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How many misses are going to block you in the next link?

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copperfox22 copperfox22 Active MemberOP
75 messages
joined Feb 2008
#121 ·
Mark Hughes36 said:The whole point is just reaching that state where you truly don't give a damn.
Whatever. You'll live.
It seems like that mindset pays off. At the very least, you stop questioning your own sanity every time things fall apart, or obsessing over all those "what if" scenarios.

I’ve come to believe the healthiest approach is to accept that there is no such thing as justice or blame in relationships. It all just boils down to a matter of compatibility—or the lack thereof—at any given moment.

Just to be clear, this is purely theoretical.
It’s a relief to see how much ground I've actually covered during this internship. 😁

And that's just a glimpse of what fate has in store for us.
The truth, though nobody's exactly lining up to hear it. 😁

I couldn't agree more. Absolutely. 🙂

Just to be clear, I'm strictly theorizing here.
If only I had actually managed to get that far in real life. 😁

🤣🤣🤣 Man, oh man... 🙂

Mark Hughes36 said:In my view, it's pure ego: "How is it possible that someone I love this much doesn't see me as worthy of their devotion?"

Well, at least you've confirmed—or rather, you have—that I'm not being selfish, 😁 which is something some people seem to take personally.
But we always end up circling back to the first point: why is it always 🤣 😬

Anyway, I have to run... I've started philosophizing again, and that never ends well. 😳
You guys figure out a meaningful answer.
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
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joined Nov 2012
#122 ·
copperfox22 said:I couldn't agree more. Absolutely. 🙂

Just to be clear, I'm strictly theorizing here.
If only I had actually managed to get that far in real life. 😁

🤣🤣🤣 Man, oh man... 🙂

Well, at least you've confirmed—or rather, you have—that I'm not being selfish, 😁 which is something some people seem to take personally.
But we always end up circling back to the first point: why is it always 🤣 😬

Anyway, I have to run... I've started philosophizing again, and that never ends well. 😳
You guys figure out a meaningful answer.

The only logical conclusion is that there is no logic. We are all sitting here attempting to be rational, dissecting everything because it’s impossible to grasp how such a vital aspect of life can remain entirely outside our control—especially when one feels they've earned happiness in that department. The universe isn't inherently fair. I will reiterate my previous point: luck plays a role. There is endless evidence that misfortune strikes even the most unlikely people. In fact, I was quite pleased today after reading a story on Reddit about a woman who finally found "The One" and is truly happy after years of searching. 🙂
Jeremy Torres5 Jeremy Torres5 Member
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joined Oct 2009
#123 ·
Walter Peterson said:The only logical conclusion is that there is no logic. We are all sitting here attempting to be rational, dissecting everything because it’s impossible to grasp how such a vital aspect of life can remain entirely outside our control—especially when one feels they've earned happiness in that department. The universe isn't inherently fair. I will reiterate my previous point: luck plays a role. There is endless evidence that misfortune strikes even the most unlikely people. In fact, I was quite pleased today after reading a story on Reddit about a woman who finally found "The One" and is truly happy after years of searching. 🙂

if you're talking about career success, that's a whole different story
luck rarely strikes the miserable
you know why
it's their attitude🤷
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
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joined Nov 2012
#124 ·
Jeremy Torres5 said:if you're talking about career success, that's a whole different story
luck rarely strikes the miserable
you know why
it's their attitude🤷

What do you mean, "barking up the wrong tree"?! 😕
Mark Hughes36 Mark Hughes36 Active Member
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#125 ·
Walter Peterson said:I can certainly agree with that, though I suspect it only holds true when we’re dealing with people who actually fit our own mold. Some individuals are simply fundamentally incompatible with us—personality-wise, there’s just no way to make it work, regardless of the circumstances.

Agreed, obviously.
I was trying to cover all bases with a single statement (added the parentheses just to account for temporary friction versus a fundamental mismatch)
Mark Hughes36 Mark Hughes36 Active Member
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joined Feb 2023
#126 ·
copperfox22 said:I couldn't agree more. Absolutely. 🙂

Just to be clear, I'm strictly theorizing here.
If only I had actually managed to get that far in real life. 😁

🤣🤣🤣 Man, oh man... 🙂

Well, at least you've confirmed—or rather, you have—that I'm not being selfish, 😁 which is something some people seem to take personally.
But we always end up circling back to the first point: why is it always 🤣 😬

Anyway, I have to run... I've started philosophizing again, and that never ends well. 😳
You guys figure out a meaningful answer.

At least I'll have enough chocolate to last me several lifetimes.😁
copperfox22 copperfox22 Active MemberOP
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joined Feb 2008
#127 ·
Walter Peterson said:The only logical conclusion is that there is no logic. We are all sitting here attempting to be rational, dissecting everything because it’s impossible to grasp how such a vital aspect of life can remain entirely outside our control—especially when one feels they've earned happiness in that department. The universe isn't inherently fair. I will reiterate my previous point: luck plays a role. There is endless evidence that misfortune strikes even the most unlikely people. In fact, I was quite pleased today after reading a story on Reddit about a woman who finally found "The One" and is truly happy after years of searching. 🙂

Honestly, the whole thing is just one big damn game of roulette. I’ve burned through every single chip I had... blown through all my savings😳 and now I have to scrape my way back up from zero and tighten my belt if I ever plan on stepping foot in a casino again.😬

I'm heading out on "vacation" for a while. Good luck to you all with the spin.🙂

Mark Hughes36 said:At least I'll have enough chocolate to last me several lifetimes.😁

Oh, please. Tell me about it.🙄
Ronald Garcia5 Ronald Garcia5 Member
33 messages
joined Oct 2009
#128 ·
Honestly, I used to think certain traumas would break me for good. To be fair, I still feel that weight sometimes. But my drive is just too damn strong to let anyone permanently screw me over. Even though I spend half my time trashing men, deep down, I’m still open and willing to take the leap—it just might not look like it on the surface.

People survive concentration camps; they can handle this. Ladies, don't let them get to you—who cares about them? If they actually had any value, they wouldn't be exes. Thank Bog you got rid of them and finally have a shot at finding someone better! :-)
Jeremy Torres5 Jeremy Torres5 Member
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joined Oct 2009
#129 ·
Walter Peterson said:What do you mean, "barking up the wrong tree"?! 😕

http://www.forum.com/showthread.php?t=481196
http://www.forum.com/showthread.php?t=486444
http://www.forum.com/showthread.php?t=464914
http://www.forum.com/showthread.php?t=486438

Exactly like this... 😁

copperfox22
Let’s move on. Enough with the obsession over these idiots...
Just walk away from this whole thing for a while and focus on something actually productive...
You can't force things to happen, honey. Just when you think there's no way out, a solution appears out of nowhere... 😉
cosmictinker21 cosmictinker21 Active Member
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joined Jan 2009
#130 ·
Failures? You really think a bad connection counts as a failure?🤣

I mean, just look at it as a learning experience. At least you figure out which types of people to steer clear of in the future. Like, give them a massive wide berth...🤷☕
copperfox22 copperfox22 Active MemberOP
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joined Feb 2008
#131 ·
cosmictinker21, I think you completely missed the mark on this one... what's the term again? 🙂soccer
Jeremy Torres5 Jeremy Torres5 Member
10 messages
joined Oct 2009
#132 ·
copperfox22 said:cosmictinker21, I think you completely missed the mark on this one... what's the term again? 🙂soccer

Man, cosmictinker21 is playing in a different league entirely
She clearly doesn't grasp how the NFL rules work 😂 😂 😂
But it’s honestly fascinating how she hits the exact same sour note in every single PDF she posts
Someone really got under her skin 🤣
cosmictinker21, we love you... 😍
cosmictinker21 cosmictinker21 Active Member
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joined Jan 2009
#133 ·
Jeremy Torres5 said:Man, cosmictinker21 is playing in a different league entirely
She clearly doesn't grasp how the NFL rules work 😂 😂 😂
But it’s honestly fascinating how she hits the exact same sour note in every single PDF she posts
Someone really got under her skin 🤣
cosmictinker21, we love you... 😍

haha, look, if the question is whether I’m going to get blocked in the next thread, I was just answering the question. No, they aren't blocking me, and I have my reasons for thinking they won't. Besides, I'm not even remotely annoyed... well, maybe a little bit when it comes to sweet romance and stuff like that... 😍😍😍😉
Jeremy Torres5 Jeremy Torres5 Member
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joined Oct 2009
#134 ·
cosmictinker21 said:haha, look, if the question is whether I’m going to get blocked in the next thread, I was just answering the question. No, they aren't blocking me, and I have my reasons for thinking they won't. Besides, I'm not even remotely annoyed... well, maybe a little bit when it comes to sweet romance and stuff like that... 😍😍😍😉

🙂
I'd give anything to see her happen by tomorrow... 😁
cosmictinker21 cosmictinker21 Active Member
242 messages
joined Jan 2009
#135 ·
Jeremy Torres5 said:🙂
I'd give anything to see her happen by tomorrow... 😁

Sweetheart, it’s like you can actually reach through the screen and touch the present moment. It feels that way now, and I'm sure it'll stay that way. Thanks for the kind wishes.🙂🙂
ruggedhound26 ruggedhound26 Newcomer
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joined Oct 2009
#136 ·
Eye for an eye.
I’ve always found that being cooperative pays off more than anything else in the long run.
Matthew Castillo5 Matthew Castillo5 Regular
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joined Apr 2013
#137 ·
ruggedhound26 said:Eye for an eye.
I’ve always found that being cooperative pays off more than anything else in the long run.

You must have been binge-watching some cheesy crime drama last night. 😉
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
63 messages
joined Nov 2012
#138 ·
rogata;22930198 said:

Exactly like this. 😁

If I may offer a defense: being naive is simply what happens when one possesses a shred of sincerity. 😁
wiredmoose3 wiredmoose3 Member
30 messages
joined May 2009
#139 ·
wiredmoose3, here’s a little something to brighten up your anniversary 😍
btw, I’ve been picking up some Manistru lately too 😁😳
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AJmKkU5POA
copperfox22 copperfox22 Active MemberOP
75 messages
joined Feb 2008
#140 ·
Man, I’m going to be the cashier at the checkout 😁, and he’s going to walk up like:

And Mary was happier than she'd ever been before.
But get this—he tells me: "I finally met the love of my life."
About a month ago, when I was heading down to the corner store
Just grabbing some bread and a carton of milk
And there I am at the register, and I lock eyes with her—everything just stops.
It was like my brain went completely numb; all I could hear was her voice:
"Hey, honey, here's your change."


😍

And now look at this mess—all this magic and new drama to deal with. 😁

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