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How do I stop biting my nails? in Psychology ·
Gary Campbell said:Well...
I’m curious about how one actually goes about helping people like this.
From what I can see, they aren't even doing it on purpose; it's clearly just some deep-seated subconscious drive at work.
And honestly, it isn't just an eyesore to look at, it's genuinely irritating to everyone else around them too.

What exactly triggers this kind of "self-sabotage," and more importantly, how do you actually break such a nasty habit?

My cousin fixed her issue when she spat $100 all over her new kitchen remodel and then couldn't bring herself to bite into anything. It was stuck in her head constantly.🤣

But obviously, the actual issue is way more complicated than that.
Did your mom get a mammogram or at least a breast ultrasound? Breast cancer that’s spread to the lymph nodes can cause pressure in the neck and even swelling in the arm. On top of that, breast cancer can metastasize to the lungs and bones, which would explain those shadows and the pain you're seeing.
It honestly baffles me how doctors approach things this way—starting radiation based on a "suspicious" finding before they've even confirmed the actual diagnosis.
Have you actually sat down and talked to her primary specialist? What you’ve laid out here is completely disorganized and doesn't make any sense logically. 😕

p.s. She really needs a head CT. If there's a suspicion of cancer and she's dealing with dizziness or can't stay on her feet, there's a real possibility it has spread to the brain. 😢

You need to get in touch with her doctor immediately and demand clear, concrete answers.
Nancy Campbell5 said:I am so incredibly sorry to hear this. All we know right now is that it’s some form of melanoma. We are going to do everything we can to dig deeper and get more specific details as soon as possible.😢 I can't even wrap my head around the idea of him being gone. 😢

Oh, man, I feel for you. 😢
Unfortunately, when you're dealing with malignant melanoma, the medical reality is pretty straightforward: the goal of treatment is primarily about buying as much time as possible and making sure that time is actually worth living.
As of right now, modern medicine just doesn't have an answer that offers a real cure.

Stop dwelling on the idea of him leaving. None of us are permanent fixtures in this world; we’re all just passing through. Obsessing over the end is completely counterproductive—it’s like trying to enjoy a meal while staring at the bill. You'll only end up dragging that heavy weight around, which ruins the precious time you actually have left together. Make the most of every single good day. Surround yourselves with positivity and soak up every moment. When you finally sit down to tally up the score of a life lived, the quality of those moments matters infinitely more than the number of years on the calendar. What’s the point of living to 110 if you spent that time being unloved?
Matthew Davis75 said:I have a question for anyone who has dealt with this or knows more about it.

Basically, a friend of mine was diagnosed with an ovarian cyst (which later turned out via CT scans to be cancer, likely spreading to her intestines).
She’s dealing with massive ascites—fluid buildup in her abdomen. They already performed a paracentesis once to drain 4 liters, but they told her there’s probably another 4 liters sitting there that won't be touched until she goes into surgery.
From what I overheard from the doctors, they aren't even certain if it has reached her liver yet.

She’s scheduled for surgery in two days, and all of this hit her in just seven days. She had zero symptoms until a week ago when her stomach started swelling from the fluid, followed by back pain, lower abdominal pain, constipation, and much less urine output than usual.

What I want to know is what kind of experiences people here have had with this? Also, did I post this in the right place? Everything I've managed to read online gives pretty grim prognoses, though I know nothing is 100% certain until they actually open her up and see the full extent of the damage.

What does recovery look like after the surgery? They mentioned chemotherapy as well...

Please help me make sense of this so I know the best way to support her.

Thanks in advance to everyone.

Oh man, that sounds incredibly heavy. 😢
That damn ovarian cancer is sneaky as hell. It often doesn't cause a single issue until it's already gained significant momentum, which is why it's usually caught at such an advanced stage.
Look, based on what you've described, it honestly sounds like things have progressed quite far. She is almost certainly looking at chemo. She’s going to need massive support from those around her. Whatever you do, don't pity her—just try to keep the vibes positive and provide a supportive environment. She’s facing a massive, grueling fight ahead.
Click on my signature below the post and log in to the forum; there is an entire dedicated thread specifically for this disease.
Nancy Campbell5 said:Hey everyone... cancer always seems to strike when you least expect it. I have an uncle in his 40s living over in Italy who was just diagnosed with skin cancer (I don't know all the medical jargon, but I'm sure you get what I mean). It started as this little scratch on his back that just wouldn't heal, and when he went to get it cleaned up, they found malignant cells in the tissue...
...he's already gone under the knife three times to have them cut out the areas they flagged. Right now, he’s covered in about 50 staples from his back down to his knee, and every single time we wait for the biopsy results, they come back positive. It's just a never-ending cycle. 😢😢😢
..has anyone dealt with this nightmare before? He's far away, we can't get to him easily, and he has two little babies at home—it's just heartbreaking and we feel so helpless. 😢...any advice would be appreciated...

First off, there is a massive difference between general skin cancer and a malignant melanoma; that distinction completely changes the prognosis for recovery.
A malignant melanoma is a brutal diagnosis.
Kimberly Wright said:I am absolutely terrified
My mom starts chemotherapy this Monday... look, I get it, I know we're heading straight into hell, but still... I'm just trying to stay composed while my heart sinks somewhere in my stomach.

Yesterday I was watching this news segment on TV about a woman who had cervical cancer... she went through surgery, and eventually, they sent her for radiation...
And she was saying how much of a mistake it was to agree to the radiation treatment because😢 the radiation completely wrecked her intestines...

Now I'm spiraling into a total panic because I have no idea what the smartest move is. My mom has finally started recovering; she’s getting her strength back, and now all that grueling effort and snail-paced progress might just be wiped out by these therapies. I just don't know...

Then yesterday, I grabbed lunch with a friend I hadn't seen or heard from in ages. His dad passed away this past Christmas Eve. He had cancer at the junction of his esophagus and stomach. This guy tells me his dad suffered for months and died in absolute agony🙂 honestly, that was the last thing I needed to hear right now.😢

If it were me—God forbid—I know exactly what I'd do: I wouldn't go through with the treatments. But I can't take responsibility for someone else's life.

Honey, cancer is a brutal disease, and as far as things go, radiation and chemotherapy offer the best results available right now. Of course, they come with a heavy toll and can cause serious damage.
The reality is there isn't really another option; if you don't do it, the disease will run wild and it's game over.
Personally, I would always choose life and the fight, regardless of whatever consequences the illness and the treatment throw at me. I'm at peace with that because I've accepted that life itself is built on struggle and suffering. Once those two stop, then you can say for sure that you're dead.
Megan Fowler78 said:Last year, my husband was diagnosed with lung cancer. He went through chemotherapy, radiation in the lungs, preventative radiation in the head... now, after nine months, the cancer has flared up again in his lungs, liver, and adrenal glands... Following the oncologist's recommendation, we jumped straight back into chemo, even though they told us straight to our faces that there’s basically no chance of stopping it.
The other day, I happened to overhear a woman from Belgrade talking about Dr. John Holt, who runs a cancer treatment clinic in Perth using radio waves (www.radiowaveclinic.com). Does anyone here know anything about this method?
Sending love to everyone, and I just hope this damn disease stops stealing our loved ones...

Oh honey, I am so incredibly sorry.😢 Every time I think someone on this forum is finally winning their fight, a post like this hits me out of nowhere like a bolt of lightning... honestly, I can't handle thinking about it anymore.
I don't know much about this radio wave therapy, but frankly, at first glance, it doesn't sound like something that actually works.
If you want my advice, go find another second opinion in Australia and see if there's a clinical trial you could join. Usually, these things yield the best results when you're backed against a wall like this.
Just remember: "It ain't over 'til the fat lady sings!"
I feel like I'm a total failure at everything in Psychology & Therapy ·
I’m standing right there with silverraven7... and look, I'm 33, so I think I've got enough life under my belt to tell you straight: clawing your way back to solid ground after everything's been taken from you is a massive victory. It's the kind of comeback most people dream about but never actually pull off.
You're clearly more mature than the rest of your classmates combined, so it isn't any shocker that they see you the way they do. Honestly, they're just too immature to wrap their heads around it.
Trust me, give it a few years and the landscape is going to shift completely; people are going to respect you immensely for what you've endured.
Focus on your own journey, but try to reach back and help those peers who find themselves stuck in the exact same spot you once were. Use your story to show them that getting back on your feet is actually possible. So many people are just drifting aimlessly, and you have the power to offer them some real hope. I truly believe finding that purpose will bring you a sense of fulfillment and help make sense of everything you've been through.
Keith Thompson;25245735 said:
I'd be happy to, but you'll need to specify exactly which texts you're referring to. If you mean the stuff from the conference, I can pull that together too. The convention runs for three days, but it’s only open to association patients and the general public on Sunday. There's going to be a massive range of topics covered, so we'll have to see just how much substance and depth they actually bring to the table. Since I'm not a doctor, I'll only be heading over there on Sunday.
Topics:
Colorectal cancer. It’s a heavy diagnosis, one that hits you like a freight train before you even have time to process what happened. When you're staring down a tumor in the colon, everything changes—your diet, your daily routine, and your entire outlook on life. It isn't just a medical term; it's a fight.
Lungs.
Prostate issues aren't just some minor inconvenience you can ignore until they go away; they’re a fundamental hurdle that hits men right where they live. It’s like having a faulty engine component in a high-performance car—you might be able to drive around the problem for a while, but eventually, that friction is going to cause a total breakdown. Whether we're talking about BPH or the much heavier shadow of cancer, you have to face the reality of what's happening inside your own body. You can't just wish it into submission. You deal with it head-on, get the facts, and figure out the mechanics of the fix. No fluff, no stalling. Just direct action.
Breasts.
Goats.
When you're staring down the barrel of leukemia and lymphoma, you aren't just dealing with two different names on a medical chart; you're looking at two distinct ways the body’s internal security system goes completely haywire. Think of it like this: if your immune system is a high-tech security network designed to protect a skyscraper, leukemia is like a glitch in the software that causes the guards to start producing endless, useless clones of themselves instead of actually patrolling the halls. Meanwhile, lymphoma is more like a localized breach where those rogue units cluster together, setting up unauthorized checkpoints in specific areas of the building. Both are aggressive, both disrupt the status quo, and both demand an immediate, heavy-handed response to get things back under control.
When we talk about pediatric tumors, we aren't just talking about medical statistics; we’re talking about a fight that hits much closer to home than most people care to admit. It’s a heavy subject, and frankly, it's one that demands more directness than the usual clinical fluff you find in a hospital brochure. When a child is diagnosed, everything changes instantly—the world shifts from being predictable to feeling like a complete minefield. You have to look at the reality of how aggressive these things can be and how differently they behave compared to adult cancers. It isn't just about treating a disease; it's about navigating an entire system of survival.
Diet and why it matters—it’s the foundation of everything. Wrong. Diet is a massive risk factor—it’s right up there with smoking or living in a toxic environment.
Prevention—it’s a topic that hits home for every single citizen, whether they want to admit it or not. We can talk about the massive advantages of staying ahead of health issues, or we can dive into the frustrating hurdles that make proactive care such a headache. It's a double-edged sword that affects us all.

If there are any specific questions that come up, I can keep an eye out and report back.👍

Honestly, whatever you’ve got, just keep it. We’re way too short on resources like that here in the States. We’d love to take the initiative to handle our own translations and publishing, but the sheer cost of printing and distribution is a massive wall. Between the economy being what it is and the constant financial squeeze, nobody is stepping up to donate a dime.
It would be incredibly helpful if you could share some insights regarding nutrition. People are feeling pretty lost on this subject, particularly when it comes to managing diet alongside certain types of gastrointestinal tumors.
If you have any information regarding children, I’d really appreciate it. I want to pass everything along to our partners over at the local youth foundation we work closely with.
Man, I can't thank you enough. Seriously. 🙏
I'll shoot you my email address via DM if that makes it any easier for you to pass along those materials.
We're at a total loss. What should we do? in Health ·
What specific tests did they actually run during the neurology appointment?
Keith Thompson;25226496 said:
Angela Wright said:Anything that lacks solid scientific backing from relevant studies is automatically lumped in with alternative medicine.

...and we could debate those studies forever. From what I’ve gathered lately—at least regarding Germany—there aren't many reliable local studies out there. Almost all the research being used actually comes from the USA. A chief professor at a clinic in New York City confirmed this during one of their recent lectures (they hold monthly seminars featuring big names in medicine, alternative therapies, nutritionists, biologists, you name it). He mentioned that their clinic is currently the only one in Germany that started a cataloged patient tracking study for cancer treatment two years ago.
On top of that, the American Cancer Society Annual Meeting 2010 is happening in Washington, D.C. on February 28th, so maybe we'll finally hear about some studies—hopefully ones coming out of Europe this time.
As you can see, the association is incredibly active. They provide info on the latest therapy options: radiation, chemotherapy, hormone therapy, nutrition (which has its own sub-topics), mental health support, Active Surveillance (monitored waiting), and guidance for newly diagnosed patients, among other things.
Plus, you get the chance to meet people who have been living for 15 or more years after their diagnosis. You can see exactly how they were treated and where they went for care. The association isn't run by doctors, but by the patients themselves—both those still fighting and those who are "cured," if you'll excuse the term. There’s no manipulation here; everyone has the freedom to pick their own cocktail of treatment options.👍

Could you perhaps log onto Reddit for the "for a new day" association and bring back some of those texts? It would mean the world to us. Unfortunately, we just don't have the funds to travel to Washington, D.C., so that kind of help would be massive.
Keith Thompson said:.....so does this mean that American mainstream medicine—aside from surgery, radiation, and chemotherapy—doesn't recognize nutritional therapy, split into immunotherapy and anti-angiogenic therapy, as a valid support? Since even standard medical textbooks clearly state that a tumor isn't the root cause, but rather a consequence...........I'm curious what people think.😕
This has absolutely nothing to do with that controversial doctor; I have no clue who he is or what he actually does. No one in our association has ever even heard of him or his products.
Personally, I’ve always been strictly interested in actual medications backed by legitimate studies. I want options that haven't been rigged, because those things leak out pretty fast—just look at how the swine flu vaccine situation went down. Thanks to the internet, everything eventually comes to light.☕

Anything that lacks scientifically proven evidence through relevant clinical studies is categorized as alternative. What you're talking about, if I'm not mistaken, falls under complementary therapy.
Look, the rules exist for a reason, and they're structured that way. Alternative medicine has its own specific niche. Basically, nobody is being left out.
Need help with Granuflex in Health ·
slytinker7 said:* I need some advice on using Granuflex hydrocolloid dressings *

To cut to the chase, here is what I am wondering about:

How long does it usually take for a superficial 1x1cm wound to heal when using Granuflex?
If you need more specifics regarding the cause of the wound or anything else, just let me know.
I'm hoping someone with medical expertise can weigh in. Thanks in advance.

Oh, and I’ve been using it for 11 days now. I swapped to my third dressing the day before yesterday because my doctor told me each one could stay on for 4-5 days—maybe up to a week if it doesn't leak (which it hasn't)—but the wound still isn't closing. I can see progress, but I have no idea how much longer this will take.

I'm no doctor, but I've dealt with this enough to know a thing or two.
It all depends on several factors: depth, whether you're diabetic, what actually caused the injury, and so on.
You might want to try Dermazin ointment; it contains silver ions which help speed up the healing process.
p.s. If the wound is from radiation therapy, skip the Dermazin.
ILDZIS said:Hey everyone,
I’m not really the type to go around making apologies; my intention was to help someone out, not to put anyone on a pedestal. This whole awkward situation reached Dr. Fauci, who criticized my actions because he believes I shouldn't have done what I did—after all, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. As for him, he's actually quite proud that no one has dared to criticize him personally. From his perspective, he doesn't want any toxic vibes swirling around his name because, as he puts it, his goal is to provide aid, not to get dragged into conflicts because of people he didn't authorize to write about him.
To be clear, I am simply relaying his exact stance and his explicit demand that I apologize to those I offended. So, I am using this space to personally apologize to everyone, and specifically to Angela Wright. We share a common bond: we've both endured struggles, and I’ve realized we’re moving in a similar direction now that we know who is truly responsible for our losses. Enough is enough with all this negativity in the air; let's change the energy. Once again, my apologies.

Look, I haven't even read your posts because the moderators wiped them before I could get online to see them. All I know is that you came after me, or so other users on Reddit explained. But whatever happened, happened.
What the admins didn't bother explaining to you is that discussions regarding Dr. Fauci belong strictly in the alternative medicine section, according to the rules here. To save yourself from getting into more trouble on this site, my suggestion is that you take your stories and your belief in his methods over to that specific forum. Here is the link: http://www.reddit.com/r/alternativemedicine
On this forum, health discussions are reserved exclusively for conventional medicine and complementary treatment approaches.
Heptanone info? in Health ·
urbandrifter8 said:Whatever, I don't really care about that... but I am trying to figure out this tablet... what color is it, what's the shape, does it have anything printed on it... I can't find any info anywhere.😢
Has anyone here tried or currently taking Hepa? Like the stuff from Pfizer?

Look, honey, if you actually need this stuff, doctors are your only legitimate source. Anything else is straight-up illegal, and if you're looking to buy from street dealers, you're basically gambling with your life—at best, you're paying premium prices for a capsule filled with baby powder.
fadedmarlin402 gave you a decent link to an image, but let me give you something much more specific:
Keith Thompson said:..that's exactly what I'll do, but sometimes the thread "Support for families dealing with cancer and other serious illnesses" isn't sitting right there on the front page. I end up digging through pages, trying to master the search function until I get the hang of it. It’s not the end of the world; once you figure out how things work, it gets easier. I started marking memorial threads as favorites, which is actually causing me a bit of a headache now—so much thanks for that.🙂

That's weird; I've never run into that issue myself.😕 This thread is a hot topic, so it should always be pinned near the top of the list.
Keith Thompson said:...Yeah, I've noticed how people tend to get low blows thrown around on a lot of these message boards, which used to be enough to make me stay away.
Joining Reddit actually helped me track down my family tree, which was pretty much my main reason for getting online in the first place. I want to say thanks to everyone who lent a hand.
Right now, I’ve traced my lineage back to the year 1670. That’s obviously off-topic for this specific thread, but I mention it to make it clear that I’m not here to play any of those petty internal politics. It feels like half of you know each other, some people are tight and others can't stand one another. My goal here is simply to help out and share what I've learned. Even though my lab markers are currently sitting at zero, I'm still dealing with a chronic condition where everything could just explode again at any moment. I’m just glad I finally found a treatment plan that actually works for me and makes me feel healthy.
Since I'm relatively new to the Reddit platform, what's the easiest way to navigate over to this specific forum? It takes me forever to find what I'm looking for, so there's got to be a simpler way. I’ve been bouncing around different subreddits and participated in a few I thought were interesting, but now I can't seem to find them again. If someone could be a decent human being and point me in the right direction, I'd appreciate it...

Look, I don't quite follow—what exactly are you struggling with, and what kind of help are you actually asking for? 😕
You are currently on the health subforum of Reddit.🤷
Heptanone info? in Health ·
urbandrifter8 said:Does anyone actually know what heptanones look like??? Anyone?
Keith Thompson said:..get to the point. I want to know specifically who Your Highness is trying to drag through the mud.
People come here to share their pain, their perspectives, and what they hope for. They want to know if they're heading in the right direction. They want to vet the information they receive—to see if it holds water—by looking at real experiences and following the tracks of those who actually made it through. They want to explore the cutting edge of medical science. Nowadays, medicine often hits a wall when treating tumors because its sheer flexibility allows the disease to slip through the cracks and multiply without a care in the world. There’s a massive difference between staring death in the face yourself and just watching someone else stare death in the face.

Elon, unfortunately, that’s not what this is about. The person I was responding to was insulting me—at least according to other users here—simply because I voiced my opinion in a perfectly civil manner (and you even agreed with my take). Apparently, my approach was "ugly" and "disgusting." Those posts were wiped clean; I couldn't even read them. And let's be clear: we aren't dealing with a well-meaning person here, but a shill for some leftist charlatan firm peddling sob stories just to bait people. It’s glaringly obvious when you look at their other posts across different threads; it's always the same recycled story and the same shady organization.
The moderators have been around long enough to sniff out these types from a mile away.