Posts by Samuel Morgan40

Michelle Cook83 said:So, what exactly happened to you all?

Yeah—honestly, I’m curious too.

silenttinker812 said:Spotted something weird in my throat two days ago... just this tiny little white dot, kind of looks like a pimple, right at the back of my throat. It doesn't even hurt yet—honestly, I don't even notice it unless I'm actively thinking about it—but once I start obsessing over it, my whole mouth starts feeling all funky and uncomfortable... anyone else dealt with something like this before? 😕😕😕😕🤷

Are you absolutely certain it isn't strep throat or maybe some kind of canker sore causing that white spot?

You’ve got that stellar thread titled "Quitting Smoking—Tips, Tricks, and Support" or whatever... so maybe head over there? I mean, someone is bound to have some actual insight, and that specific topic was created precisely for dealing with this kind of mess. 😉
Personally, I’m also looking for answers

That antibiotic can be pretty brutal on your stomach—I’d suggest grabbing a bite to eat before you take it, rather than taking it on an empty stomach. And for heaven's sake, don't go straight to lying down right after you swallow it 😁.
By the way, there's a much larger thread dedicated specifically to doxycycline over on the forums; it covers a lot more ground regarding personal experiences and how it actually impacts women's health 😉

You can certainly try to eat better, dive into all sorts of fitness trends, and basically stock up on every vitamin under the sun—essentially attempting to live this perfectly curated, healthy lifestyle—but if your genetics are just wired a certain way, I suppose there isn't much you can actually do about it.

ambersailor102 said:Oh, I totally forgot to ask😂>

So, tell me—can I actually request those specific biopsies myself?
I mean, the ones you mentioned earlier?
Actually, what would be the smartest thing to ask for?
Sorry for burying you under all these questions.😂>

Hi dear! You aren't overwhelming me at all—honestly, I’m actually quite happy if I can be of some help to someone. 😉

It’s something like this:
Look, you should probably just explain to them that you're ready to start a family—and because of that, you’d really like to get a full, comprehensive picture of everything going on downstairs before you even think about trying to conceive. Honestly, it’s something you absolutely can, and frankly, should, insist on requesting prior to pregnancy. This would ideally include the following:
Maybe it’s just me—and I could certainly be wrong here—but regarding that UZV... I suppose there’s a certain level of uncertainty involved, isn't there? It feels like one of those situations where you're just waiting for the other shoe to drop, though I guess we won't know for sure until the results are actually in.
I suppose—if we’re being entirely realistic here—a physical palpation exam would be quite advisable.
PAPA test
- Four microbiological swabs. It’s worth noting—and I really think this is a crucial point to consider—that PAPA results can sometimes be tricky. While the test might come back clear, there's always that lingering possibility of issues with vaginal flora. Beyond that, you have to account for certain bacteria that can be genuinely dangerous for a developing embryo; some of them tend to just reside within us quite naturally, often without showing any symptoms at all.

Basically, those four swabs are:
HPV (Human Papillomavirus)—just a quick note here, as it’s one of those topics that tends to get glossed over in casual conversation, though it really shouldn't be. It is, essentially, a group of very common viruses that affect the skin and mucous membranes. Most people will encounter it at some point in their lives, often without even realizing it—which is perhaps the most unsettling part, I suppose. While many strains are relatively benign and the body's immune system eventually clears them out on its own, there are certain types that can lead to more significant issues, including various cancers. It's all quite a complex biological dance, really; the way the virus integrates itself into cellular processes is something medical professionals spend a great deal of time monitoring through regular screenings and vaccinations. Definitely something worth keeping on one's radar, even if it isn't particularly pleasant to discuss.
Regarding aerobic and anaerobic organisms—various types of bacteria, specifically—I suspect you might have already tackled this topic in a previous session, but I suppose it wouldn't hurt to go over it once more just to be absolutely certain we're on the same page.
Well, when you're looking at things like Mycoplasma and Ureaplasma—though, if we're being precise, we're really talking about various bacteria and microorganisms—there is a bit of a distinction to be made. From what I gather, Ureaplasma is the one that tends to be the real troublemaker when it comes to fertility or anything involving conception. It’s just one of those things where the specifics matter quite a bit, I suppose.
Chlamydia—which is also a bacterium that can trigger a whole host of inflammatory issues and, frankly, is quite dangerous when it comes to pregnancy outcomes—can be a real headache.

I won't bother going into every single detail here—you can find plenty of information about it in this PDF. I actually wrote my latest thoughts regarding those swabs over in the "What should I ask my gynecologist" thread, so you might want to head over there and give that a read.
If there’s anything you find confusing, please feel free to ask—don't hesitate. We’re mostly just a group of women here who have been through a bit of everything ourselves, and we genuinely enjoy looking out for one another and offering a helping hand whenever we can. 🙂

Get your finances in order—I’m pretty certain that my HPV vaccination through Medicare came out to about... $50Well, regarding the results—specifically the Mycoplasma, Ureaplasma, and those aerobic and anaerobic levels that seem to be hovering somewhere between 70 and... well, let's just say they aren't exactly where you'd want them to be—it’s a bit of a mixed bag, I suppose. It's one of those situations where you're looking at the data and trying to make sense of the spread, which can be a little unsettling, to be honest. I guess we'll just have to see how everything settles once the full picture comes into focus. $33I'm not entirely certain—though I suppose one could argue that even in moments of doubt, there is still a certain level of preparation involved in crafting a specific outcome.

ambersailor102 said:About six months ago, I dealt with a really severe ovarian inflammation for the first time in my life. Back then, I had an ultrasound, a PAP test, and a bacterial swab performed.

During the exam, it was incredibly painful whenever the doctor pressed on my ovary area; I also felt significant pressure right in the center, just above the pubic bone.
The inflammation was confirmed, and I was prescribed antibiotics along with macro-mirror wipes because of the bacteria present.
That treatment worked wonders—after just two days, I felt like a brand new person.

Fast forward to two days ago: during intercourse, I felt this sudden, sharp pain. It felt like my uterus was aching. We stopped immediately, and when I pressed on my lower abdomen to pinpoint the sensation, the center and my left ovary area hurt intensely. That pain lasted about 20 minutes before gradually fading away.
In terms of intensity and type, it actually reminded me quite a bit of the pain from that first inflammation.

I haven't gone in for a checkup yet because I was supposed to start my period yesterday, but nothing has happened so far.🤷
I usually feel my ovulation pretty clearly; I know exactly when my fertile window is. It’s never at the same time—sometimes it's right after my period, sometimes halfway through, sometimes toward the end—but I have never felt pain this intense, so now I'm getting worried.
I'm hoping my period arrives by the weekend; if not, I'll definitely head to the doctor on Monday.

I'm wondering, is it possible for a cyst to have developed within these last six months?
Also, I'm struggling to figure out how to distinguish ovarian pain from, say, large intestine pain. Usually, when I'm on my period, my bowel movements are looser and more frequent because my uterus is slightly tilted and puts pressure on my colon, but otherwise, things are totally regular. Plus, I don't think intestinal issues would cause pain specifically during sex.🤷

Honestly, I'm just completely confused. These things always seem to happen right when the weekend hits.😂

Could the pain potentially be related to pregnancy?
I'm 99% sure I'm not pregnant since we are extremely careful. I don't even really think about it as a possibility; we use condoms plus the withdrawal method, so the chances are practically zero.
Reading through some of your posts here, it feels like it might be a cyst. Right now, I'm actually feeling a little twinge in my right ovary too, but the reality is that I'm just waiting for my period to show up.

I have one more question: I don't quite understand how we get these bacterial infections. In my specific case, I've been with my partner for nearly a decade—he's my first and only partner. We've been careful from the very beginning; we have never had unprotected sex, yet I ended up with bacteria on that swab. How can you prevent situations like that? I take cranberry supplements and eat them, and I take Ecomer, but is there anything else I can do to boost my overall immunity?
My doctor also mentioned that I should cut back on sweets—specifically reducing sugar intake—because it can increase discharge. I had no idea.😕

Sorry for the long post. Any advice would be greatly appreciated just to help me get through the weekend. Thanks in advance!🙏

It’s entirely possible you’re dealing with a simple cyst, or perhaps it’s a slightly more intense inflammation—you really won't know for sure until you get an ultrasound. Honestly, trying to distinguish between ovarian pain and issues stemming from the colon can be incredibly confusing—not just for you, but for pretty much everyone, really. We don't all experience pain with the same intensity or even the same specific sensation, which makes it tricky. And based on what you've described, I’m fairly certain you aren't pregnant—at least 99% sure, anyway. 🙂

ambersailor102 said:About six months ago, I dealt with a really severe ovarian inflammation for the first time in my life. Back then, I had an ultrasound, a PAP test, and a bacterial swab performed.

During the exam, it was incredibly painful whenever the doctor pressed on my ovary area; I also felt significant pressure right in the center, just above the pubic bone.
The inflammation was confirmed, and I was prescribed antibiotics along with macro-mirror wipes because of the bacteria present.
That treatment worked wonders—after just two days, I felt like a brand new person.

Fast forward to two days ago: during intercourse, I felt this sudden, sharp pain. It felt like my uterus was aching. We stopped immediately, and when I pressed on my lower abdomen to pinpoint the sensation, the center and my left ovary area hurt intensely. That pain lasted about 20 minutes before gradually fading away.
In terms of intensity and type, it actually reminded me quite a bit of the pain from that first inflammation.

I haven't gone in for a checkup yet because I was supposed to start my period yesterday, but nothing has happened so far.🤷
I usually feel my ovulation pretty clearly; I know exactly when my fertile window is. It’s never at the same time—sometimes it's right after my period, sometimes halfway through, sometimes toward the end—but I have never felt pain this intense, so now I'm getting worried.
I'm hoping my period arrives by the weekend; if not, I'll definitely head to the doctor on Monday.

I'm wondering, is it possible for a cyst to have developed within these last six months?
Also, I'm struggling to figure out how to distinguish ovarian pain from, say, large intestine pain. Usually, when I'm on my period, my bowel movements are looser and more frequent because my uterus is slightly tilted and puts pressure on my colon, but otherwise, things are totally regular. Plus, I don't think intestinal issues would cause pain specifically during sex.🤷

Honestly, I'm just completely confused. These things always seem to happen right when the weekend hits.😂

Could the pain potentially be related to pregnancy?
I'm 99% sure I'm not pregnant since we are extremely careful. I don't even really think about it as a possibility; we use condoms plus the withdrawal method, so the chances are practically zero.
Reading through some of your posts here, it feels like it might be a cyst. Right now, I'm actually feeling a little twinge in my right ovary too, but the reality is that I'm just waiting for my period to show up.

I have one more question: I don't quite understand how we get these bacterial infections. In my specific case, I've been with my partner for nearly a decade—he's my first and only partner. We've been careful from the very beginning; we have never had unprotected sex, yet I ended up with bacteria on that swab. How can you prevent situations like that? I take cranberry supplements and eat them, and I take Ecomer, but is there anything else I can do to boost my overall immunity?
My doctor also mentioned that I should cut back on sweets—specifically reducing sugar intake—because it can increase discharge. I had no idea.😕

Sorry for the long post. Any advice would be greatly appreciated just to help me get through the weekend. Thanks in advance!🙏

When it comes to bacteria—it’s actually perfectly normal to find both bacteria and viruses living within the human body, including around the genital area. This applies to HPV (which has even been detected in virgins) as well as just about any other common bacteria. It’s honestly really refreshing to see someone being this responsible and proactive about their health. You can eat well, stay active, bolster your immune system—basically, just live a healthier lifestyle overall. Keep doing exactly that. 🙂 However, let’s be realistic—no one can actually guarantee that you won't encounter some random bacterium at some point. You could pick up something from who knows where, and honestly, we women tend to be quite sensitive when it comes to that sort of thing. It's not all bad news, though; there are good bacteria out there too, I suppose. 😉 Staying absolutely sterile is, practically speaking, an impossible feat. You might carry a specific bacterium while your partner doesn't—or they might have it while you're clear—and honestly, there’s no set rule for it; you could both be carrying it at the exact same time, too. There just isn't some universal regulation governing how this works. 😉

From what I could gather—and I might be misreading things here—it looks like you had a bacteriological swab done, but I'm curious... what exactly were they testing for?
I wasn't entirely sure—did you only run tests for aerobic and anaerobic bacteria, or did you also include the others like mycoplasma, ureaplasma, and chlamydia?

Good grief, I’m staring down the barrel of bankruptcy here—though, I suppose the real question remains whether my job will even let me pull through this mess 🙂

Exactly—that’s precisely what we’re advising her to do: focus on gaining some weight and just maintaining a balanced, healthy lifestyle. She really needs to make that call right now. As far as I can see, it remains her only truly GOOD and HEALTHY path forward. If she refuses to go that route, then she’s basically left with that other option. 😉

placidorca16 said:J...confirmed some of the potential risks to me—risks that are actually backed up by several scientific papers I’ve been digging through myself. She told me quite bluntly that OB-GYNs are essentially "obligated" to offer hormone therapy across various diagnostic scenarios, even though it carries significant side effects—things like certain types of cancer, cardiovascular issues, and other circulatory problems, among others.

I know this—and I’m fairly certain ruggedbadger25 is aware of what the other women here have experienced, too. Honestly, OB-GYNs are obligated to disclose this kind of information; that’s just how it works. But in her case, the issue isn't just some minor, nagging discomfort—it's much more serious. We're talking about a significant underlying problem that could potentially lead to catastrophic outcomes or even malignant conditions down the road. If she has already reached this point—if she’s truly backed into a corner where she has to choose between two equally unpleasant options—then she might as well choose the lesser of two evils. That’s really the whole point of the matter.

Now, please don't get me wrong—I'm certainly not suggesting this should be the go-to move unless there really is no other way out. For her, though... well, I suppose that's her primary option. Weight gain—it’s such an exhausting topic to navigate, isn't it? I feel like every time I turn around, there's some new "miracle" diet or a sudden shift in my own body that feels completely out of my control. It’s frustrating, honestly—that sense of looking in the mirror and feeling like you don't quite recognize the person staring back at you. I suppose it isn't just about the scale, though; it's the metabolic shifts, the hormonal fluctuations, and that lingering feeling that your body has decided to change the rules without consulting you first. Maybe it's stress, maybe it's just life happening, but it’s a lot to process.Honestly, every single woman here has given her the same advice—myself included. If I were in her shoes, that would be my absolute Plan A, and I’d start working on it immediately. She mentioned right at the beginning that she’s terrified of birth control, so that leaves weight gain as the only other real option (which brings up its own set of problems). She says she’s dreading gaining weight, but what else is there? Either take the pill or deal with whatever combination of Verifem and Duphaston a doctor decides to prescribe. Her situation isn't just going to fix itself through wishful thinking. She needs to be honest with herself—admit that she’s carrying a few extra pounds, acknowledge that she dropped weight too fast on purpose, and realize she needs to get back to a healthy baseline. Otherwise, she’s just going to spin her wheels in this endless cycle and leave herself wide open to all sorts of health issues, both minor and major. The bottom line is that she’s been backed into a corner where she HAS to act now. She needs to understand that missing periods for an extended period can actually have much more serious consequences than just taking a pill. It’s a choice: either she addresses the weight gain now—maybe through teas or other lifestyle shifts—or she follows a doctor's recommendation and takes the medication she's so afraid of.

placidorca16 Asks:
Taking hormone therapy when your weight is that low—honestly, I’m a bit concerned that it might not be the most brilliant move. It just feels like a risky gamble, I guess.🙄

Are you an OB-GYN? I’m trying to wrap my head around this whole "rolajzzz" thing—what’s the deal there? And honestly, if she isn't gaining weight, then she'll just have to... well, she'll have to.

ruggedbadger25 said:I’m not trying to trivialize things here... but honestly, this whole situation— Absolutely. It isn't exactly a crisis—not quite as critical as it might seem at first glance.
So, they hand you a diagnosis. Quite easy, I suppose.Look, just to get you off my back—if you absolutely insist on knowing...

They don't hand out diagnoses like candy—doctors aren't exactly in the business of messing around. The sheer fact that you’ve lost your period—meaning your entire system is essentially out of sync—speaks volumes about how serious this actually is. Honestly, your situation is DEFINITELY critical. It's all the more concerning because you keep insisting everything is fine. I suppose 99% of girls struggling with anorexia will claim they aren't in any real danger. Some manage to pull themselves back from the brink in time, but unfortunately, others simply don't.

You can ingest all the hemp, chasteberry, calendula, coconut, rose, or any other botanical concoction this world has to offer—honestly, you could try every herb under the sun—but none of it is going to fix the problem if you're carrying this kind of attitude and staying in this particular headspace. A prolonged absence of your period while you're in this state might actually have some consequences for your future, and I don't mean some distant, theoretical issue down the road. It's more immediate than that, I guess.

You probably don't even realize the sheer number of health issues you could be facing down the road—it’s actually quite a lot to consider. Honestly, those pills are incredibly effective at preventing ovarian and endometrial cancer, which is a massive silver lining if you think about it.

I truly, deeply hope you can put some weight back on—even if it’s just a little at a time—and that you can eventually move through a period of taking medication to get back to your baseline, only to leave those pills behind for good once you're there. I genuinely want nothing more than for you to recover and finally settle into a life that feels easy, carefree, and—most importantly—healthy. 😘

I’m assuming we're talking about ovulation here. Discharge is a perfectly normal thing for women—it can definitely ramp up during ovulation, though it really varies from person to person. One woman might notice a significant change, while another won't feel a thing. If there's any actual pain involved, maybe she just caught a bit of a chill near her ovaries; she should probably be mindful of how she dresses for the weather. Some women experience those sharp little twinges in their ovaries during ovulation, whereas others don't feel anything at all.
My honest advice, though, is not to take any of these assumptions at face value. If something is bothering him—or if it was bothering her—the only real way to get a straight answer is to go see a gynecologist for a proper exam. 🙂

ruggedbadger25 said:Well, I only weigh about 108 pounds. It's not like it's an incredibly dangerous weight or anything.

It actually is dangerous—and, frankly, it's highly unlikely that medication will do much for you at that weight, especially once you stop taking it. But, if I may be so bold, perhaps even more concerning is the idea that this isn't a serious situation. Nobody here is trying to attack you; we are just attempting to help you realize that you really MUST gain some weight.

ruggedbadger25 said:...I need to gain those 5 lbs over the next year, but even thinking about it makes me feel nauseous.

I realize this isn't easy for you right now—really, I do—but you have to understand that this is absolutely necessary for your health. This is a very serious issue, maybe more serious than you even realize at this point.

So, you don't want to take pills, and the mere thought of gaining weight is revolting to you, so you've decided to rely solely on herbal tea. Honestly? That’s a highly questionable approach given the circumstances; it’s little more than a mild supplement to actual medical intervention. It won't do anything for you if you just keep going down this same path.

Your situation is what it is—whether you like it or not, you really need to listen to the professionals for your own sake. Please, think about your health and your future. You might end up regretting this deeply later on. It seems like you're afraid of medication, yet you aren't showing that same concern for your own life or the reproductive system you're going to need down the road.

Back in high school, I had a classmate who struggled with anorexia. She pushed herself to such an extreme that her doctors literally told her, "If you lose even one more pound, you will die." It was only then that she truly "woke up," and it took all of us pulling together to help her fight against that darkness. We were always there with her, making sure she ate. It wasn't junk food; we made sure she had real meals. There were nights we'd be calling her at 3:00 AM just to get her to eat. She couldn't handle big meals, so it had to be small amounts more frequently. It was a slow, grueling process of getting her life back, involving endless days spent in hospitals. It honestly brought tears to my eyes seeing her layer four different shirts on just to look "normal." That struggle lasted two years. The fallout was massive—she dealt with constant illnesses and infections because her immune system was completely trashed, and it took a heavy toll on her reproductive health, among other things I won't go into here.

My intention isn't to scare you—not even slightly—but rather to point out how grave this situation is. You can't just lean on an internet forum and cling to everything except medication and weight gain. You MUST gain weight. Please, choose your health and your life.

Wishing you nothing but luck and good health 🙂

Jeffrey Flores45 said:It’s definitely possible.
I honestly wouldn't want to deal with a gynecologist right now—had some pretty unpleasant experiences before—and now I'm just stuck on what to do next.

Look, that doctor is just like any other, and honestly, there's really no point in neglecting your own health just because of one bad encounter. We can't exactly play guessing games about what might be going on with you without getting an ultrasound and potentially some swabs done. Please, just look out for your ovaries and make sure you actually go in for an exam.🙂

You’ll start feeling better as time goes on—eventually, you’ll be doing it almost subconsciously. For me, it’s become such a routine part of my day that it's like saying a quick hello 😍 I don't even have to think about it anymore

This marks the third time I’ve heard conflicting rumors about whether this movie is actually getting made—it’s either happening or it isn't, depending on who you ask lately. 🤷
Even though the folks over on the US forums seem just as uncertain, and I haven't stumbled upon any concrete updates on the official websites of the actors involved, I still tend to believe that where there's smoke, there's fire. 🧐

It isn’t strictly a matter of gaining weight by the pound—I mean, it really depends on which specific pill you’re prescribed and, frankly, how your own body decides to react to it.
If I were in your shoes, I’d probably just eat a late dinner or snack through the night; honestly, I’d give anything to be in your position right now and actually have the "problem" of needing to put on some weight. 😉
The pills should help clear up the acne, though, I suppose, it doesn’t work quite the same way for everyone. 🤷

Richard Wilson4 said:The whole thing feels a bit suspicious to me—though I wouldn't say it's illogical—since, aside from Jennifer Aniston and Courteney Cox, none of them really built lasting careers...

What surprises me most is Matthew Perry; for instance, he had that guest spot on Scrubs and he was actually great. They really could have handed him his own sitcom... 🤷

Then again, most of his movies were absolute garbage...

Cox built a career? Everything seemed to spiral after Scream. As for Aniston, we all know exactly who helped her build that "career." Looking back at where things stood about 10 or 12 years ago, Perry arguably had the strongest position, but he just didn't utilize his talent the way he should have. He did have his comedic projects and guest appearances on shows like The West Wing and Ally McBeal. He could have transitioned into a film career alongside his TV work, which he started to do, but well—it’s hard to argue with what happened once addiction and rehab entered the picture... 😛

The show is one of my favorites—it was truly excellent during those first few seasons. I'm hoping the movie is at least half as good; maybe it might actually surprise me in a pleasant way.

And I'm really hoping for some of that old Chandler sarcasm from the early seasons. 😬😍