re-evaluated. It isn't some untouchable, sacred category that stays frozen for centuries; it never has been in history. Throughout time, the selection of canonical authors and works has been swayed by all sorts of phenomena—most often that pedagogical and didactic element used to serve specific ideologies, certain ways of teaching, or particular methods of study.

I honestly can't get behind this whole idea that kids today are lazier than previous generations just because of how they handle required reading. Let's be real here—kids have always been lazy. Every single one of us knows that. I'm 34 years old now, and even back then, only a tiny fraction of us actually sat down to read entire books from cover to cover, let alone any extra stuff. If anything, I think it was even worse in the past. Remember those ridiculous reading logs? Those massive 25-page booklets where you had to list everything you "read"? Half the time, it was just moms sitting there filling them out for their kids. It was a total sham. Nowadays, with the way written tests are structured, it’s much harder to cheat like that. It feels like the focus has shifted toward actual discussion and dialogue about the books, which is a much better way to see if someone actually engaged with the story.

That’s a whole different conversation: what even qualifies as "required reading," and what is its actual purpose? Does it really need to be confined strictly to American literature classes?

It feels like we’re constantly trying to justify ourselves by clinging to the canon. We act like because we forced these books down everyone's throats, and they turn out to be terrible or just too much work to actually read, then it’s somehow not our fault. It's like we're shifting the blame. A massive group of people decided that ten specific works were "masterpieces" just because of some high-brow artistic label, but most people don't want them. To them, it's all just a chore—too heavy, too tedious, just plain exhausting. It’s honestly a bit pathetic.

We basically washed our hands of their whole reading culture. I mean, the entire idea behind required school reading was to cultivate a genuine love for books, to sharpen aesthetic judgment, and to build up critical thinking skills—not just to serve as a dry history lesson on literature.

My favorite type of people are those who constantly lecture everyone else about "the classics," even though they only ever cracked them open because it was required for a high school English credit and haven't touched them since. Seriously, how is that even considered reading? How is that supposed to be a love for literature? About 90% of these critics—the ones calling everyone else lazy for skipping the old stuff—have never actually picked up one of those books again, let alone explored another work by the same author. They remind me of those religious types who swear by the Bible but haven't read a single actual letter from it unless they're hearing it read aloud during a sermon at church.

The whole idea that Americans don't read? Honestly, I think that’s complete nonsense. It's just not true. You can't look at a claim like that and call it a valid data point when you aren't even accounting for all the variables. People are reading; they're just doing it differently than how some folks might expect.

When you look at the data, most people focus on book acquisitions or, more recently, how libraries are adding physical media to their collections. But honestly, even that doesn't give you the full picture. It’s impossible to get an accurate sense of the actual state of things because not every library is integrated into the central database—like the Library of Congress system. You also end up missing out on private exchanges between institutions, small local home libraries, and we’ve only just started accounting for alternative sources like e-readers. There are just too many gaps in the data to say we have the whole story.
Also, what can we actually say about library access across the US? Does anyone here actually know what the situation looks like on the ground? I’m curious how well-equipped school libraries in smaller towns really are—specifically regarding collections that aren't just strictly required reading lists. What are they doing to actually encourage kids to read for pleasure? Are librarians in those smaller communities taking the initiative to build up their own little collections to spark some interest in the smallest readers?

I could be really mean here and say that if my kid wanted to find something beyond the required reading list, he’d first have to hunt down a librarian somewhere in the school hallways and try to actually strike up a conversation that isn't just, "Hey, I need this for class." But honestly, I know that's not how it works, and I truly respect the work librarians do all over the US. They run such incredible programs and workshops. How many of them are doing that kind of heavy lifting? I don't know, but it feels like there aren't nearly enough. On one hand, you have my life in a place like Chicago—I'm basically a professional bibliophile who spends way more time tucked away in libraries than the average person. I feel at home in them. Instead of grabbing coffee on a busy street corner, I’d much rather be sitting in a library, reading, working, or just chatting with the staff. But then there's the rest of the country. There's the issue of accessibility, the actual availability of books, and the reality that for a lot of people, purchasing power is just too low to make reading an easy choice.

And why on earth should reading assignments be confined strictly to English class? If we’re actually serious about encouraging people to read—if we really care about preserving literary history, the canon, and all that other stuff—then we can do it during math, history, or physics too. Think about the massive potential hidden in the papers of legendary physicists. Honestly, let's stop this constant brainwashing in English class that strips the subject of its actual purpose. Let them read in the original languages they're learning in school; let them dive into scientific papers, essays, or even feuilletons. It’s absurd to act like English class is the only way to spark an interest in reading, or like reading is nothing more than just picking up a piece of fiction.

I'm totally with you on this—there were always just a couple of us in the class who actually finished the whole thing, while everyone else would skip a chapter here or just ignore parts of it entirely.
Since I'm a bit older, I didn't really grow up during the era where it was trendy for moms to write the 😁
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What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
I was such an avid reader growing up—honestly, I think I might be one of those rare souls who actually finished every single required book on the school reading list, plus a massive mountain of other stuff from all sorts of different genres

I don't really recall my elementary school reading assignments being some sort of traumatic ordeal, especially in the lower grades—in fact, I’m struggling even to remember if we were assigned much at all...
And once I hit the higher grades, nothing really felt overwhelming or problematic either.

Back in high school, though, we had this one homeroom teacher from the local community, and with him, we would dissect a single book for literal weeks—but with such intense detail! For instance, with Zoli, he actually asked us what the characters had for lunch in one specific scene (which even I didn't know 🤣 ) or, taking Romeo and Juliet, he'd ask what color the sky was during a certain moment...
To this day, I can tell you they were having potato soup for lunch and that the sky was a leaden gray, but I completely messed up my college entrance exams because there were about half the books they covered in other schools that I hadn't even heard of
So, yeah, taking it easy with the mandatory reading lists... in the long run, it just isn't good for anyone...
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
brightheron64 said:Why should a specific book, especially one hand-picked by someone else, ever be treated as a mandatory chore?
Goodness, I’m practically halfway through a career at Chase Bank and I still haven't tackled Dostoevsky, Tolstoy, or Proust... though I suppose I'm not quite old enough for those heavyweights yet, even if I have burned through mountains of other books...

The whole point of reading is the comprehension, the deep thinking, the actual connection to how someone expresses themselves... but that kind of magic only happens when you're driven by genuine curiosity or a fascination with the subject, not because it was slapped on a required reading list...

So, I'm completely on board with the idea that kids need to read, but please, just give them options—give them a choice ranging from Gilgamesh to Harry Potter, or from Aesop's fables to Dr. Seuss... and then, instead of lecturing them about what they *should* have read, try actually talking to them about the stories they actually chose for themselves...

She won't be picking jobs; she'll just go work for Google. 😉

If she doesn't want to learn her multiplication tables, does that mean she shouldn't have to?
Or maybe she shouldn't learn how to write her letters?

I don't really follow your logic here... it feels like you're coming at this from a completely different angle than everyone else. 🤷
Dealing with constant hangnails in Health ·
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Dealing with constant hangnails in Health ·
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Dealing with constant hangnails in Health ·
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First Communion gift ideas? in Students & Teens ·
frozenrider15 said:I haven't stepped foot in H&M in ages. Ever since my little one outgrew their kids' section—because let's face it, the young adult department is a minefield if you actually want 100% cotton—it hasn't been my go-to. But hey, maybe worth a quick glance. Thanks!

And those ankle socks? We'll give them a shot. Regardless of how it plays out, I'm bracing both myself and her for the heat of the kitchen. Fingers crossed we pull through. 😁

Definitely go with the socks, or just have some Band-Aids ready to go

My goddaughter was wearing those ballet flats with the elastic straps over the instep, and unfortunately, they gave her quite a nasty rub 😢

If there's going to be a strap, it really should be a buckle one so you can actually loosen it up a bit
First Communion gift ideas? in Students & Teens ·
frozenrider15 said:I have no idea what kind of dresses they use at the church (what's actually best? Last year she was singing in the choir during the First Communion service, but I didn't bother checking the fabric quality then😵).
To be fair, looking at photos online, they don't look like pure polyester, but they definitely look stifling. The issue is she already sweats like crazy regardless.

Putting any kind of extra layer under that dress sounds like literal torture for her. Could she just wear a camisole and... I have no clue about footwear. She can't stand tights; they give her a rash every single time. Jesus, I'm losing my mind.

Well, a spaghetti strap dress is basically just a slightly longer version of a camisole...🤷
First Communion gift ideas? in Students & Teens ·
frozenrider15 said:This isn't exactly the right thread for this, but it’s about First Communion.

What on earth should I put under the dress for a little girl attending her First Communion? She'll be wearing the official one provided by the church, so she won't be the only one in that specific outfit.

Since we're looking at mid-May, it could be sweltering. Add a packed church to the mix, and you have a recipe for disaster—my little one tends to overheat easily and really struggles with the heat. I'm completely stumped on what to layer underneath. Should she wear something? Or just nothing at all? 😁

How does everyone usually handle this? We aren't heading straight to a fancy restaurant afterward; we're going home, so she can easily change out of the formal gear once we get there. I honestly can't picture her wearing anything under that gown other than maybe a basic undershirt or a light tee.

Speaking from experience after yesterday—it’s going to be brutal...

Just put a little cotton sundress with straps on her—something short, just so she has a base layer since those church dresses can be a bit see-through

and honestly, those dresses are pure polyester and they are just awful...👎
First Communion gift ideas? in Students & Teens ·
How could she not play?
I have a goddaughter who is just full of energy, and she’s definitely going to be busy playing with that LEGO set I picked up for her for Christmas
I also recently grabbed her this really cute little bag from Target—plus there are those t-shirts you can color in yourself, which honestly makes for such a fun gift

For her First Communion, I’m planning on getting her some simple gold earrings since she’s been asking for them...
Medical Pedicures in Health ·
For years now, I’ve been heading over to see Winnie the Pooh at Mary Ann’s place—she really knows her stuff... I struggle with ingrown toenails, but she always manages to fix them up so perfectly that I can enjoy total peace and quiet for about three to four months before I even have to think about another appointment.
Looking for a specialist... in Health ·
Does anyone have a recommendation for a private allergist/immunologist?

My little one is currently being seen over at the Klaicev clinic, and they just ordered some more tests for us to run before scheduling an appointment for February 28th... which honestly feels like an eternity away. I’m thinking about getting those labs done now and then heading to a private specialist while we wait for that official slot to open up—just to get things moving faster...
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
So, a friend was just telling me about this situation yesterday—with the religious education classes at school—and apparently, the local priest is insisting that the kids also attend services at the parish as part of their First Communion prep for third grade... he basically won't acknowledge any of the work being done by the school instructors. It’s quite a thing, really
The school actually offered to let him come in and lead the lessons on campus themselves, just so the kids wouldn't have to make the trip down to the church—but he turned them down... honestly, you hear the strangest things sometimes
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
I mean, I know what I want, but I honestly doubt I’m going to win this particular battle against my husband...
Plus—and just to be clear—the kid is strangely obsessed with churches for some reason. Don't get me wrong, we go to Mass for memorial services once a year, but heaven forbid we just walk past a cathedral in the middle of the city without him begging to step inside and take a look around.🤦
The truth is, we don't really attend regular services, nor do we practice much at home—nothing fancy like following all that iconographic stuff or making the sign of the cross before meals
So, yeah... in this situation, I guess I can only do what I can...
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
My little one is signed up for religious studies, but honestly, if I had my way, I’d pull it out of the public school curriculum entirely—let it be held at local churches instead, where it belongs, and let whoever actually wants to go, go.
I’d also strip all that stuff right out of the textbooks for every other subject, too...

My kid is going to get my version of "religious education"—he'll learn how to distinguish actual faith and personal belief from the church as an institution and its specific doctrines. I'll tell him straight up that he can just listen to what they say there and then leave it at the door... I'm certainly not letting him swallow the nonsense some of those instructors try to push on kids.

So, go ahead—tear me apart and tell me I’m not a "real" believer, but I know I am... I just don't have much respect for the church when it acts as an institution.
School Reform: Thoughts? in Students & Teens ·
So, if this reform actually kicks in starting next school year, does that mean my five-year-old will be expected to start first grade just a year later than usual? I'm trying to wrap my head around the timeline here...
School closures/delays? in Students & Teens ·
Honestly, school is probably the absolute least of any kid's worries in this life... ☕
School closures/delays? in Students & Teens ·
Seriously though, when it comes to playing Monopoly, don't get all worked up—I mean, is someone actually going to throw a total meltdown if they don't come out on top?

Because honestly... I’ve definitely met a few adults who still lose their cool and have a full-on tantrum if things don't go their way during a game of Monopoly 😁
... it's wild...
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
Karen Richardson3 said:When you get into the whole debate about kids with special needs, the real sticking point is whether we should be handing out sacraments like Communion or Confirmation to children who can't fully grasp what's happening.
I mean, look, it’s obvious to me that nowadays kids are basically just doing Confirmation to score a thousand-dollar gift from their relatives, and it's plain as day that many self-proclaimed "Catholics" don't have the slightest clue what their faith is actually supposed to teach them, but even so—I still remember bits and pieces from my own religious ed back in the day (which I don't follow anymore, so I'm not speaking from a Catholic standpoint here)—that the requirement for receiving Holy Communion was supposed to be some level of actual understanding.

So, if you ask me, that priest only caught heat from his superiors because of the media circus surrounding everything; the news outlets just jump on these stories because they don't know anything about the subject, other than the easy headline that the Church is the bad guy.

What is the actual point of having a child make a confession when they don't even comprehend what is taking place?

I think you might have missed a detail there—he actually wanted them to receive communion, he just didn't want them standing up at the altar with everyone else, maybe because he thought it wouldn't look right or something like that...

Besides, the child has Down, and they attend school with an aide—do you really think they have no idea what's going on?

People with Down aren't mentally incapable; they understand way more than you'd think, and honestly, they are often much more sincere in their faith than a lot of "devout Catholics" out there...
School closures/delays? in Students & Teens ·
And that’s what she was told—she even went on about how all this uncertainty is going to completely wreck her summer plans... 😁