Harold James9 said:
friendly suggestions, helpful insights that happen to challenge my existing biases or misconceptions, and so on.
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Oh, you hair-splitters...
What can one really do when unsolicited advice and friendly guidance look so much alike? It's easy to lose one's way.😁
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Oh, you hair-splitters...
What can one really do when unsolicited advice and friendly guidance look so much alike? It's easy to lose one's way.😁
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Friendly advice: Only give advice to friends, but if you want to keep them, just ignore what they do.
🙂 🙂 🙂
Oh, you hair-splitters...
What can one really do when unsolicited advice and friendly guidance look so much alike? It's easy to lose one's way.😁
😍
Friendly advice: Only give advice to friends, but if you want to keep them, just ignore what they do.
🙂 🙂 🙂
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Honestly, friendships are perhaps the ultimate testing ground for observing the dynamics of giving and receiving. Let’s break down a few scenarios...
1. A giver friend and a receiver friend; a classic, reciprocal friendship,
2. A giver friend and a receiver friend; an asymmetrical relationship bordering on indifference (where, for instance, the receiver treats advice as unsolicited noise and views the giver merely as a provider),
3. A giver friend and a receiver friend; where the giver remains indifferent to any social expectations of friendship,
4. A giver and a receiver; there is no actual friendship here, just mutual indifference toward what has been said.
So, one could easily view "friendly advice" as nothing more than unasked-for interference (as seen in scenario 2)—which means it isn't enough to simply see advice as a nuisance; one must also recognize it as an expression of friendship. I try my best to keep this in mind... though, admittedly, I fail from time to time.😉