Period talk: Questions and advice

fadeddrifter28 said:Look, I got pregnant after unprotected sex on the second day of my period. Believe what you want. My sister conceived the day before her period started. Bottom line: if the partners are fertile, anything can happen.

The first part makes sense—getting pregnant on day two means a short cycle and early ovulation. But the second part? If a period arrives 14 days after ovulation, how on earth did that egg survive that long? 😕>

fadeddrifter28 said:Listen, ladies, I got pregnant after unprotected sex on the second day of my period. So, you can all draw your own conclusions. My sister? She conceived the day before her period started. Point being, if the partners are highly fertile, getting pregnant is always a possibility.

How on earth can you be so certain it was exactly that specific day?😕

gentlecanyon92 said:👋

Some people are just talking nonsense. 😁

Sex can happen anytime, anywhere—all you really need is the desire 😁 whether you're with a partner or by yourself. 🥳

🙏👍

Sex during my period is just like any other day... actually, if anything, it helps me deal with cramps even faster—it’s a real relief. It isn't "gross" at all. For those people who might be hesitant because they think it's too messy or overwhelming, there are actually specific tampons designed exactly for that purpose. They stay incredibly clean and the sensation feels totally normal...👍

Karen Ross98 said:On top of everything else, this was my first time... I got my period at 4 PM, and we had unprotected sex at 4 AM, and things went on for quite a while, even though he didn't finish inside me. I ended up seeing a gynecologist who basically drained my soul with all these weird questions about small towns back home and looked at me like I was some kind of degenerate... He wanted to know exactly when my cycle starts, but I lied because I haven't been tracking it precisely lately, though it’s usually around 30 days. Out of pure embarrassment, I just told him we used a condom and it broke, instead of admitting we were having unprotected sex and he didn't finish inside me. He suggested I shouldn't start the pill because it might mess with my cycle, then just told me to come back for an exam once my period ends. I honestly don't know what to do, or even what the chances of getting pregnant are... I'm just in total shock, I can't even think straight, and I'm just dying for my period to finally end so I can take a pregnancy test......
🙂 😢 😢 😢

Hold on a second, I don't follow... how could you be pregnant if you told me he didn't finish inside you?

thanks 🙂
so my pregnancy test came back negative 🙂 🙂 🙂

it’s kind of funny because my doctor over at the local clinic told me that a childhood illness shouldn't have any impact on my cycle 😕
but then the pharmacist over at CVS tells me that it’s actually a perfectly valid reason for things to get thrown out of whack, and basically suggested I should just be hoping that I'm not pregnant after all...

The pharmacist knows what she's talking about. It’s never happened to me personally, but I’ve seen it happen to plenty of my friends. Whenever they caught a cold, it was like clockwork—their symptoms would either hit early or drag on much longer than expected.

I can handle the first day of my period just fine, but the rest? Honestly, it’s whatever. It’s like that old saying goes, "Screw the driver who didn't run the red light"😁...
Usually, those specific days (plus the day before and after) are our go-to time to just let loose and stop overthinking everything, while the rest of the month we basically live by the reverse method—though I don't need to lecture anyone on how reliable that is, considering the result of that method is currently sleeping in a crib😍. We’ve been having unprotected sex during my period for about seven years now, and clearly, I'm not ovulating during those windows. Reading all this though, I feel like I won't even be able to relax during those days anymore... but then again, if it hasn't been an issue until now, it probably won't be (my cycles are pretty steady at 28 days with a 3-4 day duration)
. OT - honestly, the chances of you being pregnant are less than minimal... if your cycles are regular and he finished inside, the odds are tiny. Don't sweat it; just wait for your next period and use your head next time. Let this be a lesson learned!

Ethan Garcia8 said:🙏👍

Oh, come on, Baby Bear, 🤣🤣🤣

I guess nothing goes to waste when there's a drought, right? 🤣🤣🤣

And looking at you... man, it looks like you're dealing with a long, long, and incredibly brutal drought. 🤣🤣

coppermarlin13 said:Oh, come on, 🤣🤣🤣

When things are running dry, you take whatever you can get, right? 🤣🤣🤣

And looks like you're going through a bit of a drought yourself... a long, long, difficult drought... 🤣🤣

True enough. And you're being pretty mean just because you're laughing at me. 😢

Jamie Gonzalez said:By the way—for those who might actually be interested in intimacy during a period, but hesitate because the whole thing just feels like too much of a mess... there are actually specific tampons designed exactly for that purpose. They’re incredibly clean to use, and honestly, the sensation is pretty much the same as anything else...👍

I have to admit, this is the first time I've ever encountered something like this—it sounds genuinely intriguing... I find myself wondering about the practical side of things, though. How exactly does one go about using it? And more importantly, where can you actually get your hands on it in the States?... 😁

Ethan Garcia8 said:Yeah, right. And you're just being "evil" because you're laughing at me. 😢

Well, what can I say? That's just how I am. 😢

But honestly, I find myself laughing at some of your friends too—their endless, repetitive, pathetic little rants. I read through them all on one thread, so don't go thinking I've got a vendetta just against you. 😉

Actually, thinking back, the funniest thing about you is that one comment you made ages ago—you know, about how you sit down to pee. Seriously, that's still the highlight for me. 🤣 Real man stuff right there. 👍 Super sexy. 🤣 You know, I could probably start an entire thread based on that. Something like: "What girls really think about guys who sit to pee." Like, hey ladies, thoughts? 😛 It would be pretty entertaining, and I bet I'm not the only one getting a kick out of it.

coppermarlin13 said:Whatever. That's just how I am. 😢

But honestly, I find some of your friends just as funny with their constant, predictable drama. I read through their posts in certain threads all the time, so don't think you're my only target. 😉

Actually, thinking back, the funniest thing you ever said was that time you mentioned sitting down to pee. Seriously, that’s still gold to me. 🤣 Real man stuff right there. 👍 Pretty sexy, too. 🤣 You know, I could actually start a whole thread about this. Something like: "What girls really think about guys who sit to pee." 😛 It would probably get a lot of attention.

Go for it. 🙂

It’s one of those gorgeous days. I’m actually just about to head out for some sun, a quick dip in the pool, and a coffee on the patio. 😉

coppermarlin13 said:Lately. I'm actually heading out right now to grab a coffee and hit the pool. 😉

Where "out"? The lobby of an asylum? 😉

Ethan Garcia8 said:Where am I supposed to go? To the lobby of an asylum? 😉

They’ve finally unchained me. 😉

But honestly, I must be losing my mind if this is how I react when I talk to you. 😉

Anyway, I've gotta run; people are waiting for me. I don't have all day for digital hanging out.

Just one last little question before I head out: do you actually have a life outside of this? 😁

coppermarlin13 said:Just one more quick question before I go: do you even have a life outside of this? 😁

Nope. Lord help you. 🙂

Regarding blueheron46: those are specialized plugs designed specifically for that purpose—you can pick them up at just about any adult boutique, I believe... essentially, it’s a small, sterile sponge that you, if you'll excuse my bluntness, slide right into its intended home, right? 😁, and then later you just pull it out by squatting down—and there I go being graphic again—but yeah, 😁 they can stay in place for maybe 8 hours or so, I think...

It looks like Baby Bear and the station master are still head over heels for each other😁

Who says the good things in life don't last forever?😁

You really ought to head in about a month after the AB.