Lately, with this heatwave hitting hard, it feels like everywhere I go, people ask me the same thing: "Ma'am, how much longer?" Even the lady at Chase was asking when I was paying off my loan, and I just told her, five. She looked so confused, so I had to clarify—five more payments left—before realizing she actually meant how much longer until my appointment 😂 But seriously, today at the grocery store, yesterday at the bakery, and even my godmother at the farmer's market... everyone asks. When I tell them I've got until August 30th, they all give me that look, like, "Oh man, you're really gonna be dealing with this heat for that long?" Like, yeah, if I have to, wtf??? 😕 Nobody would ever say, "Hey, let's make things easier for you" 🤣
About 90% of people had the exact same reaction when they heard I was pregnant: "So, when's the wedding?" And that was it. Nobody asked how *I* was doing, how the pregnancy was going, or if the dad was happy (he totally 😍). Honestly, just get those judgmental types away from me 😠 We'll get married whenever I'm actually able to, because I have a heart condition and I've got another surgery coming up once the little one turns one. Just trying to live this pregnancy one day at a time without having to worry about all that too...
lonefox17 said:Hey everyone! I’m super new to this forum and would love to get some input from you guys... I’ve been in a long-term relationship, and for about a year now, we’ve been using the withdrawal method, which has honestly never caused me any issues before... My last period started on March 27th, but my boyfriend and I were intimate right during my fertile window—roughly between April 6th and April 11th—using that same withdrawal method. Lately, though, I’ve been dealing with these absolutely brutal pains in my lower back and abdomen...and I have seriously never felt anything like this before my period hits. On top of that, I’ve been running a bit of a fever, somewhere between 99°F and 99.5°F, and I’ve had this weird, light nausea...kind of like that hollow feeling you get when you're starving... Also, just as a side note, my period usually shows up a couple of days early... Do you think there's a chance I'm pregnant, or is this all just signs that my period is coming? And honestly, if I am pregnant, it wouldn't be a bad thing at all in my situation...😉😉🙂🙂 Thanks so much in advance for sharing your thoughts!
Look, you're either pregnant or you aren't, nobody here has a crystal ball. But hey, let us know how it goes once you take a test😉
George Howard59 said:hmmm.... Definitely 2009 for me...
KIT KAT—strawberry and cream (honestly one of the best things I've ever tasted) Mentos-Banana Pringles-Kebab (for the salty cravings) Meiji—Green Pistachio Chocolate DORITOS—Teriyaki Chicken Pizza (savory goodness) KIT KAT—Caramelized Potato (this one is seriously delicious)
Basically, my girlfriend and I go on a shopping spree every few months through this Japanese importer... It’s super pricey, but man, it is totally worth trying all the wild stuff they come up with...😍
Had my cystoscopy today... stung for a second, then just felt super uncomfortable. But man, the burning after I pee is the worst 😢 Basically, doc told me I need to chug a ridiculous amount of water today.
Man... people might call it boring, but I keep dreaming about us just having all this time for ourselves and nobody else. What would we even do? Just soak up each other's company 🙂
Can't find any pants at Macy's today, my basket just won't cooperate with size 44. But shirts and tops? Always plenty. I've got such a great figure, you girls are gonna be jealous. Found something cute for my top, but pants and shorts... total lottery...
Yeah, you totally reminded me of catalog shopping. I ordered two skirts from Bon Prix this summer, they’re gorgeous, even the skinny girls were jealous 😉 Each one was about $67. They didn't look old-fashioned at all, actually super cute and stylish. Even on my size 18 frame, they fit 🤣 Perfectly happy 😍