Posts by Angela Wright

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I think she really went off the rails today.🙏
Lock this thread, please. There’s nothing left to say here.

gentlemoose62 said:Thanks, Angela Wright. I’m heading out... heading out... bravely, of course!

This "little one" is just too precious for me🙂

Well, you're our sweetheart😍
If you ever need anything, just shout—you know we've got your back, okay?👍

gentlemoose62 said:So, my doctor just called to say the results came back fine. Still, she’s feeling a little uneasy about it, so she wants me to grab a second opinion from a surgeon just to be safe.
I really wish I could just put this whole thing behind me, but... I guess this is progress. At least the report isn't bad!
I've got an appointment with the surgeon on January 18th, so we'll see what happens then.

Thanks to everyone for keeping their fingers crossed for me! Please keep doing it, okay?

Don't sweat it. Getting a second opinion is just standard due diligence.
Stay strong, kid.👍

If you're interested in joining the "For a New Day" association, please shoot me a private message with your email address so I can send over the membership dues info.
Honestly, so many of you have reached out that I’ve completely lost track of who is who, and I want to make sure nobody gets left in the dark or confused.
Kisses to everyone!

coastaltrucker40 said:I’ll admit, I tend to get pretty obsessive when it comes to
health issues.
Skin cancer is honestly one of my biggest fears.
I find myself constantly checking my skin, looking for any tiny changes or red flags.

Has anyone here actually dealt with this before?
And what are the actual survival rates like?

Thanks!

Check out this page http://www.mayoclinic.org/skin-cancer-types for some solid info on those different types of cancer.

Maria Murphy76 said:I don't get why everyone is foaming at the mouth and making jokes about her, even if she is just trolling or messing around here. 🙂
If she actually stumbled upon a real pack of contraceptive pills, she hasn't done anything horrific.

In almost every country in the European Union, mifepristone—better known as RU486, the abortion pill—is used. It’s taken, I believe, up to eight weeks into a pregnancy to terminate it. Usually, it's paired with misoprostol.

Just a reminder: mifepristone is essentially the same thing as standard contraception, just in a higher dose.

If our doctors were actually competent, women wouldn't be dealing with these phobias; they'd just go to a clinic, get the pill, and there would be nothing to debate on a forum. 😉

🙄Oh sure, the best move is to just label every single OB-GYN in America with a medical degree as abnormal, incompetent, and ignorant. And after that, why stop there? Why not just buy everything you Googled online, maybe grab a double dose just to be safe, and shove it straight into your veins or muscle for a faster hit? Since you're clearly such an expert, do you have a medical degree to back up this confidence? Are you planning on handing out prescriptions and dosage instructions for specific cases now? Tell us, while you're at it—do you cure cancer too? 😳
Good grief, some people are just an endless fountain of "original" ideas.
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Morgan Johnson4 said:Listen, honey, unfortunately that's just the reality. I'm 19 and there is no way I could handle a kid right now... so I'm hoping this works to end the pregnancy... but for now, I don't have any symptoms.

Look, sweetie, you aren't going to "induce a miscarriage" that way; all you're doing is delaying seeing a doctor until you hit a point where an abortion isn't even an option anymore. And when you eventually do carry that child to term, you're looking at massive health risks—we're talking serious developmental issues or even terminal complications.

It’s painfully obvious you're too young for this, because only someone incredibly immature, uneducated, and reckless would think this is a viable plan. You clearly have zero grasp of how contraception works, let alone how the human body functions, or even how to perform a simple Google search to educate yourself. Do you honestly think gynecologists spend their days scraping uterine linings just so people can try to self-abort with pills? Do you think they'd tell everyone, "Hey, just take some pills at home first, then come back if you need another pack"? It's insane. I am genuinely fascinated by how you landed on the idea that a single pack is somehow sufficient.🙄 You really are a special kind of gem, aren't you?🙏
Your liver is likely going to be trashed after this too, so you should probably get blood work done to see how much damage your idiocy actually caused.

So, quit the whining, put some decent clothes on, and go see a doctor to figure out a real solution before you decide to start shoving knitting needles into your uterus like some "old wives' tale" remedy that ends in sepsis.

Alex Mendoza2 said:I'm genuinely curious what it is about alcohol that triggers something in me—is there some kind of diet or lifestyle shift I could use to replicate that feeling?

Alcohol doesn't "trigger" anything; it just numbs you out, leaving you feeling relaxed only because you're essentially sedated, especially the next day. We've already established that you live in a state of constant high pressure and tension. Instead of looking for a liquid substitute, try yoga or Tai Chi. Those practices actually help you unwind by balancing your internal energy flow and bringing you back to center.

wearybison8 said:I think she'd be surprised...

Maybe, but😍life is full of curveballs—just like how Forrest Gump caught us all off guard, except he actually had some luck on his side.

wearybison8 said:What an absolute idiot! 🙄

As for the people claiming this is just some troll—I’m not so sure myself. I’ve actually seen women show up at the local hospital or clinic looking for ways to deal with pregnancy complications using things like strike needles and similar stuff, so...

Are you seriously suggesting someone in that state would even bother logging onto a forum to write a post?☕

Come on, people, let's not take the bait here🙄. If she actually did what they say, there isn't much we can say or do to offer her a hand. This whole thing is just more "complicated" than that.

This is pure trolling, high-grade stuff, nothing less.☕

wiredsailor7 said:Blaming "the system"? Give me a break. What kind of system could possibly be at fault here? You don't need a complex bureaucratic machine or some massive failure in the healthcare infrastructure to explain this away. It’s much simpler than that: someone just didn't bother to look at the patient's medical file and see that they're already living with Parkinson.

Look, you've got four nurses covering thirty patients, and frankly, it’s impossible to mentally process the sheer volume of medical records for that many people at once. Sure, if there's a will, there's a way—I totally get that sentiment—but what are you supposed to do when Medicare cuts the budget down to the absolute bare minimum? It's insulting. Take Rebro Med, for example. The nurses don't even have proper medical gloves for dressing changes or wound care; they're stuck using those flimsy plastic ones you find in a cheap hair dye kit. It would kill the morale of even the most dedicated professional.

What happened to the job requirements? Why on earth does the criteria change so drastically just because a few bucks changed hands behind closed doors? It’s pathetic that this is how things are actually run.

That’s exactly what I’m talking about. The whole system is a complete disaster because corruption has completely gutted it.

Don't take this personally—I'm not coming at you. I'm just absolutely fed up with how everything is playing out.
Just take one look at my username and you can probably guess exactly what kind of hell I've been through. I don't view those people in white coats as gods. They're just professionals who spent years mastering their craft and followed the rules to get where they are—but at the end of the day, they’re still human beings, and humans make mistakes.

Look, I get it. It’s perfectly clear you aren't coming at me personally, and I totally understand why you're so bitter about the whole situation. My username might not be particularly poetic, but believe me, I am one of the many people out there living through this exact same nightmare. Maybe you noticed "For a New Day" in my signature? That organization was founded specifically because we are hell-bent on fixing this broken, dysfunctional system. Doctors, technicians, nurses—we’re all part of the same machine, but at the end of the day, it’s the patients who carry the heaviest burden when everything falls apart. Of course, you find parasites in any industry, but I truly believe most professionals are decent people; they've just been tossed into a rigged game where they have to scramble just to survive. Naturally, the corrupt ones rise to the top, because in a mess like this, cutting corners is always the easiest way to get ahead.

My wife tried to be polite and offer some input to the doctor, just trying to help interpret the results, and you can tell exactly what he thought of her. His response was basically, "Who do you think you are coming in here from out of town and trying to lecture us?"

Look, he’s just exhausted. He’s sick of playing the part of the perpetual victim and explaining his struggles to a room full of people—especially when he knows he probably sounds like an idiot to everyone else anyway. We aren't exactly flies on the wall in those hospital wards, and we don't truly grasp the hell people have to endure behind those sterile white walls. He’s bitter, plain and simple. And honestly? You’re just as bitter as he is.
I’ve always stood firmly on the patient's side, but I’ve also heard the other side of the story—so please, keep this between us. My mother was diagnosed with glioblastoma, an incredibly aggressive brain tumor that you just can't stop permanently. Her treatment involves Temodal, which is covered by Medicare. It’s the kind of thing that extends life slightly and makes those extra days a bit more bearable than if she were doing nothing at all. We were told that once the tumor recurs, Temodal becomes useless because the cancer builds up a resistance to it. However, thanks to the information shared on this forum, we found out directly from experts in Houston that treating a recurrence with Temodal is actually standard practice worldwide, especially if there was a positive response the first time around. By the time we realized this, my mom had already progressed too far into the recurrence to even handle the chemo again. When we finally got our oncologist on the phone, she let it slip: "Medicare won't cover it, so we have to tell you it won't work." Look, I get it—there isn't enough money to go around. I won't dive into the specifics of why, but I assume the limited funds are being diverted toward people who actually stand a chance at a full recovery, rather than someone like my mother, where the goal is simply extending life. But where is the moral right for anyone to rob my mother and me of our precious remaining time together? Where is the right to deny us the option to just buy the Temodal ourselves? Can you even imagine what that was like for the oncologist? It’s devastating. Believe me, any decent doctor wants to cure their patients or at least provide the absolute maximum care possible, but she’s being stripped of that right under the threat of losing her job. Do you see what that does to a system? Regardless of how bitter I feel about it, I think it’s only fair to look at both sides of the coin before we pass judgment.

He isn't in the hospital because of Parkinson's. Right before Christmas, he had an appendectomy—the whole works. After the holidays, they pulled the sutures, but the wound opened up the very next day. He was rushed back to Bjelovar Hospital for another full procedure, and apparently, his intestines had adhered together. Then the fever spiked, and he developed an embolism in his lungs... that's the short version of this nightmare.

Honestly, I just hope they can stabilize him. If his time is truly coming soon, I want him to be at home, surrounded by all of you who love him and can give him the dignity and attention every person deserves in their final days.

Thanks for the advice, 👍

Don't mention it. If you ever need any advice, don't hesitate to reach out.

Michelle Wood3 said:well... it's not quite like she was poisoned.
I think she pulled through 😉

The reality is, when you're dealing with actual poisoning, you usually need way more than just some activated charcoal to fix things.

Alex Mendoza2 said:Do you honestly think there’s anyone out there who would want me like this? Even if I pull myself together a bit, do you really believe someone could love me despite all my flaws?🙂

Edit: And just one more thing. When I was drinking, everything seemed fine. Ever since I quit the booze and the cigarettes, all these issues have started cropping up.

And what exactly do you mean by "like this"?
Maybe you're actually mature enough to finally turn yourself into a better, healthier version of yourself🙄?
I’d say you're prime material for a decent woman... those are the ones everyone is chasing and the ones men always end up mourning, right?🤷

Edit: It's because after years of poisoning your system, your body developed a dependency and now it's in total shock trying to recalibrate to reality. Just because things worked when you were using doesn't mean those pills weren't complete junk.

Alex Mendoza2 said:Man, my girlfriend dumped me today. It's highly likely that's what triggered this, though her explanation was pretty vague. Honestly, that's one more reason I started this thread—now I feel like I have absolutely nobody to lean on. I’m just piling pressure on myself and can't find any way out, plus I've got this constant nausea from the sadness. I mean, deep down I knew this was coming, so I've been stuck in this low-level depression for a while now.

I really need some help here.

I've been scouring Google for supplements containing ginseng. I see stuff like Vitality and Men's Health claiming they help with mental state, libido, everything under the sun. I'd buy some, but money is tight right now, so I want to be sure. Does anyone have actual experience with these? Can someone tell me if they actually work?

Thanks in advance for the replies.

Look, those are all just glorified "aphrodisiacs." They probably won't hurt you, but believe me, there isn't a stronger aphrodisiac on this planet than genuine connection and mutual love.
Don't waste your tears on someone who didn't truly care about you. Just imagine: suppose you had zero issues in the bedroom, you stayed together, you got married, and then you hit a major health crisis—only for her to bail on you then. You see these stories all over Reddit... everything happens for a reason. Maybe this whole mess happened right now specifically so you could realize you were dealing with someone shallow and superficial.
There are plenty of fish in the sea.👍 Don't dwell on it; instead, focus on yourself and be grateful you have the chance to make some positive changes in your life.

Alex Mendoza2 said:Thanks a lot for the input. What’s your take—after years of poisoning myself, am I looking at a few months of recovery before things normalize?

Look, it’s going to take some time. You didn't wreck your system overnight, so expecting to bounce back to peak performance by tomorrow morning is just unrealistic. That said, the human body is a bizarre, complex machine. Anything is possible. I actually know a guy who couldn't conceive with his wife for years specifically because of the exact same lifestyle you've been leading. His sperm count was, quite frankly, non-existent. He finally decided to flip the script: he started running, eating clean, cycling, and hitting a solid eight hours of sleep every night. Six months later—boom—out of nowhere, they had a baby. So, it can be done. Patience is everything.
I really hope this lifestyle shift isn't just a temporary fix to get back in shape, but rather a permanent life choice. If you're truly committed for the long haul, then there’s nothing to worry about.

Activated charcoal is hands down the best neutralizer out there. You can pick some up at any local CVS or Walgreens. It basically acts like a sponge, soaking up everything in its path, and you’ll feel relief almost immediately. It comes in either pill or powder form and is completely tasteless. Just stir the powder into a glass of water and knock it back.

Alex Mendoza2 said:I'm 27, and I’m dealing with issues primarily regarding my erections.

I used to live a pretty wild lifestyle—constant nights out fueled by an insane amount of alcohol. I’m talking about polishing off an entire bottle of hard liquor in a single night, all while chain-smoking like there was no tomorrow. I completely let myself go. For the last few years, whenever I actually ventured out, physical activity wasn't even on my radar. Now, I basically just drive everywhere. My fitness level? Nonexistent.

I quit smoking a year ago. Since then, I’ve cut my nights out down to just once a month—that’s the one day I allow myself a drink, and even then, I keep it strictly moderate. Physically, I’m in good shape; my weight is pretty much dialed in relative to my height. I only recently started hitting the gym because I let myself go for a while, so it's going to take some serious grind to get back to peak condition. I used to be incredibly lazy, but that's finally starting to change.
I rarely get those morning wood moments, but when I do wake up, things are definitely easier to get going than they are later in the day. To be clear, it’s not even about the initial erection upon waking—it’s that within about half an hour of getting out of bed, everything functions perfectly fine once or twice, but after that, it just won't happen, or at least it isn't nearly as easy to trigger. 😢.

Edit: My immune system took a massive hit during that same stretch, too.

I’m wondering if my performance is actually going to bounce back after I've started living a healthier lifestyle, watching what I eat, and following the regimen I mentioned above, or if I should just bite the bullet and start taking medication. I came across some info regarding Vitality—is that something worth taking, and if so, what's the dosage?

To top it all off, I’ve been dealing with this bizarre sensation in my feet quite frequently. It’s pretty irritating, honestly. I’ve noticed that the feeling seems to vanish once I lie down and actually get some rest—it basically only flares up while I'm on my feet walking around. Everything feels perfectly fine when I first wake up in the morning, but then it starts up again.

I’m genuinely looking for some help here, and I'll take any advice you can throw my way.

Your body needs time to recover. Just stick to a healthy lifestyle and you’ll see the results—I'm certain of it. I don't know what your relationship situation looks like, but having a partner who offers genuine support, love, and understanding is absolutely critical. You also can't go putting unnecessary pressure on yourself; that just makes everything worse. Take it slow and give yourself some breathing room. You've put your body through enough hell already. Definitely make sure you're taking something to boost your immune system. If I were in your shoes, I’d go get a full checkup just to see exactly where things stand, and I would definitely bring up that numbness in your legs with your doctor.
Hang in there and stay relentless.👍

wiredsailor7 said:Is there any hope left? It’s obvious nothing positive has changed for patients stuck in hospitals for treatment—at least not at the Bjelovar Hospital.
The whole place still reeks of that old-school, authoritarian vibe, especially coming from the nursing staff.

Right now, my father-in-law is lying in the Bjelovar Hospital. He’s been in the ICU for six days now, and he isn't doing well. My wife tells me daily how terrible the medical care is there. For instance, the poor man lies on his back for nearly 24 hours straight without being turned, except for a few minutes in the morning when the nurses fix the sheets. He isn't getting his blood thinner injections, nor is anyone applying circulation cream to his back. One nurse actually told us, when we questioned her, "...well, we only do that if the patient asks for it..."

Here's another example: his arm where the IV is inserted got swollen, and only when we pointed it out did the nurses say, "Oh, wow, we didn't notice!" Then, his feeding tube got displaced, and a nurse snapped at my wife, "Did you touch that?"

A nurse even asked my wife, "...why is Dad stiffening up like that?" My wife replied, "...did you give him his medication for Parkinson?" To which the nurse responded, "...we have no idea he even has Parkinson!" It is clearly noted in his chart, all the doctors know, and the other shifts are aware too.

We have plenty more "charming" anecdotes from our current experience at the Bjelovar Hospital. Honestly, if I were there in person, I’d probably drag them all into a courtroom. My wife and brother-in-law have been running back and forth bringing them coffee, donuts, and whatever else they need. The medical staff yells at patients like they're in a cattle pen.
I just don't get this situation. What am I supposed to do? Confront them? Sue them? Who do I even complain to?

The old man has already been begging the kids to get him out of there; he wants to die at home.

Reading this feels like reading stories from my own mother's last stay in the hospital.🙄
My only explanation is that they are severely understaffed. It's not uncommon for them to work double shifts, and they simply can't give every patient the attention required for quality care. The system is the true culprit here; it's not that these women don't want to help, they just don't have the resources to do their jobs properly.
My advice to you is to consult with the doctor regarding the direction of his treatment and see if it's possible to manage things at home, given the state of the hospital. Don't go in guns blazing against the doctors—they aren't the villains here, they're victims of the same system. Just present them with your perspective. Actually, it is possible to arrange for home health visits every day for about 45 minutes, where a nurse can focus entirely on him. Since he suffers from Parkinson, it's also possible to get a physical therapist to handle massages and range-of-motion exercises. Both can be arranged through a specialist recommendation (either home health or via a primary care physician), so it's vital to stay on good terms with the hospital doctors. As for the hands-on care he needs—the turning, the massages, the frequent changing—that's something only family can really provide, in my experience. You can also rent a hospital bed, preferably one with hydraulics and anti-decubitus air mattresses, often from a local nursing home or medical supply depot for a nominal fee of maybe $200 $100 a month. We managed to set that up without any trouble. After a year of total immobility, my mother passed away without a single pressure sore on her body, even though she had them during the early stages of her illness. That bed was a true blessing.

Do everything in your power to ensure your loved one maintains their human dignity. Make sure they aren't in pain, that they're well-fed, and that they receive the absolute best care possible!