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School Reform: Thoughts? in Students & Teens ·
Should history professors just retrain as retail clerks?

Over at my local Walmart, they’re totally shorthanded. Apparently, "nobody wants to work anymore." Honestly, maybe some history professor could fill a gap? I highly doubt scanning barcodes is too much heavy lifting 🍿, unless they need a degree in computer science just to figure out how the register works.
Can we just get straight to the point instead of rambling? in Psychology & Therapy ·
Joe catches a golden marlin.
The marlin says, "Let me go, and I'll grant you one wish."
Joe says, "I want a massive, floor-length junk."
He lets the fish go, and it bites both his legs off.
I think it’s just part of being human—that natural urge to peek into other people's lives. It’s how we actually learn about the world around us, right? We’re social creatures, after all.

Whether we’re getting lost in a novel, scrolling through blogs, lurking on forums, or obsessing over influencers on Instagram, we’re constantly looking at what everyone else is up to. It’s just how we engage.

But from a sociological standpoint, there’s a line you shouldn't cross. You shouldn't meddle in things that don't concern you, or worse, let someone else's drama, opinions, or chaos mess with your own headspace. Don't let their life derail yours.
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
bluejackal2 said:Man, we were out grabbing a few drinks yesterday and I ended up getting totally grilled by some guy I went to elementary school with. He starts attacking me about how it's such a waste that I'm not working, especially since I finished that brutal engineering degree, and that I could be tapping into European Union grants and all sorts of other nonsense. I’m trying to explain to him how antipsychotics basically turned me into this emotionally numb shell of a person along with my illness, and why I wouldn't even want a job anyway since I'm retired and dealing with my veteran disability benefits and zero remaining work capacity, etc., etc., but he just doesn't get it. See, his business was struggling, so his neighbor—who's a vet himself—convinced him to just retire based on PTSD claims, so he listened, played the "crazy" card, got his pension, but since he didn't qualify for the specific veteran disability status, he's now trying to hunt it down because of this new law. The guy is healthy as a horse, doesn't take any meds, and now he thinks I'm just faking my mental health issues to get a check, like we're all cut from the same cloth. It's easier for him to shove that logic up my ass than to actually wrap his head around it, and it's not even the first time he's been riding me about working just because "it's a waste of a degree." No wonder people get pissed at us veterans when there are folks like him around. Look, I've got an IQ north of 110, but frankly, I don't give a damn about that. I just want peace, quiet, and for nobody to mess with me using their weird fixed ideas about what I should be doing. People should just live their own lives and stop trying to manage mine; I'm not asking anyone for advice or help.

Honestly, just get lost. If you want to work through your own frustrations and complexes, go find someone else to bother.

I am totally with you when it comes to these fake PTSD types.☕
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:Yeah, I guess that's what happens when you grow up watching Indiana Jones. 🕺

But I really should stop acting so silly—I'm getting too old for this. 😬

I used to ramble on about all that Star Trek nonsense too, and let me tell you, it didn't exactly win me any prizes. 😢
My Soul in Psychology ·
Matthew Cruz44 said:~This space is dedicated to anyone who finds themselves unable to join the usual threads for soul-cleansing; it’s for those who simply want to chat with others about their wildest, most untamed emotions, listen to what others have to say, and ponder potential paths forward—all without any mention of a diagnosis or whether such a thing even exists.~

I truly adore my soul ☕

And I am absolutely furious at anything that dares to threaten it. I find myself bristling at all those people who claim to be "perfectly normal," who recoil in terror from madness because they view it as something lurking on the dark side of death... whereas this "madness" is actually just a soul ☕ set free

Bill Gates

Bill Gates

I couldn't start a thread over in the Spirituality section, nor do I particularly want to..............but whatever, let's just call this a little extra breathing room for those of us feeling a bit squeezed by the world

Welcome to the Slack

The folks living in "reality" with their "Real Problems" 🤮 versus my own ethereal ones... ☕

Dan Quayle, it HURTS

I'm currently resolving father issues, and apparently, that manifests as pain on the right side of my body.

When the pain hits the left side, that's when it's mother issues.

My hand, my eye, my temple... everything is throbbing. It hurts like hell to witness everyone else's fear of losing their minds—that collective anxiety is exhausting. Meanwhile, I’m just here living with my beautiful, dark little soul as it pulses right through my brain.

There you have it.

I had no idea.

Is that the same thing as when people talk about upper chakras, lower chakras, and all that other stuff...?
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
Matthew Castillo5 said:Can you pull some strings and get him a much longer sentence behind bars? Honestly, it’s the only way to get the justice he actually deserves. 🍿

😉

Joseph Bailey41 said:I think he'd probably need a little help from Neo and Jesus to make that happen. 😢

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
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I've lost interest in everything in Psychology ·
Spot on.

Donna White50 said:Trust me, once you're staring at an empty fridge and your parents cut off your allowance and stop buying groceries, you'll suddenly find some inspiration for a career path...
Thinking like this at 18—man, when I was your age, I was chasing all kinds of nonsense because I was being immature, but at least I had some kind of spark...

markomestar And why are you even stressing about not having interests? If nothing catches your eye, then nothing catches your eye. Period.
I feel like a coward. I've lost my backbone. :( in Psychology & Therapy ·
Angela White2 said:I hope I’ve posted this in the right section; let me know if I need to move it.

Basically, I’m 19, and my main issue is a genuine fear of physical confrontation. I just can't bring myself to stand up to anyone. It's always been this way—I was a peaceful kid from the start, and that isn't the problem. The problem is that I've been a victim of continuous bullying for two and a half years now.

It all started back in late 2015/early 2016, and it hasn't stopped since. It's been a traumatic, horrible stretch of time, and everything has gone downhill because it feels like everyone is either trying to push me around or messing with my head. Since early 2016, this one guy and his group of friends have been harassing me daily. It's been two and a half years of this, and I haven't had the guts to do anything about it because I don't know how to fight, nor do I ever want to. Secondly, I lack the courage to take a stand or confront an aggressor. I've always been the type to stay quiet and just take the crap rather than speaking my mind and demanding respect. Third, whenever I face these guys or get into any kind of heated argument, I just freeze. I get so overwhelmed by fear that my mind goes blank and I start stuttering. I end up acting like a complete coward, and it eats at me. It makes me feel less masculine and undignified because I can never shut down a provocation.

Because this has been going on since 2016, the issue persists. I run into these bullies almost every day since I live in a small town, so avoiding them is impossible—especially in the summer when everyone is out and about. Every single time, I freeze up and react like a coward. I'm looking for any way to solve this.

Over these last two and a half years, I've thought about this constantly, and it's turned into serious anxiety, which has caused other issues for me.

Because of this, I've never had a girlfriend. It feels like girls are only attracted to those "tough guys," and I feel like I'm not man enough. I constantly imagine walking through town with a girl and someone starts messing with her, and I'd just stand there like a loser, unable to do anything because I can't fight and I can't stand my ground. That would be the ultimate embarrassment.

I simply don't have that fighting instinct in me, and that's the core of the problem.

I don't know how to fight, I'm afraid to stand up for myself, and I can't handle provocations. I've even been slapped a few times, which is incredibly humiliating.

I've thought about talking to my parents or reporting this to the local police, but I hesitate because I don't want to look like an even bigger wimp or a snitch.

Does anyone have any advice?

How can I develop that fighting instinct? How can I find the nerve to respond to provocations, whether they are verbal or physical?

Any advice at all would be appreciated and helpful.

Just move. Get out of that environment where being violent is considered "cool."

You aren't built that way, and no amount of training is going to change who you are at your core.

Either enroll in college and head somewhere else for school, and find a crowd that actually fits your vibe.
Or just pack up, find a job elsewhere, and I'll say it again: find people who actually suit you.
Question for the agnostics in Spirituality ·
Gregory Carter67 said:I’m intentionally dropping this thread here instead of the religion sub—mostly to steer clear of theological debates and keep things strictly focused on the metaphysical side through a logical lens. Let's skip the whole Bible discussion and religious text commentary.

I'm curious how folks who lean toward agnosticism explain this one.
Look, a human exists. There are endless possibilities. You can experience life—walking, doing, loving, feeling—basically testing out all sorts of experiences during your time here. Let's just call them "gifts" (doesn't matter if you believe in God or not; call them gifts from whoever you want right now).

An agnostic believes in *something*, they just aren't sure what. A lot of them claim to believe in a higher power, but they don't necessarily believe God is a living being. They see it as some kind of energy. And since energy isn't a sentient being, it can't make decisions, intervene, or anything like that. So, that pretty much rules out the idea of a personal God—a God who actually steps in and meddles in human affairs. The religious take (at least in mainstream American traditions like Christianity) views God as both a higher force *and* a personal being.

So, my question for the agnostics is this: if a person has the capacity to experience all these things, and an agnostic attributes those blessings to a higher power, does it make sense to suggest that this higher power/God is incapable of experiencing those same gifts (in whatever form, doesn't even matter which) that they bestowed upon a lower being (a human)?

In other words, is it logically sound to think that something as incredible as the gift of life is something only "lower" beings—animals, humans, plants—can experience? Is it possible that for a higher power/God, experiencing these things, even in a spiritual or otherworldly way, is impossible? It's like the Being Above gives a gift to the being below, yet that very gift remains unreachable to the Source itself. As someone who believes in God as a living being rather than just raw energy, that doesn't sit right with me—but I'm genuinely interested in the logic used by those who don't believe in a living God.

Just looking for the logic here. No need to pull out a holy book for the answer, which is why I'm posting this here. Cheers.

Since you’re looking at this through the lens of a believer while asking a question like this, it makes sense that you're struggling to wrap your head around someone seeing things differently than you do. You assume there's some divine exchange happening, but what if there isn't?
God is God. That's just how it works. He's fundamentally different from an earthly physical being.
There aren't "gifts" involved—not physical ones, not emotional ones, nothing.
And there’s zero need for any kind of cosmic payback.
People just think differently. Period.
Who can I talk to for help? Who should I reach out to? in Psychology & Therapy ·
Harold Anderson3
Harold Anderson3 said:I’m currently on the latest and arguably the most effective medications available on the market today.
Honestly, I don't see much room for improvement there.
If anything, I might consider bumping up my antidepressant dosage, since I tend to find myself feeling low more often than I feel actually okay. But then again, I can't really make any moves like that without sitting down for a proper evaluation with my psychiatrist first.

Look, it’s people, your environment, and life circumstances that trigger these depressive episodes.
Try tackling those actual issues. Antidepressants just patch up the symptoms—they don't fix the root cause.
Who can I talk to for help? Who should I reach out to? in Psychology & Therapy ·
🙂

I honestly don't know who you should turn to. The folks covered by Medicare? They’re old school. They mostly just stick to standard talk therapy.
What you actually need is someone with experience in IBM-style approaches.
Psychiatrists who specialize in that kind of work don't bother working for Medicare because they can make way more money running their own private practices.
The downside? You have to pay out of pocket.

I'm with Donna White50 on this one—you've got to accept yourself exactly as you are and just squeeze every bit of potential out of what you've got.

And yeah, a change of scenery is always a good idea.
I don't know what you do for a living, but moving somewhere far away from home often does the trick.
It's simple: you change the atmosphere. Between working hard and dealing with new people, you don't even have time to overthink things. Sometimes, those diagnoses just sort of fade into the background.

Good luck 👍
How to tone down the sarcasm without losing my personality? in Psychology & Therapy ·
Carl Rivera43 said:I’m the kind of guy who delivers great results when the vibes are right and the atmosphere is relaxed. I’ve been waiting a long time to find a workplace that's mostly positive and laid-back.

Now, look, I get it—some people just aren't into joking around. But seriously, why do some folks feel this desperate need to act like total robots all day?

How do you handle things when over 80% of the crew loves a good laugh, yet you still have to deal with a tiny minority that finds it all a bit much?

My advice? Enjoy the 80%, but respect the other 20%. They might just be social phobics, depressed, loners, or maybe they’re just stuck up because they can't manage to connect with anyone else—or they're simply cranky.

A quick smile and a polite "hello" in passing will disarm even the most robotic coworker.
Why do I keep picking the wrong people? in Psychology ·
Joshua Long62 said:I’ve been looking around, but I can't find a thread quite like this, so feel free to move this if I missed it. I’m in a relationship with someone who basically has all the worst traits imaginable: he drinks too much and uses drugs pretty frequently. He grew up in a really messy household with domestic violence and an alcoholic father... It shows. He’s constantly on edge, irritable, and I’ve caught him in lies so many times. He cheated on me, he rarely keeps his word unless there’s something in it for him, and it's just constant. At first, though, everything felt perfect. He was calm, sensitive, and actually made an effort to understand me. Everything seemed fine. We spent almost every waking moment together from day one, and honestly, we started experimenting with stuff together early on and were having fun, getting along well... until the cheating happened. He begged for another chance, and I gave it to him, but naturally, I became paranoid. I’d snap at him whenever he even touched his phone. Then, about a month ago, he started getting drunk almost every single day. He turned aggressive—insulting me, swearing at me, just being the absolute worst. It’s become this endless cycle where he gets aggressive, I end up in tears, and then he just laughs at me for crying. He claims I'm driving him crazy by not trusting him, acting like my suspicion is totally baseless. Eventually, it escalated to him hitting me. I’ve had bruises on my arms and legs more often than I’d like to admit. But despite the daily insults and the physical abuse, I just can't seem to leave him. That’s the real issue. I keep clinging to those good moments, even though they're getting rare, and I keep thinking about how he was at the start. I keep hoping he’ll stop behaving this way, but it feels like no matter what I do, he'll always find something to complain about. And I've heard stories that he was just like this with his exes, too... I don't know how to fix this part of myself—this urge to try and "repair" someone instead of refusing to be humiliated. I feel like I can endure anything; I've never actually walked away from anyone, no matter how they treated me. I know that's not healthy, but I can't help it. I just really want to finally be able to end a relationship like this.

Just consider this:
- You might be a masochist.
- You play the victim.
- Maybe you’ve even got a bit of Stockholm Syndrome going on—meaning you're just starving for attention.
- If you're actually that desperate for notice, it means your self-esteem is pretty much non-existent.
- You have this pathological need to play the hero and save someone or something.

Take a look at those traits. See which ones actually hit home, then decide what you need to work on to "build" a better version of yourself.
At the end of the day, nobody can fix your personality for you. It’s all on you.

Good luck.
You guys are being awfully quiet.

Don't tell me the holiday blues have already gotten the best of you 🍿?...?
Morgan Campbell4 said:I feel like an idiot. Honestly, just a complete moron. But I want to be better because I actually give a damn about her. I'm falling for this girl, and it’s been a long time since I’ve felt this kind of happiness with someone. I messed up today—didn't mean to hurt her, but I did, and it's eating me alive. 😭

Grab a massive box of Ferrero Rocher https://sc02.alicdn.com/kf/UTB8E1I_k...k-supplies.jpg and go beg for her forgiveness. ☕

Just whatever you do, don't pull the whole "I'll kill myself over you" card. Don't go there.
If you ask me? Just go jump off a bridge. Pretty sure she'd appreciate the peace and quiet. 🤣
Morgan Campbell4 said:Right back at you, dear... I wasn't talking about you... 😊 Someone brought up a great point, but hey, a dive bar is still just a dive bar...

🤣

Sorry if I'm being a total narcissist, but I honestly thought everything would fall apart just because I showed up 🤣

Look, man, these off-topic threads are the best! 😍

I've spent way too many years hanging out in these off-topic chats 🙂🙈
Morgan Campbell4 said:I had a feeling this was going to be a total bust...

Both Morgan Campbell4 and I love you! 🙂
Chloe Cooper10 said:Sure, it looks great, but why did she pivot so fast and claim it wasn't even a good idea? 😳

@Richard Sanders7, what are you even talking about? 🕺

@Brojček, is that actually your birthday?🍿

It's not the one in the username. 🥳