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How do you stick to a diet? in Psychology ·
Betty Harris15 said:Well... I eat junk because I have a massive sweet tooth and giving it up is too hard. Chocolate, cookies, ice cream, burgers, pizza... do I really need to keep listing them?

Well, there's your problem right there. You're hitting the chocolate, the cookies, and the ice cream... swap that crap out for some almonds, grapes, or fruit instead.
How do you stick to a diet? in Psychology ·
Yeah, that’s actually a solid question. What are we even talking about here? What do you usually eat? If you get those cravings when you're feeling down or whatever, what's your go-to? You grabbing a chocolate bar or reaching for an apple?
How do you stick to a diet? in Psychology ·
Look, just lose weight the right way. 😉 Hit the gym instead of just starving yourself... honestly, it’s the only way to actually do it. Plus, working out fixes that "feeling crappy" vibe and helps with the blues since it actually boosts your mood...

You could also just overhaul what you eat. Like, following the Hayek diet approach—focusing on food combining—gets your weight back where it belongs while fixing everything else too...
Dealing with Satria: Hypersexuality disorder in Psychology ·
Give me a break... history is packed with psychotherapists who broke out of outdated medical frameworks to actually shake things up. That’s literally how the whole anti-psychiatry movement started.
Did the brawl in paradise actually happen? in Psychology ·
silentpilot6 said:🤣 😂
I think you're missing the mark here... my dad always says (and if anyone truly understands the situation, it’s probably him 😁) that people have started doing just about anything these days—whether it's necessary or not—including seeking out psychiatrists. I mean, I get it, doctors find it perfectly fine 😉, but we are clearly trending toward those overly sensitive 😁 Americans who seem to have a therapist for everything, often just because they need someone to talk to...

Probably just projecting his beef with authority... probably some childhood trauma involving a belt and a strict preacher.😍
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
I still don't get the point of this thread. If the therapist didn't know how to handle him, she should've just moved on. Honestly, I would've walked out and found someone else the very same day...

Ignoring advice and diagnoses isn't going to help the kid, and it sure as hell won't help the parents..
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
nimbleviper142 said:What the hell is that supposed to mean? Look, I'm just throwing out suggestions and ideas, trying to be helpful... maybe it never crossed your mind to actually go ask around, which might actually help. Why do I even bother? 🙄

@redharbor9: I mean, it's not like they're gonna drag the kid to the first alternative practitioner they stumble upon. Sure, things might be desperate, but anyone with half a brain is going to do some research first. Though, most people don't really buy into that hypnosis stuff, so I doubt the OP is even considering it. Honestly, there's no point in arguing at this point.

It’s all just guesswork, and guesswork is how you end up screwed... 🙂
Just look at the mess people with actual brains make every single day...
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
Look, I thought I already said it was doable... fine, I'll say it again: it's possible 😍

But personally? I’d much rather take a kid to a therapist or a psychologist than mess around with hypnosis. Especially if some "alternative" healer gets their hands on them and makes everything ten times worse—it happens all the time here in Cleveland.
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
Could be... honestly, having the kids along actually makes it easier.
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
hiddenhound3 said:To clarify the situation, he consulted with a highly experienced child psychologist in Boston. He underwent approximately ten sessions, which even incorporated the use of laxatives, yet nothing yielded any significant results. Ultimately, the specialist herself admitted her limitations in this specific case, suggesting that they simply have to wait until puberty begins.

However, I am certain that this is by no means an isolated incident.

I think that says it all. There's no point in asking what comes next. 🙂
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
Cocaine hit the nail on the head.. this kid needs a psychotherapist who actually knows how to work with children... or someone creative enough to find a way to make the process suck less for them..

Look, if parents drag their kid to a therapist and just say "he won't go to the bathroom," of course the kid is going to fight it.. especially if the parents expect some miracle cure after a single session.. honestly, if I were them, I’d take that kid away from them...

No amount of armchair psychology from people on this forum is going to fix this.. you actually have to put in the work with the kid..
Why do women recognize male faces faster? in Psychology ·
Keith Jones76 said:I was thinking about how men tend to have more prominent brow ridges, stronger jaw muscles, and more squared-off jawlines. Even the angle between the nose and the forehead, or the shape of the upper lip, tends to differ—not to mention facial hair, which isn't a negligible factor. (I recall a study suggesting that men with these more pronounced masculine traits were more frequently found in leadership roles and saw faster advancement, like moving up the ranks in the US Army. One theory was that this plays into how men perceive dominance among themselves. It might not be directly linked to our topic, but it shows these features carry weight.)
0>> 0>>As for beards, just because a specific experiment didn't find a link doesn't mean women aren't looking for them. In fact, a beard might actually be one of those evolutionary drivers that conditioned women to be more sensitive to detecting these specific physical characteristics.
0>> 0>>Maybe it’s getting complicated. Think of it this way: throughout human history, there was far more hunger than plenty. Because of that, we evolved to favor satiety over enduring starvation (which explains why everyone struggles with dieting). Even now, when food scarcity isn't an actual threat, that instinct to seek out heavy, sugary, calorie-dense foods remains—even if it leads to obesity.
0>> 0>>In the same vein, women likely still read these cues from faces. Even if the amount of vital information we need to process has decreased, the conditioning remains. We've only had culture for a relatively tiny sliver of our evolutionary timeline—maybe 70,000 years—which might have influenced things slightly, but the biological groundwork is deep.
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0>> 0>>It would be interesting to see if those same differences show up in children's faces.
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Interesting... what medical field covers this? Where do I even look for this stuff? 😁

Quincy:
It would be cool to see if these same differences show up on kids' faces.
Can't find anything in the notes... I'll dig through some articles, but there are a few massive textbooks out there... certain "unusual" effects exist, but I can't recall the specifics... I don't think it's been replicated in this context, but there are definitely unexpected results with kids' faces... and face memory.
Why do women recognize male faces faster? in Psychology ·
Sandra Parker3 said:You're missing the point

I know exactly what "people" implies, but you're still only talking about women
I don't get why this isn't clicking for you 🤷

If women recognize male faces faster than men do, fine, that's settled

But what about the guys? Or put another way, how do they handle recognizing female faces? For crying out loud, am I the only one seeing this???

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(from the post below)

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Yeah, typical. You're always the only one who sees things...

Nah, women don't recognize male faces faster than men, they just recognize them faster than male faces do...

Picture this being face recognition time... (these aren't actual stats, I'm just making a point so colour gets it)

Women spot a male face in 0.2 msec
Women spot a female face in 0.5 msec
Men spot a male face in 0.5 msec
Men spot a female face in 0.5 msec

Clear enough now? :histerija:
Why do women recognize male faces faster? in Psychology ·
Yeah.. Men and women were identifying gender from faces.. they show a face on the screen and the subject has to decide if it's male or female... and the data shows women are faster and more accurate at spotting male faces compared to female ones, while guys don't show any difference...

The second type showed that women are quicker and better at remembering male faces, men show no change...

Now for my senior thesis, it's showing the same thing again—faster and more accurate recognition of male faces—but I’ve got eight subjects who are mostly women.. the result totally clashes with what we expected from this specific phenomenon..

The study itself is complex and that's secondary, but in this case, it's everything.. the other stuff doesn't affect anything.. we're just trying to wrap our heads around this one phenomenon right now..
Why do women recognize male faces faster? in Psychology ·
Keith Jones76 said:I’m curious if there's any measurable difference in facial recognition speeds between genders—does the data actually hold up? I'd also be interested to know if sexual orientation plays a role in how quickly people process faces.
My guess? Men tend to display secondary sexual characteristics more prominently through their facial structure; a man going through puberty undergoes much more dramatic shifts in his features than a woman does. When men look at women, they're likely focusing on entirely different critical cues. And let's not forget a factor we often overlook: historically, men have relied heavily on facial hair as a clear signal of being a sexually mature adult ready for partnership and offspring.

The issue with evolutionary psychology is that it's notoriously difficult to prove through controlled experiments. You hear the exact same criticisms leveled against Freud. That’s just the nature of these fields. Plenty of people find these theories intuitive, but we lack the rigorous methodology required to make them scientifically airtight. That doesn't mean the theories aren't valid, though.

Hard to study since getting people to actually participate is a nightmare.

Just a guess... Men show secondary sex characteristics in their faces way more. A man hitting maturity sees much bigger shifts in his facial features than a woman does.

Yeah? What's your logic there?

By the way, the guys in these photos aren't sporting beards and the women aren't wearing makeup... Proving evolutionary mechanisms is tough work, mostly theoretical stuff, but hey, in this context, I'll take any idea—no matter how stupid.
Why do women recognize male faces faster? in Psychology ·
Sandra Parker3 said:Is it really that hard to say if this same "study" was done on men and what their results were, especially since you mentioned "people..." earlier?
I mean, what happened with the male data? Or do you honestly think those results don't matter when explaining the first part? If so, you're leaving me totally confused here...

Look, if I say "people"—which covers everyone—and then women are the ones picking up on things faster, it’s obvious the effect just doesn't hit guys. Simple math. 🤷

And you could even conclude that... Women. If they recognize them faster or better, then obviously they were working with men too. If that weren't the case, I wouldn't even be bothering to argue about women—I'd just say male faces are easier to spot. Period.

I don't have any more to say on this. Period.
I'm never getting on your good side, am I? 😍
Why do women recognize male faces faster? in Psychology ·
cosmictinker21 said:I honestly have no idea where this comes from—some academic paper, a study, whatever—that supposedly yielded results along those lines. What was the actual theory? What were they even trying to prove with that experiment...

By default, females are just more sensitive to external stimuli. It’s everything: sight, sound, movement, touch, smell. They learned to react faster, more meaningfully, in a multidisciplinary way, which presumably led to the development of certain neural commissural fibers, associative regions, and allegedly even the entire corpus callosum, not to mention specific centers and interneurons. It happened simply because they had to multitask constantly—keeping an eye on the offspring, communicating with them, teaching them, gathering berries or worms, guarding the stash, watching out for themselves, and making sure some predator didn't wander in to attack both them and the kids. All while waiting for their mate to bring back more food. And that same mate hunted in a pack, with backup, where his sole job was to focus on the prey and throw the spear. Then he'd proudly butcher it right there, have a big meal with the squad, and head home...

As for that whole thing about men having better spatial orientation, you might as well hang a cat by its tail. In all the groups of guys I've ridden with in a car to semi-familiar areas (excluding taxi drivers, Greyhound bus drivers, or locals), barely a handful of them could navigate a place they'd only visited once.

And regarding the recognition of male faces, that's really just down to the fact that men typically have more pronounced contours, darker shadows, stronger eyebrows. It's basic visual perception. Plus, once that recognition kicks in and the realization follows that it's the opposite sex—*ecce homo*—the finger points immediately: male.

Well, obviously you don't know, since the experiment doesn't exist, nor does the theory or the paper. I stumbled onto these results myself during an experiment at my university. While looking for answers, I got in touch with some guy from the States who ran a similar test and found something similar by accident—he was hoping I’d have the explanation. Now, I'm seeing weird results in my senior thesis caused by this exact phenomenon...

There’s some research out there about the differences and signs of this phenomenon, but nobody has actually explained or fully studied it yet. That's why I started this thread—looking for inspiration before I write up my thesis and the scientific paper we’re planning to publish on this.🙂

And as for men having better spatial orientation, you can just hang a cat by its tail. In groups of guys I've driven around through areas they barely knew (excluding taxi drivers, bus drivers, or locals), hardly any of them could navigate a spot they'd only been to once.

You can basically hang that cat by its tail,😍 because besides being totally contradictory to yourself—since you're citing "scientific papers" one second and then this the next—your take is just pure personal perception. It isn't objective, and it definitely wasn't measured objectively. So...🙂

As for recognizing male faces, it's simply because men usually have more pronounced contours, darker shadows, and stronger eyebrows. It's just basic visual observation. And once you recognize the face, the realization hits that it's the opposite sex—ecce homo—and your finger immediately points: male.

Now that's a more interesting idea. It's true that faces differ in certain ways. When you isolate just the face itself, this is how it looks in experiments...

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There are definitely differences in facial features or parts. Personally, I wouldn't say the eyebrows are more pronounced... the images I used showed prominent eyebrows for both sexes (by prominent, I mean they catch your eye immediately). Within image sets, it kind of normalizes. Still, eyebrows play a huge role in face perception. I've got an idea right now to check if the effect holds up when you remove the eyebrows entirely...

And darker shadows... not sure what you mean by that.
Why do women recognize male faces faster? in Psychology ·
Look, I get it. Evolutionary biology says women have a massive edge when it comes to visual scanning, fine motor skills, memory for detail, and spotting tiny visual cues. It makes sense—back in the day, women were the ones gathering berries and fruit, so being able to spot the difference between a snack and poison was survival. That instinct hasn't gone anywhere.

Men, on the other hand, developed killer spatial reasoning and mental mapping because they were out there hunting. They needed to navigate territory to stay alive.

Now that we've nailed down the basics of evolutionary psychology regarding gender differences, let's get back to the actual point...

We can look at this through those same evolutionary lenses too. There’s one theory floating around about perceived danger... but let's move past that.

If we're using your logic... why would it be more important for a woman to recognize a male offspring over a female one? What's the specific mechanism that made women faster or better at identifying a son versus a daughter?
Why do women recognize male faces faster? in Psychology ·
Yeah, women definitely have a better eye for detail... but the real question is why men recognize faces faster than women do. Why does that specific ability only show up with male faces?
Why do women recognize male faces faster? in Psychology ·
Gary James88 said:Did you tell those "skeptics" that maybe we're just seeing the future Leda Cosmides predicted when she said: "In the future, evolutionary psychology will simply be called—psychology..." 😛

Nah, I was too busy getting hit with that "Kardumov influence?" comment😍 plus I was pissed about my grade, so I just bailed...