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Furthermore, my supposed favorite—Yivan—has recently accumulated quite a few of my warnings, whether they be yellow or red. To be perfectly precise, I have issued six strikes against him, plus one from my colleague N'dugu, most of which pertain to his highly inappropriate conduct toward other members of this spirituality forum. However, user Sandra Parker3 remains unaware of the specifics, as she does not have access to his disciplinary file (though the rest of the moderators and admins certainly do, so please feel free to discuss my strictness regarding this troublemaker among yourselves). Nevertheless, for weeks now, he has been provoking, calling out, and attempting to morally lecture the very forum member he targets. I am at a loss as to what the issue is; I only know that the original poster of this thread keeps incessantly tagging me to step in and interfering with my duties. While I have patiently tolerated this, I cannot promise how much longer I will be able to 😢
tolerate such interruptions.
I have no intention of overturning my decisions, as I believe they were carefully considered and made in full coordination with my colleague N'dugu. I kindly request that this thread be closed so that Sandra Parker3 may maintain her dignity.

Thank you,

hiddenhound3
I will limit my comments on this matter to the following: the user who was allegedly cursed (🤣) sent me a private message requesting the removal of the image associated with her name in the Spirituality Through Art and Wisdom thread, specifically within post number 470. However, since I believe this particular film—those who have seen it will understand why—is perfectly suited for this specific discussion topic, I have decided instead to simply redact her name from the post. This way, everyone remains satisfied and no one is harmed. To demonstrate my transparency, I am prepared to provide the private correspondence between her and myself, as well as the exchange with the forum member Yivan (the individual performing the curse 😵).

It would have been quite nonsensical to delete the image while leaving her name intact, resulting in a post that looked like this:

Yivanmukta said:Lullaby for fluorite

Or would that be preferred? 😕
redmarlin3 said:The opening post says, "let's accept this state of affairs without emotion."

If "without emotion" is meant to describe the way we should "accept," then I clearly misunderstood your sentence—unlike you, apparently—so I’m asking the author to clarify what they actually meant.

But if "without emotion" is describing the "state of affairs" itself, then I understood the original post perfectly fine, and I’m sticking to my guns.

I am unsure who misunderstood, perhaps myself, but my impression was that the author meant we should remain unemotional regarding the fact that life is fleeting—suggesting we shouldn't be overly dramatic about the various things that happen to us which are simply beyond our control.
That was my interpretation. 🤷
redmarlin3 said:Honestly, I’d rather live just one single day feeling everything I’m supposed to feel than spend an entire lifetime drifting through it like this.

Suppressing your emotions does not imply they simply do not exist; rather, it means you are exercising control over your reactions, which, if we are being honest, is often the wiser path to take.😁
Bradley Gonzalez4 said:Not really—but look, if you refuse to choose between two lesser evils and just leave everything up to fate, you might find yourself facing an even greater catastrophe instead. 😉
You see what I mean? 🙂

But how can anyone truly be certain that their chosen path won't lead them directly into a much deeper predicament? Everything we experience, along with every decision we make, feels like a double-edged sword—a bit of luck amidst misfortune, or perhaps misfortune disguised as luck. We are essentially trapped in a continuous cycle with no clear exit, and the more powerless a person feels, the more desperately they struggle through these endless decisions and choices.
Bradley Gonzalez4 said:True, but there’s a catch—everything seems fine until you actually get a shot at something you truly desire, only to find yourself paralyzed, unable to take action because you've fully embraced the idea that life just happens to you.🙄

Resistance is ultimately futile; life has a way of assimilating you before you even realize it has happened. 😉
Bradley Gonzalez4 said:Well, you always have some level of agency 🤷, even if it feels limited—in the absolute worst-case scenario, you’re still weighing two different paths, which means you're still making a choice. You could have opted to skip the trip entirely and head somewhere else instead; who knows what kind of people you might have crossed paths with there? 🙂
It really all boils down to what your ultimate goal is. 🤷

Do you truly believe that the mere act of choosing between two equally undesirable options holds any actual substance? 😕
mistyseal11 said:For sure.

Is suicide even an exit at this point? Or is death just the inevitable fallout from thinking like this?
(It’s basically a self-fulfilling prophecy / tempting fate)

When you reach this particular state of mind, suicide doesn't even cross your thoughts because you recognize its utter futility. This is true nihilism; you understand that you are essentially nothing, that you possess no influence over anything, and that your entire existence is merely a fleeting moment—as insignificant as a single heartbeat. You don't waste energy on hope, optimism, or the illusion that you are someone special or important. You have simply accepted the reality that life happens, and you are nothing more than a silent observer.

I find that perspective quite compelling. 🙂
Willpower in Philosophy ·
will = self
Law Abiding Citizen (2009) in Movies ·
Harold Chavez44 said:Well, obviously; I'm honestly not sure how much sense it makes to demand total realism from cinema in the first place. 🤣

Sure, there ought to be some semblance of a connection to reality, but let’s not go overboard, shall we? Once those theater doors swing shut, the lights dim, and the feature begins, isn't it best to simply drift away from this somewhat predictable world and escape into a new one where the rules aren't quite so rigidly enforced?

It is an established fact that such chemical compounds truly exist. 🙂
Law Abiding Citizen (2009) in Movies ·
goldenhound32 said:That lethal injection setup looks way too massive for a human; it’s built for a horse. Total fake.

Why on earth would that guy—the one who managed to slip away—start spraying bullets at the police from the roof and basically broadcast his exact location like that? It's fake.

And why would he suddenly forget he was out of ammo, especially after finding that out just five minutes earlier? Fake.

When they first showed up to arrest the butler... why did it take five police cruisers, a SWAT team, and a helicopter? He was just a suspect at that point. Fake.

If there are any tech geeks in here, please explain to me how a flip phone is supposed to be able to fire a shot? Fake.

How was the butler supposed to know they were delivering a steak with a bone sharp enough to kill someone?

Now, hold on just a moment; I recall seeing a movie where even chemical canisters explode, so why shouldn't a smartphone be subject to the same risks? 🤷
boldsailor32 said:
hiddenpuma75:

Because back in 1998, my small town faced the largest wildfire in its history.
Two people lost their lives, which was so significant that President Franjo Harmon actually flew in to inspect the damage and pay his respects.
The fire reached my house, where I kept my library of about 2,000 books.

I grabbed just one single book to save; I left the rest to the mercy of the flames.


So you're from Viganj... I remember when that place went up in flames. The wind drove the fire right into the heart of town, nearly reaching the coast. Those two women got lost in the thick smoke and perished right there in the center.

I am glad you managed to rescue that precious book against all odds!

But that wasn't even the biggest fire. My ancestors actually devastated and burned through Cape Cod on two separate occasions. I'm not sure if the locals have forgotten that over the generations, but whenever I grab a coffee in Eureka, I make sure to sit with my back against a wall.

A little caution never hurts.

I was vacationing on Cape Cod shortly after that fire happened. It was a haunting sight—just a blackened wasteland of charred, twisted trees. It felt incredibly eerie, yet strangely, I found myself feeling quite at peace there. I suppose a desolate, ghostly landscape resonates deeply with what lies within my own soul.
Dealing with jealousy in Psychology ·
steeltiger2 said:Look, I know she’s his type physically, and her confidence definitely hits the mark—at least based on everything he's told me. And let's be real, the sexual chemistry part is huge; without that, there's just nothing there. I know how men think... and frankly, I wouldn't be with someone I wasn't attracted to either. They might not be conventionally handsome, but they absolutely have to be attractive to *me* because of the kind of man they are.

I am entirely certain about one thing—if he truly wanted to be with her, he would be with her instead of you.
It is perfectly obvious that he loves you if he is willing to put up with your jealousy like this. 😬 😛

Do not waste your energy overthinking these matters; it is clear that dwelling on them will lead to nothing but heartache.🙂
Dealing with jealousy in Psychology ·
steeltiger2 said:He has no idea I saw it. His brother left his laptop open, and I ended up poking around for maybe ten minutes just because, while he thought I was busy doing my own thing.
And obviously, I can't say anything about that.
He was talking to her like he actually cared, and they weren't even friends to begin with.
It was like someone showing interest in a coworker; when she mentioned she was going on a trip soon, he even told her to make sure nature looks after her and brings her back in one piece (she's a professional climber, by the way).
The thing is, he used to tell me he couldn't care less about stuff like that, that he wouldn't even notice if a woman wasn't his type—and I know for a fact he said the exact same thing to girls he wanted to be with before me. So, now I don't know... am I being realistic, or am I just losing my mind? How do I calm down?

Should I just leave him? I can't. Maybe I'm wrong again and in the end, I'll realize he didn't mean anything by it. But it's hard to wait—I don't even know what I'm waiting for.🤷

If she weren't some sexy, stunning athlete, I wouldn't think twice about it; I'd just assume she's a dear colleague to him. (His brother once commented on how gorgeous she is and what a great body she has, though I haven't seen her myself—I just know we aren't alike at all. I'm blonde and slender, while she's dark-skinned and athletic.) He responded to his brother saying she was incredibly sexy and attractive, even though he usually claims she's nothing special. I'm not the sporty type at all—I'm thin and blonde—but she's got that toned, muscular build that everyone falls for, even if they don't feel a deeper connection.
My head is spinning with possibilities—maybe he's fantasizing about her, maybe she's his ideal woman, maybe he just wants to be friends, or maybe she has something I lack—she's older and more experienced.
Maybe he finally needs a woman like her—someone self-assured, confident, an athlete who's actually good at what she does... someone who won't break down emotionally like I do...
I try to tell myself that I am worthy and beautiful, that anyone else would be overjoyed to be with me and think I'm more attractive than anyone else, but it doesn't help. I just keep thinking that she's definitely more beautiful and more attractive to him...

Dear Britney, I can sense your struggle here, and I know all too well that jealousy is an incredibly heavy burden to carry. However, you must realize that how beautiful, intelligent, or charming you are doesn't actually dictate the mechanics of love. Love isn't a rational calculation; you cannot simply decide to love someone more because they possess better looks, nor can you choose to love someone less just because they lack them. Consider this: could you truly fall for someone who was unattractive and lacked any intellectual spark?
It seems to me that your entire definition of affection is revolving heavily around the concept of "attractiveness."
My advice to you is to stop obsessing over the perceptions of others and try to find some inner peace. 🙂
Dealing with jealousy in Psychology ·
Sandra Morgan2 said:Once you finally see through the whole Santa Claus act, you stop hanging those stockings up by the window. 🙂

And once you know, without a shadow of a doubt,

that Cinderella was just a gold digger who married well,
that Sleeping Beauty was completely frigid,
that Little Red Riding Hood was nothing more than a flirt who didn't mind a dark forest or a scary wolf,
and that Snow White was probably sleeping around with all seven of them at once...

then everything changes. Nothing is ever the same.

And whatever happened to Matovilka, the one who was imprisoned in the tower? 😁
Relativism has become the new totalitarianism in Spirituality ·
hiddenpuma75 said:Look, just to be clear, I’m not talking about my conversation with Goldman Sachs here. I’m actually addressing the nine out of ten "spiritual gurus" on this forum who are constantly pushing these ideas of forced uniformity and leveling everything down. It honestly feels like being stuck in a Borg hive, where everyone is expected to chant the same mindless mantra: "We are all enlightened, we are all spiritual." Give me a break.

I decided to pick her quote and bold the core message, but honestly, you could find snippets like this every single day. You'll run into them constantly in any discussion about spirituality—whether you're talking to nine out of ten people claiming to be "enlightened" or just chatting with the local New Age crowd.

I’d suggest kicking things off with an ultra-brief overview of how this new era of spiritual totalitarianism actually came to be.

We’ve all seen how historical totalitarianism has played out within organized religions. Throughout history, they have often been incredibly exclusive, operating under this rigid "us versus them" mentality—basically telling everyone else that they're wrong and headed straight for damnation.

The turn of the 20th century ushered in a brand-new brand of totalitarianism—one that flipped the religious coin on its head to introduce state atheism. The prevailing mantra back then was pretty bleak: they viewed all religions and believers as nothing more than souls trapped in a living hell. In their eyes, paradise was reserved exclusively for the proletariat.

Back in the 1970s, a whole new spiritual movement began to take root right here in the States before gradually spreading across the globe. We could easily call it the "New Age" era.
His whole philosophy really boiled down to this: just let life bloom, everything will work out in the end, and all you really need is love. That was his mantra.
There are endless directions and infinite combinations when it comes to spirituality. It feels like a sort of spiritual communism—an attempt at total equality where everyone is leveled out. It’s essentially trying to turn spirituality into a mass-market product for the masses.

Honestly, we might just want to step back and ask ourselves: what exactly is the problem here?

The real essence of this is somewhat subtle and potentially difficult to spot. I’m hoping I can manage to convey it clearly without letting the introduction drift into something overly broad or tedious. Please bear with me while I find my footing.

8)
The quote from Goldman Sachs was written with such a spirit of tolerance that, at first glance, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. She didn't seem to have any bad intentions at all. It feels like a classic, optimistic New Age sentiment—a prime example of "spiritual democracy" and inclusivity. It’s that kind of open-mindedness that attempts to rise above religious exclusivity and that old habit of thinking, "We're the only ones who have it right."

9)
I’d love to see if you can grasp how this modern obsession with tolerance and relativism has actually morphed into a new kind of totalitarianism—a new way of being completely exclusionary.

It seems like, all of a sudden, these kinds of phrases and perspectives have become incredibly trendy—almost everywhere you look. There’s this pervasive, almost auto-hypnotic quality to how people are repeating these exact same sentiments lately.

I think we’ve all reached that level of enlightenment.🙂
Honestly, I think everyone is just inherently spiritual in their own way.
It really doesn't matter who you are or what you do—or even if you choose to do nothing at all. In the grand scheme of things, it's all the same.
At the end of the day, I truly believe that every method, every teacher, and every single person out there is perfectly fine just as they are.

It seems like you might have hit "send" a little too early! I'm ready to get to work on your copy, but I need the source text first. Whenever you're ready, just drop the content here. I'll make sure to give it that polished, authentic American feel while keeping the original heart and soul intact. Looking forward to it!


10) It’s finally time to pull back the curtain on this "relativist emperor" and show you all exactly why he's nothing more than a fraud.

I mean, look—even if those statements are technically accurate in an absolute sense, they’ve essentially been borrowed or even outright lifted from the people who actually put in the work, took the risks, and finally made it happen.
This isn't actually trading based on skill or hard work; it's just playing around with inherited wealth or money that was taken from someone else.

At the end of the day, we really have to ask ourselves: what level of consciousness was operating when that was said?
We’re all part of the same whole, so really, none of this matters in the grand scheme of things.


Did someone actually achieve that, or is it just someone trying to ride someone else's coattails?
It’s easy for someone who hasn't actually broken a sweat to sit comfortably in their room and claim that nothing really matters. They love to act like there’s nothing left to accomplish or achieve because they’ve already "made it," so they just lie around listening to music while watching hiddenpuma75 ramble on.

b)
The rise of this new kind of totalitarianism is happening because... Don't you dare criticize what I call spiritual democracy and universal enlightenment.

The new proponents of "equality" will try to lecture you on how everything is essentially the same. They’ll tell you there are no differences, no standards, and no such thing as excellence—whether you're raising a child, writing a book, building a house, or tending a garden. Everything is just... fine.

They’ll offer you milk and honey, but
but
but

BUT THE SECOND YOU START CRITICIZING THEM, 😉

Notice the paradox here: everything is permitted, everyone is welcome, and we are all supposedly "spiritual"—except for the people who dare to criticize them. Suddenly, they aren't welcome anymore. 🙂

For instance, if someone like hiddenpuma75 points out a flaw, or if it's the Church, the government, or even the American Medical Association opposing Reiki masters,

and if you say to these "spiritual proletarians,"

"Look, not everyone is enlightened,"
"And not everything is spiritual,"
"Or that atheism isn't a spiritual path,"
—that a true spiritual school or a real teacher doesn't turn spirituality into a commercial commodity

well, then you're suddenly unwelcome!

They'll tell you that you just don't get it, that you lack understanding, and that you MUST be tolerant 🤣
and just accept everything.

I actually illustrated this point to a fellow forum member recently with a rather funny little example.

If everything is truly fine and nothing matters, why bother choosing which shoes to wear or which partner to date? ---

==================================
Ugh,

Sorry for the long rant, but it's surprisingly difficult to unmask this modern, foggy spiritual relativism
and the mediocrity that hides behind a cloud of empty phrases,

eroding time-tested values like tradition, discipline, and ethics,

as well as the actual measurement and testing of achievement and skill.
Essentially, they are undermining the very goal of religion through the methods of science.

They attempt to relativize excellence and the tangible fruits of one's labor
and those eternal truths.

A tree is known by its fruit, after all.

In other words, success is the proof of a person's worth.

👋

Well now, since this particular quote feels somewhat isolated from its original context, I find myself compelled to offer a bit of clarification. The discussion centered on the claim that faith in God serves as a guarantee of one's integrity. I simply do not subscribe to that view. To me, being a spiritual person isn't some grand, exceptional status; as mistyscout2 suggests, spirit is a fundamental quality of all people—and if I may extend that thought, I believe it applies to animals as well. In my estimation, fostering spirituality is more about becoming a well-rounded, universally minded individual than it is about religious faith; in fact, I often find that rigid belief can feel overly dogmatic and intellectually stifling.
At the same time, I fully recognize that there is significant room for personal growth within spirituality. I certainly cannot claim to hold even a fraction of the insight possessed by figures such as Levi, Aleister Crowley, George Gurdjieff, Jiddu Krishnamurti, or Ken Wilber, and my own modest realizations are nowhere near the depth of the masters who serve as the intellectual nourishment for my curiosity. Achieving true progress in spirituality requires immense, disciplined effort; I do not believe it is something that occurs just by 🙂
Relativism has become the new totalitarianism in Spirituality ·
mistyscout2 said:Florine wasn't suggesting that every single individual is some sort of "enlightened" being; rather, her point was that we are inherently spiritual by the very nature of existing within language, civilization, and culture. Just the mere fact that we possess this specific capacity for complex speech and organized culture is what fundamentally sets us apart from the rest of the animal kingdom... In a sense, humans are "spiritual animals" because of that connection. If you consider that every person possesses a "spirit," or that some kind of "spirit" is woven directly into the languages and cultures we inhabit—which it absolutely is—then everyone is, by definition, spiritual. This way of looking at spirituality is quite different from that trendy, "specialized" version of spirituality you see being peddled everywhere in our current post-Christian, transitional American society...

Regarding this idea of "oneness," that’s really the hallmark of that specific brand of New Age thought, which is where that tendency toward what you—though perhaps not strictly from a linguistic standpoint—call relativism comes from...

Dear mistyscout2, you truly are a RELIGIOUS animal... I believe my dear Eliphas Levi 😁would put it quite simply like that.
slywolf45 said:None of those actually applied here.😢
🙂

Hang in there, Wylie. 🎉🎉 Do not allow Apemant to mock you.

Alex Patel96 said:Never.😛 Not once in my life. And I've slept with plenty of them.😂 It was a total disaster. Even when they were wasted, they couldn't get me interested.😉

Then you certainly aren't playing at a professional level. image
Alex Patel96 said:Not even close. I'd be down if they were gentler, less hairy 🤣, more loyal... plus the whole thing about not having that equipment. 😛

Well, perhaps I might find women more enticing if they were hairier; I have always had a particular fondness for men who are quite hairy 😬
lonegardener said:Wait, I don't follow. 😕

You say you're only into women; so why does it even matter if men have certain equipment or not? What difference does it make to you if you aren't interested in them anyway? 🤷

Don't tell me you'd actually be interested if they *didn't* have that tool? Because honestly, that sounds like a serious case of phobia to me. 🤣

That isn't some kind of phobia. It would be quite a stretch, much like accusing someone of having a "milk phobia" simply because they don't care for dairy. 🙄