Well, I’ll admit it—I actually saw this one particularly handsome psychiatrist once. 😍 I don't go anymore, mostly because I'm doing just fine now, but let's be honest: he was incredibly attractive.
There’s just something about psychiatrists—they're clearly brilliant people, and if they happen to be easy on the eyes too? Well, that's just a bonus. 🙂
Someone went and posted a photo of my face—snatched right from another forum—and I never gave permission for it to show up here. I really wanted to maintain some level of anonymity on this site.
So, what’s the move? I’ve sent about eight different messages to the moderators, just pleading for them to take it down, but... silence. Absolutely nothing. Meanwhile, the people who actually posted the damn thing haven't even been slapped with a warning, let alone a ban. 🤷
What am I supposed to do now?
It’s ridiculous—if I had done the same thing to someone else, I would have been hit with a permanent ban before I could even blink.
Hmm. I’m being provocative because I feel provoked myself. But when I actually reach out to the moderators about harassment, nobody lifts a finger—that’s where the real issue lies. When you guys stir the pot (and let’s be honest, there are plenty of you doing it), suddenly everything is fine. But the second I voice my opinion, everyone jumps down my throat.
Just take a look at this thread—it's all over the place. If I post a photo, people immediately start hurling insults. There is a massive distinction between offering a comment and going straight for the kill to humiliate someone. I haven't gone out of my way to mock anyone else's appearance unless I was insulted first.
Kyle King4, stop lying. You took my photo from a different forum site; I could go over there right now and post proof. Don't try to play me.
What an absolute joke! Everyone has the right to start their own threads—go ahead, start yours too—but the thing is, nobody is actually attacking you. Right? Let’s be honest: you’re all just taking shots at me because you're 1000 times more insecure than I am. All you do is sit around this online community, digging through my old photos from other sites just so you can find ways to insult me. It’s pathetic... honestly, I think any remotely mature adult would see that what you're doing has nothing to do with being "objective" or even having "annoying topics."
Do I like being the center of attention? Sure. And if those cheap insults actually got under my skin, I wouldn't have bothered starting this thread in the first place.
hm. Honestly, that’s exactly why I didn't want to put my face out there—but apparently, people from that other forum just couldn't help themselves and started digging anyway. I thought I made it perfectly clear that I had no intention of revealing who I am.
What kind of nonsense is this? If someone chooses not to post their photo or doesn't want to be identified on an American message board, then what? Is the plan to just force it? To go hunting through other sites just to drag someone's identity onto this forum... good grief... 🤷
Tactum said:Good grief. Maybe try actually learning how to communicate on the internet first—let alone the rules of this forum...
So, according to you, I’m just supposed to drop a photo of Marchi in a trash thread without her permission??? regardless of where that photo originally came from...
Am I missing something here, or does this rule exist:
"On this forum, it is prohibited to: publish the private information of other members"
And a person's photo—heaven help us—is absolutely private information..
Furthermore, the rules for the sub-forum you moderate explicitly state that posting someone else's photos is forbidden and carries a massive point penalty..
Nobody has the right to post my photos on this forum without my consent, whether they were taken from another site, Facebook, or anywhere else under the sun...
Even an actual court would uphold that in a ruling.
As for everything else, it falls under another rule in your own damn sub-forum:
Commenting isn't insulting. Insults and tasteless comments will be penalized with warnings. You are free to express your opinions normally, just like any other member.
If those kinds of comments seem "tasteless" to you, then we have nothing left to discuss. I won't argue about matters of taste...
I'm with you on that! I just don't understand why they haven't been banned yet after posting someone else's picture and exposing their identity. 🤷
Does anyone here have the contact info for the admin?
placidcrane7 said:That’s just not true. If you try to advertise other forums here, you get hit with a permanent ban. I’ve seen people get kicked off the site with my own eyes for spamming ads.
I noticed that too—but apparently, when it comes to me, the rules work a little differently.
I started this thread about small penises because I was tired of being the punchline—they mocked me, so now I’m giving them exactly what they deserve. It's only fair.
P. S. — You can say whatever you want, really, but I’m not buying it. I’m just done with the arguing. Honestly—I don't have the energy for it anymore.
Laura Evans3 said:if she decided to post a photo, then she has to expect people commenting that she’s fat... that her legs look bad, or that she’s ugly... when Dolly called someone stupid—and I honestly have no idea how you can tell someone is dim-witted just by looking at a picture—she got banned... if you'd been following the situation since Saturday, you would've known that Lindsy also got banned for making the exact same kind of comment that isn't even "deducible" from a photo.
They have a right to their opinions, sure, but that’s exactly why people get banned—and not just for a two-day stint, either. 😉
Where on earth did you see me insulting anyone's photo? Unless, of course, they decide to come for me first.
Point number two: have you ever stopped to wonder why I'm the only one getting picked on? And I don't mean with insults like "stupid" or whatever—I mean when other people post photos, nobody comments at all, or they just say something nice. Look, I don't need everyone singing my praises from the rooftops, but if people don't like me, the culture should be "don't be an asshole," rather than thinking they can insult me without facing a ban. That's the reality.
She got banned because she called me stupid? Fine. But what about all those other threads where I start a perfectly normal discussion only to get blown up at? Isn't that harassment too? It's not just the random stuff, either—it happens in the trash threads, and even when I'm asking something legitimate:
Since when was it allowed to take photos from other forums and post them here? 🤷
I’ve been looking through everything—really digging in there—and I honestly don't see any sign that the people throwing insults actually got banned. I’d bet my bottom dollar they didn't even get hit with a single infraction.
I went ahead and deleted that post. Honestly, I don't see the point in having a moderator try to give you advice—it's just a waste of breath. 🤷 It’s always the same story with me—I end up getting banned anyway.
placidcrane7 said:I’m standing with Melpy on this one. I’ve been watching how people are treating her on this forum—the comments, the constant mockery... it’s honestly pathetic. All I see are these losers sitting at home behind their screens, copying Melpy’s posts, stealing her photos from other sites, and acting all bitter. I actually thought this kind of bullying was reserved for middle schoolers. It’s even sadder that they don't have the guts to show their own faces if we were to poke fun at them; they're just tiny, insecure people in the real world.
P. S.
I saw those photos of Melpy from the other site you linked, and she’s genuinely adorable. She has such pretty eyes and full lips. 😉
So, I just got slapped with an infraction from feraltrucker5. All because I decided to be honest. 🤷
Honestly, I’m just sitting here in disbelief.
dustypuma5, I hear you, I really do—but let's be real about the topics these people bring up. They’ve been throwing insults around for ages; I’m just finally giving them a taste of their own medicine.
I feel like I was being more than clear on this point. The real issue here is subjectivity—it's everywhere. Why isn't there any room for subjective moderators to weigh in? 🤷
Why is it that every single time I post a photo, everyone just jumps down my throat to insult me? 🤷 I mean, when someone else posts a picture, I’m not out here tearing them apart—and if I have been, it’s only because someone did it to me first. It’s not like every user on this forum is some supermodel anyway, but I don't feel the need to humiliate people for it.
feraltrucker5, let me guess: these people are all your little buddies, or maybe you grab drinks with them during the week. ☕
To me, it feels like straight-up harassment. No matter what thread I start, there’s always a small group—some regulars and then these new guys too—who engage in blatant bullying, and then somehow, at the end of the day, I’m the one who gets banned while they don't even get a warning. It's all about who you know. 🙄 The moderators here aren't objective at all—not even close to being as unbiased as that piece of work ZGSash, who handed me a long-term ban. Though, you can really see his "great objectivity" in action, considering he got banned himself now that he isn't a moderator.
feraltrucker5, my honest and totally objective moderator (I'm hoping you actually realize how much irony is in that sentence), I know you’re going to lock this thread. But before you do, I won't even bother asking why you're so biased; I'll just ask you one thing: "What kind of joke was made to get you appointed as a moderator?" ☕ 🙄 😳