Yeah, I definitely felt it too. I was feeling totally drained, exhausted, and just completely wiped out... I’ve always struggled with anemia, so that doesn't help much. Things are looking up now, though—much better actually. I've been trying some bioresonance treatments. It’s a slow process, but it's moving in the right direction! ☺️ Onwards and upwards! 😊
Do you actually live out the things you notice (or judge) in others? In other words, are you practicing the insights you’ve gained, or are they just mental conclusions? Do these observations of others help you or hurt you? Are you using their flaws to lift yourself above them, or are you truly becoming aware of what you've seen?
P.S. The Bible is written symbolically, through parables. It isn't meant to be taken literally, despite how it might seem.
Humility isn't about being a doormat or sucking up to people, as someone else mentioned earlier.
True humility is a state of mind where we don't try to place ourselves above others or above God. We face these little tests every single day, in every interaction we have—including this one right here online.
It isn't about reaching a destination; it’s an ongoing process. And that process might have already kicked off for you.
That concept of "himself" is pretty flexible and can mean a lot of different things depending on how you look at it.
I used the phrase "touching himself" because your question made it sound like you were totally new to this. I was just trying to explain the process simply, but it turns out you already know your stuff! 😁
Michael Gonzalez77 said:I spent 16 years walking alongside a realized Teacher. Sadly, that experience taught me that you won't find people like that here. I know plenty of folks who claim to be something they aren't—not just on this site, either. Most are just kids getting lost in a carnival of cotton candy and bright lights.
It’s pretty clear to me that the path is incredibly long, especially if you're wandering without a guide.
So, there's no point in me arguing about it; it's obvious. When I say "rare," I mean truly rare individuals out of 7.3 billion people. On this forum? Zero. But that's beside the point.
Could you share the name of that teacher? If not here, maybe in the other thread? Thanks
The gist: The average human brain churns out about 60,000 thoughts every single day. Here’s the kicker: over 40,000 of those are just the same old loops you were running yesterday. It’s like a record player stuck in a groove, which is exactly why it’s so easy to spiral into a negative mindset. Think of it as needing to hit the "reset" button by swapping your usual routine for something totally new to give your brain a much-needed scrub.
Negative thoughts act like a phantom stressor. Even if nothing is actually wrong in your life, those thoughts create real anxiety. It’s like an alarm system going off when there isn't even a burglar—eventually, that constant state of high alert wears down your immune system.
Treat your brain like a muscle. You have to train it to spot the good stuff. The more you practice looking for positive cues, the more natural it becomes. Try to live more intentionally—basically, take the steering wheel from those subconscious habits. The ultimate goal? Reaching a point where being positive is your brain's default setting.
Bottom line: staying stuck in a rut is exhausting!
I feel like you’ve hit a bit of a rut lately, maybe even some burnout. You really need to shake things up to get that spark back—do something that actually gets your adrenaline pumping!
Think paragliding, riding a motorcycle through the desert, or a massive cross-country road trip... something like that.
Try to tap back into what actually used to get you fired up. Was it playing guitar, getting lost in a good book, dancing, or maybe hitting the pool hall? Think back to those big dreams you had when you were a kid. Give them another shot. That’s usually the best way to find your spark again. Just take it one step at a time and don't throw in the towel.
Anyone have any tips? What kind of techniques actually work? Has anyone figured this out yet? If you could reply in English, I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
Carol Sullivan said:I stopped trusting people a long time ago. Now, it’s strictly my immediate family or nobody at all. It isn't just about doubting what people say. I find myself constantly reading between the lines, dissecting their actions and reactions. No matter how crazy it sounds, I always end up spotting the cracks... Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for perfection. I know nobody is perfect—I certainly am not. But I look for basic decency. A shred of genuine goodness. And yet, I always end up disappointed by the sheer amount of greed and envy that slips through in even the smallest comments or gestures. People probably think I’m some kind of perfectionist or a nitpicker. Maybe. But honestly, I’m just exhausted by everyone trying so hard to curate this flawless image of themselves. My contact list has dwindled down to just a few names because I simply don't have the energy to hunt for the best in people anymore... especially when I'd rather be alone than settle for fake connections just to avoid loneliness. I used to be very social. I have my flaws, sure... but if I make a promise, I keep it. That seems to be a rare commodity these days. When I give an opinion, I’m brutally honest. I say what I mean. I think that's why my circle is so small—very few people actually want to hear the truth, and even fewer truly care about others... at least not in the way I do.
How do you view people? Do you trust too easily? If so, why? If not, why not?
Oh yeah, back when I was a teenager, I went through those same lows—it honestly felt like it was physically draining me. It rarely actually boosted my mood enough to make me want to quit on the spot. I’ve been wondering, though: can constant smoking actually cause hair loss? And if it does, is just quitting enough to fix it, or are you stuck with thinning hair for good?
Look, I get it—officers working without badges or warrants should face consequences. That’s just common sense. But if some kids are aiming an air rifle at a neighbor, and that neighbor can't tell if it's the kids or their dad pulling the trigger, the police have to step in. What was the alternative? Just let them keep shooting because they're on private property?
Dogs only become aggressive if their owners teach them to be that way by inciting them against other pets, people, or animals. Honestly, whenever I see an owner egging their dog on toward a cat with commands like "Get him!" or "Kill it!", it makes my stomach turn and my blood pressure skyrocket. I’d love to see those people held accountable. Eventually, these dogs end up attacking children or pregnant women... And at the end of the day, the owners are the ones to blame. I'm all for humanely euthanizing truly dangerous dogs, but I also think we should strictly ban the importation of aggressive fighting breeds altogether.
Human life is sacred. Human life holds more value than any animal. The life of a single serial killer outweighs the lives of every dog currently existing on this planet.
There are no moral dilemmas here. Animals are primitive tools and resources utilized by humans to satisfy their own needs—including the needs of lonely individuals seeking emotional companionship. To even attempt to draw a pseudo-nationalist parallel between the hierarchy of human value and our relationship with animals is nothing short of perverse. Human life is sacred. Human life holds more value than any animal. The life of a single serial killer outweighs the lives of every dog currently existing on this planet.
There are no moral dilemmas here. Animals are primitive tools and resources utilized by humans to satisfy their own needs—including the needs of lonely individuals seeking emotional companionship. To even attempt to draw a pseudo-nationalist parallel between the hierarchy of human value and our relationship with animals is nothing short of perverse.
Are you kidding me? Or do you actually believe that? 😢
Still waiting on my lab results. I’m not even sure if my thyroid is the culprit yet, so I'm playing it safe and holding off on anything big. As for my memory? It feels like my head is stuck inside a bubble.