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Carol Parker57 said:Hey, Kate Taylor59, your inbox is absolutely slammed—I can't even get a word in edgewise to answer your question.
There we go, you should be all set now. Thanks! 🙂
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Carol Parker57 said:Hey, Kate Taylor59, your inbox is absolutely slammed—I can't even get a word in edgewise to answer your question.
Elizabeth Collins5 said:I have this friend—we’ve known each other for twelve years, and we sat side-by-side in class for four of them (so, she’s had a front-row seat to my nose 🤣)—and she told me just a month after my surgery, and I quote: "Well, it looks exactly the same." 😲 So, clearly, we aren't dealing with some old lady who can't see a thing 😂
Elizabeth Collins5 said:I have this friend—we've known each other for twelve years, and we sat side-by-side in class for four of them (so she’s definitely seen my face up close enough 🤣)—and just a month after my surgery, she tells me, and I quote: "Well, you look exactly the same." 😲 So, it's clearly not a case of some old lady with bad eyesight 😂
Betty Kelly16 said:I’m going to repost this because things got a bit cluttered here and my previous message kind of got buried under all the heavy discussions..
Can anyone help me out? I guess I'm looking for some insight.
So, I have a deviated septum. It makes breathing a little difficult and I snore, though it isn't anything extreme.
The thing is, over the last few years, the entire shape of my nose has sort of... shifted. And I’m wondering if I wouldn't be able to get the cosmetic part covered by my insurance?
I mean, they will definitely cover the surgery for the deviation, but I'm just not sure about the aesthetic side of things.
How should I even approach this? Does anyone have any advice or perhaps knows how this works?
Betty Kelly16 said:I’m gonna repost this because things got a little chaotic in the thread and my original message totally got buried under all the noise..
Guys, I really need some insight here
So, I’ve got a deviated septum. My breathing isn't great and I snore, though it’s nothing crazy.
The thing is, over the last few years, the whole shape of my nose has kind of "shifted," and I’m wondering if insurance would even touch the cosmetic side of things..?
Like, they'll definitely cover fixing the deviation, but I have no clue about the aesthetic part.
How do I even approach this? Does anyone have any advice or know how this works?
Carol Diaz31 said:People will try to tell you that you look exactly the same, or even claim you used to be prettier, just to undermine the fact that you’ve actually improved things. 😉
I get that we're talking about a friend here... but I've had people—people I genuinely expected to have my back while I worked to fix an insecurity—drop comments like that. Honestly? It felt less like an opinion and more like pure envy. ☕
Carol Diaz31 said:People will try to tell you you haven't changed or that you used to look better just to downplay how much you've actually improved 😉
I get it's about a friend... but even people I expected to have my back while I was trying to fix my flaws would drop comments like that. Honestly? It just felt like straight-up jealousy. ☕
silverlynx52 said:hey everyone.... I had surgery about 15 days ago and my nose is still super swollen... which is totally normal 😁.... I had a deviated septum and managed to get the surgery covered by my insurance through Blue Cross, and while I was at it, I worked things out with the doctor for some cosmetic tweaks. Basically, he smoothed out the hump and lifted the tip a bit, so from a profile view, it looks perfect, but from the front? Total disaster. Maybe it's just the swelling, but I'm really not feeling it right now... My nose used to tilt to the left because of the deviation, but it was subtle—like, only I noticed unless someone was staring intensely at my face—but now it's actually noticeable... Is it normal for it to look crooked while everything is swollen? I'm terrified it'll stay like this. How many months does the swelling usually last?? 😕 If it stays this way, I'll have to go back under the knife, so how much time do you need to wait after the first surgery before doing a revision? (If you want to know where I went or who my surgeon was, just shoot me a DM) I have a follow-up appointment soon, so I'll ask the doc if the tilting is normal 😢😢 thx
Carol Parker57 said:I’m actually aching for those photos of yours. Honestly, what you wrote here is just straight-up comedy... he's going to be reading this tomorrow... 🤣
I expect at least a decent answer to my question...
silverlynx52 said:When people look at me, I feel like a total disaster—maybe it’s just because of the swelling, but I don't know... my nose used to tilt slightly to the left because of a deviation, but it was subtle. Like, only I noticed, or maybe someone would catch it if they really stared... but now, it's actually noticeable. Is that normal while everything is still swollen? I'm honestly terrified this is how it's going to stay permanently... and how many months does it actually take for the swelling to go down?... 😕 If things stay like this and he has to go back under the knife, I’m wondering... how much recovery time are we actually looking at after that first surgery?
Carol Diaz31 said:Laughing Man 😂
I was just being an absolute sweetheart, clearly... purple is my color 😁
Honestly... I received instructions for everything, from diet plans to behavioral guidelines. And no matter how much we think we know or how prepared we feel before surgery, it’s still somewhat encouraging when you're sitting there with a broken nose and someone with a perfect nose tells you it'll all pass quickly 😍
casualgardener21 said:I finally tracked down the identity of that "mysterious" doctor. I don't understand why she wouldn't just drop the name publicly... Anyway, I reached out to a girl who Dalia messaged privately, and it turns out he's just some minor actress. Honestly, it's a bit disappointing. He's got that whole 'Miss Piggy' nose going on...
Carol Parker57 said:Your photos actually hurt my feelings. What you wrote just seems comical to me... he'll probably be reading this tomorrow.🤣
You completely miss the point. There is such a thing as decency. If I went out of my way to send you photos of my face upon your request, I expect at least a polite response to my question.
But fine, whatever.
And wasn't stormyharbor2 the one telling girls that a small nose doesn't suit everyone and that such a nose wouldn't look right on her face?? Now, suddenly, a small nose is the issue. Fine, not my problem, I'm just observing.
edit—Kate Taylor59, your inbox is full. I can't answer your question there.
rustygardener172 said:It’s interesting that you assume I’m some young girl without children... 😁
jadedriver0 said:Look, honey🙂, just play dumb and soak up the compliment🙂. You don't have to spill your guts every single time. You know how it is—like how Nanny Fin claims she's 29 every single year...🙂:klap: