rapidrider3 said:^^So according to you, we should just let things stay exactly how they are? Anyone selling stuff can just bump their thread ten times a day, or open ten different threads every single day for a couple of sneakers, a t-shirt, or whatever tiny crap...
Instead of actually implementing some order, we shouldn't bother at all...
The people who hate having rules will always complain about it!!!
They’re perfectly happy living in total chaos and a complete mess... meanwhile, us "newbies" who actually give a damn about this kind of nonsense unfortunately have to wait until we "grow up" here and wait for some new kids to show up... maybe then something will finally change....
Whoa, why are you getting all defensive with me?😁 I was just stating my opinion since I stumbled onto the topic🙂 And I didn't say it's great that everything is a mess, but yeah, you've got a point regarding what matters
personally to me—honestly, I couldn't care less about the state of things. I realized I can't change the world, so I stopped trying, and honestly, if I don't even care about the Tech sub anymore—I haven't even followed it for ages (except for checking PDFs on the web)—even though my very first post was in Tech, and even though I've dropped like 15k mostly constructive posts in that sub over the years, and even though it's literally my job and profession... If I don't care about the Sports sub—which is arguably the most important secondary thing in the world, and a sub I moderated for years and wrote way more in—then I really, truly, deeply don't give a 😁
Because I've been trading on other forums for a long time, and I was actually kicked off MO a while back along with a few buddies, treated like an enemy instead of someone who actually wanted to make that forum better, stronger, the best. And I don't doubt I could have succeeded, but whatever... what's done is done. I wouldn't go back to it because people would think I haven't gotten over being kicked and that I'm just using this opportunity for old grudges or whatever... don't worry, I'm totally over it. It's better for me without you guys, and it's better for you without me, so it's a win-win situation :-)
Basically, what am I even supposed to tell you? You've only been here a minute... man, once you put in 5 or 6 years of seniority, things start making more sense. I'm not saying this condescendingly, God forbid🙂 But look, five years ago, people were saying the exact same thing to me that I'm saying to you now, and I didn't want to listen then, and now I'm telling you what they told me😁 Don't stress it so much, it's just a forum, after all🙂 A giant forum run by an owner who has no clue what's actually happening, managing too few staff, and moderating over 200 different people, all listed for $0.00, all on a volunteer basis. As such, it can't be perfect. To be honest with you, it's actually way better than perfect considering everything. Just look at his closest competitors and you'll see what I mean.... Can it be better? Sure. It seems like it could, but when you start digging deeper...
Look, here's a concrete suggestion while we're talking about digging: if they ever give you and Brian Mitchell44 (who's been around longer😍) a spot as moderators for MO, then get in there with the current mod team and start a real reform. Try to actually implement all those ideas you wrote down... you'll realize real quick what I mean by "grumbling from above"😉I figured this out ages ago, so now I’m just sitting here grumbling and honestly, I don't give a damn about any of it. And you know what? I love it.😍
Angela Flores76 said:@boldhound8 - look, it doesn't have to be a total dictatorship over there, but seriously, there's no reason for one single user to have five different threads going. They could easily just cram all that into one post. It's ridiculous to start a whole new thread for one single item of clothing when there's already a massive dedicated clothing thread for stuff like that. You know, just common sense.
I've been through this exact same crap on three different Reddit communities, including this one (which you should probably remember), and believe me, it's necessary. If you don't have some level of authority, you can't maintain any kind of order on a niche community like this.