Stigma and misconceptions about STIs and sexual behavior
in Women's Health ·
bluemoose21 said:So, what you're saying is that in actual, real-world settings—or if we’re using the term "RL" in its most literal sense—you don't actually hold those views? You seem to be avoiding a direct answer altogether, which, honestly, I suspect wouldn't be justified even if you did step up to it.
I’m curious—how exactly did you manage to arrive at such a bizarre conclusion?
What kind of answers am I avoiding? You just keep spinning the same old narrative—and honestly, you’re making it increasingly personal every time you do.
My intention here was simply to caution you—perhaps you're jumping to conclusions a bit too hastily? I thought I might provide a few pieces of information that, in my estimation, are somewhat vital if one wants to reach an informed conclusion.
Well, you’ve certainly made it clear that you have both the space and the time—you’ve pointed that out quite explicitly. That's fine, I suppose. 😉
That entire section where you claim I’m trying to sway your opinion of me—it really just boils down to your specific stance on people who aren't sufficiently informed about HIV. I'm reading between the lines here. 👍
It’s quite interesting how you keep insisting that I need to practice "reading with comprehension"—all while tossing around an ADHD diagnosis as if it were a casual insult—yet somehow you still fail to grasp the bottom line of my argument. Let me be perfectly clear: I don't approve of your behavior. There is something fundamentally wrong with you acting so smug toward a girl when she is at her absolute lowest, especially since your entire stance is built on being completely misinformed. As for the comparison to HIV, that was merely a parallel—admittedly, those two viruses are worlds apart, but that bitter sensation and the lingering feeling of being "tainted" are exactly the same. Just like my indignation here.
So, after all those exhaustive lectures we’ve endured regarding freedom of speech and the right to express oneself on these forums—are you actually going to try and block me from attempting to defend my own position here? 🤣
Where exactly am I supposed to be seeing any kind of prohibition from my side? I mean, honestly—where? 😕 Well, here we are—another fresh thread. I suppose this gives everyone a chance to offer their excuses on a much grander scale.
Given that you have upwards of 10,000 posts under your belt, I suspect you don't exactly view the internet or online forums as anything more than some trivial, secondary way to communicate—if you even consider them at all.
Of course not—I’ve built quite a few genuine friendships here, gathered plenty of useful insights from wonderful people, and enjoyed some truly great conversations along the way. It’s all part of that larger picture which, as you so aptly pointed out, ten thousand posts more than adequately illustrates.
I honestly don’t get why you feel this constant need to derail the main point—and I mean *constantly*, you seem to be the first one to do it every single time. I started this whole discussion because of how some guy I was seeing acted toward a girl—using terms like "prc," for instance—simply because he’s so incredibly uninformed about basic respect. That was the entire premise: that his behavior is frankly revolting. So, I’m struggling to see why we’re suddenly pivoting away from that to engage in all this philosophical deep-diving regarding my own character. Right now, the focus here is supposed to be on you—specifically, your lack of awareness and the fallout that stems from it. I might be blunt, or perhaps a bit abrasive, I suppose, but that doesn't change the fundamental subject of this thread.
Since I tend to be rather meticulous—and frankly, I find this whole thing quite entertaining 😁
Then just say so; don't go diving headfirst into your keyboard claiming there's nothing left to search for on this forum. If you're being entertained, then by all means, stick around. 🙂
Haha, obviously the conversation hasn't stopped; just look at the last few posts, there aren't many. Or maybe you have ADHD or some other reason for thinking otherwise?
Oh, boohoo! 😢
What a lovely way to communicate. You seem to call this a "discussion," though you're actually just proving my initial assessment of you was far too generous. This is 👎. Is the point of this post to demonstrate whether you're even capable of holding a coherent argument and staying on topic?