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I’ve been sitting here staring at my router for the last twenty minutes, thinking about how incredibly fragile our modern existence actually is. We talk so much about "the cloud" and "AI" and "seamless connectivity" like these things are ethereal, magical substances floating in the atmosphere, but they aren't. They are physical. They are heavy, expensive, incredibly massive bundles of glass and copper buried under our streets and stretched across the ocean floors.

Lately, I can't help but feel like we are witnessing a massive, quiet arms race in the physical world that nobody is actually talking about. We see the headlines about software breakthroughs or new chatbots, but we rarely discuss the sheer, brute-force physical requirements needed to keep those things running. It feels like we’re building a skyscraper on a foundation made of toothpicks, and meanwhile, a few massive players are frantically trying to pour enough concrete to keep the whole thing from toppling over.

I remember back in the early 2000s, the "dot-com" boom felt similar, but it was mostly about eyeballs and websites. This feels different. This feels like a massive consolidation of physical territory. We’re seeing these enormous entities rushing to secure specialized, dedicated pathways—essentially private highways for data—just to keep up with the insatiable hunger of these new processing models. It makes me wonder if we are heading toward a future where the internet isn't really "the internet" anymore, but rather a series of interconnected private fiefdoms.

If one company owns the software, another owns the servers, and a third owns the dedicated physical lines that connect them, where does the "public" web actually live? We used to talk about the internet as a great equalizer, a place where anyone could plug in and be part of the global conversation. But if the fundamental plumbing of the digital age is being carved up into massive, multi-billion-dollar private corridors, I worry that the "openness" we all grew up with is becoming a luxury item.

I look at the sheer scale of the capital being poured into this stuff—the kind of money that could solve almost any other problem on Earth—and it’s hard not to feel a sense of vertigo. We are rerouting the very geography of our civilization to accommodate the needs of silicon and electricity. It’s not just about faster streaming or better search results; it’s about the structural reorganization of how information moves through the physical world.

It feels like we're in the middle of a massive land grab, but instead of territory and gold, they're grabbing bandwidth and physical space for cooling and processing. And as a regular person just trying to pay bills and use a smartphone, I can't help but ask: what happens to the rest of us when the "roads" are all owned by three or four giants who are only interested in moving the heaviest, most expensive freight?

Does anyone else feel like the physical reality of our digital world is being ignored in favor of the hype? Are we over-investing in the plumbing of a future that might be too centralized to be useful for the average person?
Are men more spiritual than women? in Spirituality ·
Kimberly Smith6 said:I’ve been sitting here reflecting on the complexities of human nature, and I can't help but feel that women often lean more toward the material side of life than men do—though, perhaps, that’s just my own limited perception coloring the view. It seems to me there's this deep-seated need for them to find stability through a partner, almost as if an underlying sense of insecurity drives them to seek out a man who can provide that anchor. And then, once that foundation is laid, there is this profound, driving impulse to build up a family and create something lasting together. It’s a complicated dance of needs and motivations, isn't it?
It honestly feels like some people have this almost innate, restless compulsion to conjure up a massive crisis out of thin air when absolutely nothing is wrong! It’s like they possess this peculiar talent for taking a perfectly calm situation and somehow twisting it into a monumental catastrophe, creating drama where none existed just moments before.
And of course, they just have this incredible knack for making everything as unnecessarily complicated as humanly possible, don't they? It’s almost like a talent! They seem to absolutely thrive on conflict—just living for the drama, the arguments, and those endless, heated disputes that never seem to end.

I’m currently typing this up on my mobile device via Tapatalk 2, specifically while wearing my Samsung Galaxy Fit S5670.

Look, SAS, if we're talking about polarities and what omen4k is laying out here (based on this rant),
it sounds like you aren't exactly thrilled with certain parts of yourself—your Jungian shadow, if you will. 🙂
The Eighth Sin: GREED in Spirituality ·
Lisa Garcia2 said:Actually, if I remember correctly, the story goes a bit differently.
The first son said he would go work in the vineyard, but he never actually went.
The second son initially refused, but he felt bad later on, so he went and did the work.

In the end, the second son is the one who truly fulfilled the father's will—even though he wasn't obedient right away, his heart was clearly in the right place... 🙂

...so what does that even mean? Like, seriously, what?
The Eighth Sin: GREED in Spirituality ·
wearyhound73 said:So many experiments and overcomplications—you guys are really overthinking this. Family obedience leading to pure evil? Let’s get back to basics. Adults are absolutely under their parents' thumb, whether they're blindly following orders or fighting constantly. My 75-year-old neighbor acts like she’s five years old. Just listening, trying to please everyone, head down, always wearing that fake smile—the kind where you can clearly see the fear underneath. Most people were raised with that same rigid religious mindset, which has massive, devastating consequences for society at large. Broken marriages, kids fighting with parents, and eventually, wars. Such a lovely topic.☕


Just listen to your parents—that's how you live a long life and actually do well for yourself in this world.
The Eighth Sin: GREED in Spirituality ·
wearyowl29 said:I always try to give people a fair shake first! But more often than not, those authority figures start veering off into territory I just can't follow, and it starts feeling a bit threatening, one way or another.
I don't let the disappointment hit me too hard anymore—I guess life experience has finally helped me grow a thick enough shell.🙏

Heh, yeah... but deep down you're probably pissed that you can't actually fix that authority figure.

Seems like we both belong to the same crowd from 'nine faces of the soul.'
The Eighth Sin: GREED in Spirituality ·
Everyone seems pretty obsessed with this whole idea of how people are so easily swayed
and how easy it is to manipulate them—but let’s be real, everyone usually only sees it happening to someone else. It’s totally possible we all have that streak in us; it just hits some people harder than others.
Personally, I get way too hyped up about some authority figure and their "expertise" until I catch them slipping on some stupid mistake... and then I end up feeling totally let down by them AND my own flawed judgment.
The Eighth Sin: GREED in Spirituality ·
wearyowl29 said:


You know, everyone talks about the seven deadly sins, but there’s an eighth one hiding in plain sight—one that doesn't even look like a sin at first glance. It's obedience. Honestly, it's caused enough chaos to earn its spot on the list.
It's funny, really. People often toss aside their own common sense and intelligence just to follow some authority figure. They turn into a total herd mentality from the get-go. It’s much easier to let someone else make the calls than to actually think for yourself, right? So they just trade away their freedom of thought for convenience.
Any society built on rigid authority relies on that exact same mindset, and frankly, so do most ideologies and religions.

Check out this episode of Science Magazine dedicated to this "eighth sin."

Looking at it through a spiritual lens, what do you all think? Is blind obedience a good thing or a bad thing when it comes to a person's spiritual growth and maturity?

How do you guys handle your own obedience—or lack thereof? What kind of impact has it had on your life?

Actually, there's a ninth "sin" that never made the official cut, and that's lying.

Personally, I think obedience, fear, loyalty—whatever you want to call fear (which is probably a word people overuse anyway)—is just one type of personality trait... it's not inherently good or bad.

I see "sin" more as a psychological defense mechanism—something used to mask strength or capabilities just so they can't be challenged...
It's going to be incredibly hard for someone who's spent their whole life listening to authority figures to suddenly find the guts to listen to their own inner conscience and actually trust their own damn reason. Especially since, historically, this wasn't even called a sin—it was praised as a "virtue," celebrated, and pushed as the ultimate example of how to behave...
But hey, maybe it's possible to break out of it... I don't know... I guess it just depends on the person.
Spirituality and money in Spirituality ·
wearyowl29 said:Well, since our discussion on teaching went south, let’s pivot to something else: money and its relationship with everything else.

Cash is a necessity for everyone—whether you're a deep thinker, a jokester, a religious zealot, a devout believer, an atheist, or even a hardcore Marxist. Everybody needs it.

Let's be real: trying to survive in modern America without money is basically impossible.
While some folks are scraping by on pocket change, others can blow through thousands of dollars in a heartbeat, but money remains
absolutely essential for both the pauper and the tycoon alike.

Take a look at the major world religions. One that's everywhere here in the States is the Catholic Church. It's widely considered one of the wealthiest institutions out there (Jesop:In the name of God). Of course, their coffers have taken some hits lately due to the greed of certain servants and the massive settlements they've had to pay out regarding various scandals involving misconduct.

So, let's examine the wealth—or lack thereof—within organized religion.
The Church doesn't shy away from the donations of the faithful; in fact, the collection plate moves from person to person, and every little bit helps.
Money isn't something they turn their noses up at.

However, it seems much less welcome when someone tries to pursue spirituality on their own, outside the structure of an organized religion.

There's this common assumption that you just can't mix spirituality with finances. People act like true spiritual seekers should always have empty wallets. It's as if needing God doesn't also mean having earthly needs to take care of! I mean, come on—hermits are becoming a rare breed, and most of us can't exactly move to a cave, and let's face it, yogis thrive in much different climates than we do here.

It creates this weird impression that poverty itself attracts spirituality, and that being spiritual means you can't enjoy material comfort.
But those who dedicate their entire lives to spiritual growth or helping others still need a way to pay the bills.

Is experiencing personal hardship really the only way to develop one's soul or figure out how to live life?

Why do we insist that anyone seeking a higher path has to be broke?

At the end of the day, it's much worse to be spiritually bankrupt than it is to be comfortably well-off.
👍

Look, Vidism, my take is actually the exact opposite—everything in mainstream spirituality revolves
around getting rich and stacking cash. It’s like people think once they fix that one connection, they’ll finally hit the jackpot. 🎉
The best-sellers out there? It's all "how to manifest abundance," "how to pull in $50k," or "be spiritual to get paid"... and honestly, people eat that crap up.
Is physical reality just an illusion? in Spirituality ·
Anthony Cook8 said:But when there's nothing external to grab onto... you just have to click into it and realize it's already within you. It doesn't come from the outside.
I can offer you some kindness 😁

Joy is always internal; it doesn't depend on anyone or anything else. I remember one day I was feeling pretty low and everything felt out of sync. A friend called me and asked, "Wait, why are you laughing when you're having such a bad day?" and I just instinctively replied, "Because I'm happy."

That is truly the best feeling in the world, and it doesn't come from the world around us. It’s about letting go, rather than clinging to the idea that you should be feeling something different than what you actually are in the moment.

Those are the real pink sunglasses...

Maybe that way, right now, you can trick yourself and bypass an uncomfortable feeling,
but in the long run... you're just doing damage to yourself. Period.
The famous therapist and author Carl Jung, in his book 'Shadow principle',
talks exactly about this—how lately, among patients, there's an increasing number of people dealing with serious illnesses who belong to the "Law of attraction" crowd or the "Warrior of Light" types.
What they all have in common is that they have absolutely no clue how they managed to attract sickness in the first place
while they were supposedly vibrating at the frequency of love and light...
What are the results of your spiritual journey? in Spirituality ·
brisknomad13 said:Nice view of how things are going on my end... I'm still gonna let it slide, even if you look a little rougher around the edges.

Hey Scott Miller4, did you seriously think I was some kind of iron lady? 🙂

Anyway, glad I finally ran into you both.

🙂 Honestly, if you just bring a little courage, some trust, and a bit of curiosity to the table, everything is going to be just fine.

The thing is... that whole idea of things getting "worse" is just an old belief you've swallowed whole—it's really just your emotional reaction
to all those accusations and criticisms. Whatever... beliefs are just what they are right now, and you need to give them enough
respect to let them exist in your inner space. Because look—if there’s no resistance, there’s no reason for them to keep spinning around in your head.
What are the results of your spiritual journey? in Spirituality ·
Scott Miller4 said:Being disillusioned with concepts is hard to stomach. But I suppose every disappointment brings a bit of a reality check. 🙂 It can offer comfort, though you never really know if it's true clarity or just the mind soothing itself (we all love to find comfort in new beliefs that we'll eventually have to deal with anyway 😉).

The "dark night of the soul" seems to be a popular topic in spiritual circles lately. Personally, I'd lean toward saying it's just tough astrological aspects right now, or maybe just the physical toll of spring hitting the system.

In any case, brisknomad13, I'm glad to see you sharing stuff like this. 🙂

p.s. Emofree 😍

😍
Yeah, yeah... it's definitely the spring thing. Man, I wish we could all just stay in hibernation mode forever.
I'm just rambling here so I don't end up just posting a single smiley face that says: I love Scott Miller4. 😁
What are the results of your spiritual journey? in Spirituality ·
I don't even know where to start with this mess—honestly, it’s just exhausting at this point. I've been sitting here staring at the screen, trying to make sense of all the nonsense being thrown around, and my head is spinning. It feels like everyone has an opinion, but nobody actually knows what they're talking about! And don't even get me started on what brisknomad13 was saying earlier. Seriously? That logic is so flawed it's almost impressive. You can't just take one tiny piece of information and pretend it's the whole damn picture. It's lazy, it's sloppy, and frankly, it's annoying when people try to pass off half-baked theories as gospel. Look, I'm not trying to be difficult—well, okay, maybe I am—but someone has to say it. We need to stop moving the goalposts every time a new argument comes up. If we're going to have a real conversation here, let's actually stick to the facts instead of just shouting over each other. It's getting ridiculous. kaže:
Look, I’m really not one to jump to conclusions or paint everyone with the same brush—I hate generalizing as much as the next person—but honestly? I have to say it... ever since I started trying to do this whole spiritual deep dive thing, I feel like I’ve actually become a "worse person." It sounds clumsy, and I’m struggling to find the right way to put it—there isn't really any other way to phrase this without sounding weird—but maybe it’s just because I’m finally becoming aware of all my unadjusted parts, or those messy, alienated pieces of myself that I used to just ignore.

Maybe my eyes are playing tricks on me, or maybe I’m just projecting way too hard—honestly, who knows at this point...

One thing’s for sure—the way I’m feeling right now is just... weird. It’s all amorphous, kind of shapeless, and honestly? A little bit terrifying.

Whoa, hold up—that’s definitely not a loss!😍
Look, you’ve basically opened the floodgates. All those emotions that were just simmering under the surface? They’re out now. And because you let them out, they’re starting to get a little too comfortable—now they’re acting like they deserve a seat at the table, trying to act all equal to the ones who were already invited in. It’s getting a bit chaotic, honestly. It’s like when a bunch of toddlers at a playground all try to storm down the big slide at the exact same time... it’s a mess. You gotta manage them. Line 'em up and handle them one by one, or things are gonna get ugly.
I don't know, man—I don't really see this as some "spiritual" thing. To me, it’s more about that raw process of self-discovery. You go through it, you learn who you actually are, and then—as a byproduct—you end up more spiritual, wiser, and way more empathetic. It's like, you gain this deeper level of understanding just by doing the work. Honestly, I think everyone should go through this. Especially if you're in a field where you're constantly dealing with people—if you're in a position where you're basically "earning" secondary trauma from hearing everyone else's heavy life stories, you damn well need that mental toolkit.
I’ve been diving deep into somatic psychotherapy lately—just really getting into the headspace of how the body holds onto everything—and I've actually started working through some specific exercises to help process it all.
It’s honestly unreal. 😲 It’s like I’m reading my own damn thoughts!
But... look, honestly? I’m not gonna spill any more specifics just yet. Not ready to go there. 🙂
What are the results of your spiritual journey? in Spirituality ·
nimbleranger5 said:Yeah, that's true... it's a sharp observation. The source matters immensely, but if you pick the wrong one... well, damn, you messed up. It means you listened to your ego (your head) instead. But honestly, even that isn't all bad—at least you learned something new about yourself and life. You learn, you mess up, you live, and life keeps moving. Eventually, you start becoming more sensitive to that voice coming from deep within, from your heart. I truly believe the heart is the seat of consciousness, and when you need to make a choice, you'll make the right one because you'll feel it internally. It'll just feel like the true, honest path. The answer will always be fast and intuitive; there won't be any room for useless overthinking because the answer will just bubble up instantly from the depths of your Being. The other thing is, most of the time, we don't actually *want* to listen to that voice. We resist it and try to over-philosophize everything—that's where the ego loop happens. But everyone—and I mean everyone, I'm being serious here—knows, or rather feels, what is truly good for them as an individual.
That's why it's best to stay in alignment with yourself; then you can quickly tell which answers are coming from your heart and which ones are just the ego.

http://www.newscenter.com/electric-heart.html

The heart is the most powerful tool in the body, producing an electromagnetic pulse 100,000 times stronger than the brain. The heart is the center of consciousness, radiating a field of pure awareness into the space around us. The heart speaks to us 24 hours a day, guiding us through every situation. Let's just surrender to the guidance of the heart and higher consciousness.

The question is, do you *really* want to meet Him? Is your heart open to His love? If the answer is yes, then you don't have to go anywhere; it's enough to just be exactly where you are right now. Jesus Christ isn't anywhere else but inside you—in your core, in your heart. But to meet Him, you first have to shut off that mental chatter that runs in your head 24/7.
And if you really feel the need to go somewhere, then go inward. Go into your own inner space, be still, and find peace with yourself.

Unless you’ve managed to completely tune out everything you've been told since kindergarten—you know, all that talk about how alcohol destroys families, wrecks your health, and is just generally toxic—then you're basically acting like a blank slate. Like, as if none of those warnings actually stuck or shaped your perspective at all, right?

But seriously, let's be real for a second: who actually finds long-term happiness through abusing drugs or alcohol? Does anyone actually? Are those people truly happy? Using substances just to chase a high or to numb out is just another way of running away from reality—and honestly, it might be the most destructive escape there is, because it trashes both your physical and mental health at the same time. 🤷

I’m convinced that if you just listen to your heart, you can't really go wrong—it knows what’s best for you. Of course, we learn through trial and error, and yeah, society, our culture, and the people around us definitely condition us in a lot of ways. But once you finally experience the damage firsthand—like realizing, "Hey, alcohol is actually killing me"—the only thing keeping you trapped in that cycle of addiction is your own ego. It's that craving for that temporary hit of euphoria that keeps us acting like slaves to outside influences, just chasing that next high.

Ugh, seriously... people go out searching for the Truth, but goodness, they don't even want to hear it when it speaks. I'm guilty of it too, sometimes. Because then what? Who decides that if you choose A, you absolutely have to do B? The Truth demands action and actual change, and let's be real—we just don't feel like doing the work. We'd much rather stay stuck in our comfort zones, playing the victim with excuses like "I can't," "I don't know," or "What's the neighbors going to think?" Or worse, we run off into this mental spirituality that—if it isn't rooted in the body and actual lived experience—ends up being nothing more than a concept floating around in our heads, just like every other thing we've been taught.

But hey, at least we get to suffer "magnificently," right?
The Discipline of Spiritual Self-Improvement in Spirituality ·
Look, I’m totally lost here 😕
I get wanting things to go higher—you definitely made your point clear in this thread—but you're aiming way too high 😁
What are the results of your spiritual journey? in Spirituality ·
nimbleranger5 said:I guess for some people, it only clicks once they’ve actually lived through the wreckage—when you've hit rock bottom and find yourself in that desperate, feverish hunt for just one more shot, or another cheap beer, or whatever it is. It’s only when you’re actually sweating from the sheer misery of it all that you might finally realize, "Yeah, I really messed this up." But honestly? That realization is still progress. At least after the dust settles, you can turn around and warn someone else that this path leads straight to addiction and ruin. It’s the same deal with anything else—too much screen time, binge-watching TV, overeating—it all follows the same pattern. You have to watch out for any kind of extreme. Life is really just about finding that middle ground and keeping everything in balance.

It’s actually a really effective method if you just sit down and ask yourself these two questions—and I mean, be brutally honest when you answer them. If you do that, you’ll always make the right call because your inner voice, your gut, or your intuition—whatever you want to call it—will tell you exactly what needs to happen.

Can you handle this?

Do you actually feel like this is good for you?

Now, listen to what that inner voice is telling you... For instance, could you actually go out and get drunk? What does that voice say?
He tells me, "Look, you're a big guy—you can take a hit like a champ."

So, moving on to question number two—apparently, I've been told that isn't exactly the right move for me.
I've just got this gut feeling—it's telling me this isn't really my thing.
Give it a shot with whatever you want.
If you feel like you can actually pull it off—if you truly have the talent for it—then go for it.
And hey, if you truly feel like that's what's best for you—then go for it. Go for it! 👍

You’re boxed in—by the law, by morality, and by the very society you live in. You don't really have a choice in the matter. It all comes down to fear, honestly. People are just driven by fear—fear of breaking the law, fear of going hungry, and that deep, underlying fear of death.
Fear is a tricky thing—you can either try to drown it out by hitting the Powerball jackpot, or you can work on mastering yourself through something like martial arts to rise above the need for material things. Both are extreme paths, honestly, but they both get the job done.

Yeah, two beatings.

You always have a choice—even if that choice is just jumping off a bridge... the only thing actually holding you back is your own head. You can't conquer fear, even if you hit the Powerball jackpot a thousand times over. Not even that deep, existential kind of fear. At the end of the day, the mind is the devil, and fear is far too dear to him to ever let go of the control it has over you.

And who exactly are you supposed to be? Are you kidding me??!!!

How do you even have the nerve? Seriously, where do you get off acting like you're God—or some kind of supreme judge over everyone else?!!!

The questions are solid, really. The only catch is figuring out where the answer to that second question is actually coming from. Is it coming from your heart (or whatever) or is it just your ego? Or maybe some subconscious programming stuck in your head from bad experiences, or fear of authority, or being terrified of what people think...
When you look at all this "self-improvement" stuff, most of the work is basically dealing with these different voices in your head, and there's a lot of room to maneuver there. Everything else, if you ask me, is just avoiding facing
that specific part of yourself.
I seriously doubt we'd ever have the ability to reach a goal, gain knowledge, find talent, or experience love if those things weren't ultimately good for us.
wanderingmoose15 said:Since everyone else has already bailed on social media to go to bed because there's nothing left worth doing, I figured I’d drag myself over here. I’m starting this thread to try and move from just lurking to actually participating before I get banned for being a nuisance.😁
I guess I'm physically grown, but mentally I'm still stuck. I find myself looking for some kind of divine vent to dump all my frustrations, aggression, and insecurities. It's probably because I blame a higher power for every single one of my failures. I can't handle the weight of my own mistakes, so I just throw them at an imaginary God through cursing.
What hurts most is that I even use that term. Even if it's just part of a curse—which is a reflection of how uncivilized I am—it doesn't bother me nearly as much as the fact that I still let that impulse live inside me.
I think about all those nights in the past when I actually prayed, all the religious holidays I observed, all the fasting and other nonsense that was just as "effective" as anyone else's prayers, right up until I woke up and stopped dreaming.
How do you get rid of a leftover virus from your past? How do you learn to turn your back on what used to be without feeling the need to spit on it? I know I've rambled through a bunch of different phrases here, but I hope someone can give me a constructive answer without coming at me with moralizing lectures about being low-class or uneducated.
How do I learn to control these sudden bursts of profanity?
I apologize for the crude language, but how can a guy who starts a thread about cursing at God not be crude?
p.s. please keep the answers strictly psychological. I don't need any input from pastors, priests, monks, or any other moralizers.......

🙂 Is there actually someone in your life—a real person—that you subconsciously blame
for all that stuff? Maybe it's just pent-up rage toward your parents (your old man?) or some other authority figure, and God is basically just a projection of everything you refuse to face or accept...☕
Sexual tension — how do you handle it? in Psychology & Therapy ·
Gary Diaz3 said:I don't know, she isn't really offering any suggestions; she’s just stating the obvious about how things currently stand.

Now that's interesting! Makes me wonder if that's even how psychotherapy works?!
A therapist "knows," or senses, or guesses the root cause of some issue
and then they just lay it out for the patient—they state it as fact—without the patient
actually realizing it themselves or connecting the dots to their own past experiences.
If that doesn't click, or if it gets totally misinterpreted in a desperate attempt to
fix things—to "heal" oneself...
Understanding today's youth psychology in Psychology ·
bluejackal7 said:I’m starting this thread because I’ve reached a point where nothing makes sense anymore. Since I was a kid, it’s been the same old lecture from everyone around me—parents, teachers, whatever. You need straight A's in school, don't touch a cigarette, stay away from drugs, God forbid, behave yourself, pick up a bunch of hobbies, learn foreign languages, stay active in sports, be polite, be smart, listen to "cultured" music, watch "important" movies, do this and do that. Otherwise, you're told you'll end up nowhere and never be happy or satisfied with life...
Then I look around at all these people who followed the script perfectly. They're totally programmed, and honestly? Most of them aren't even happy. Then there's me. People judge me because I drink, I smoke, I go out, I don't have a college degree, and I don't have a list of impressive hobbies. I’m not exactly jumping through hoops to stay busy. But I’ve had great relationships, I have a solid group of friends, and I make decent money—actually, more than some people with Ivy League degrees. I’m completely content. I'm not frustrated. I just live my life how I want to. Meanwhile, these "perfect" types can barely find a date—I mean, they post on social media about how successful and fulfilled they are, yet they can't find anyone. They don't go out, they don't socialize, they don't actually enjoy anything. So, what's the point? Why go through all that effort if it doesn't lead to happiness? I'm not saying it applies to everyone, but I'm curious about the general pattern.
Can someone explain this? I figure some people here might understand the psychology behind it better than I do.

😍 Nothing personal, it just reminded me of this joke:

Hercegovac wants to get his son a job, so he calls up a "high-ranking government official:"
- No problem at all. I'll get him a spot in Congress, he'll pull in about $6.75 and won't have to lift a finger.
- You know, I'd actually prefer if he did some actual work. Something a bit more modest.
- Fine. I'll make him a Director. He'll get $5.00 and will have to do a little bit of work.
- But I'd really like him to work more, you know, to learn the ropes...
- Alright, alright. Let's make him an Executive Assistant at a corporation; he'll get $3.25 and he'll definitely have plenty to do.
- Still, I'd prefer something a bit lower scale.
- For heaven's sake, how much salary are we talking about here?
- Around $1333.
- Oh, well, that's not going to work. For that kind of money, he's gonna need a college degree.
Elizabeth Castillo87 said:I’m tossing this thread over here instead of the Religion sub, assuming the mods won't kill me for it, because honestly? I want to hear from everyone—believers, skeptics, atheists, whatever you call yourself—if this quote actually hits home for you. I mean, isn't it pretty much a given that we basically build our own reality just by how we choose to react to it? It's like we're architects of our own little bubbles. But I guess what I'm really driving at is... how exactly do you guys think we pull that off?

Never even heard that one before. 🤷where are you from?
My sins: in thought, in word, in deed, and by omission—yeah, absolutely.
Late Night Ramblings in Psychology & Therapy ·
Timothy Cruz6 said:Thanks for the support 🙂

Regardless, I’d love to hear from anyone who has been through something similar—specifically that moment when you have to admit to yourself that you're the one who messed everything up 😉 For me, that was the hardest part: admitting fault (though, honestly, my ego made swallowing that pill nearly impossible)

🙂 Just take it slow, okay? You're only just starting to peel back the layers on this stuff...
It’s definitely not the end of the road, and there's a better part coming (even if it might sting a little at first)
where you'll realize you actually had some damn good reasons for feeling upside down.
Once that hits, the way you look at yourself is going to change completely.😍