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Is this forum privately owned? in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Alright, does anyone actually have anything useful to add here, or is this just another one of those "LifeIsUnfairWAAAAH!!!" threads?

To answer the question in the title—yeah, the forum is privately owned. The owner could decide tomorrow to shut the whole thing down to new members, ban everyone with an odd user id, and there wouldn't be a damn thing anyone could do about it.
Mod election in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Ryan Thomas4 said:Quote : mellowraven22

And how exactly is that better than just using one Stickya? 🤷
I don't usually hang around the closed threads, but I have witnessed a few instances where someone was just asking "wait, what happened?" only to be hit with an immediate ban.
I suppose people simply ignored the warnings. I know I certainly didn't see them.
There is one pinned notification. Everything.
Individual warnings per topic don't really seem necessary, I guess.

Quote : mellowraven22

I suppose there's really no need for anyone to apologize for following the rules.
But then again, I suppose the forum users aren't the only ones responsible for the lack of order.
Each sub-forum here seems to have its own specific purpose, I guess. I suppose that's it. It seems like there are rules that aren't being applied consistently. I suppose it's hard to say who's actually in the wrong when long-time users have just grown accustomed to a certain way of doing things. Permitted. If certain behavior hasn't been flagged or penalized for a long time, I guess it’s reasonable to assume it was actually permitted.

Changes were necessary, plain and simple.
Well, you really messed this one up.
Both in approach and execution.
Whether you want to admit it or not.

Look, if we had just gone straight to one strike and then jumped immediately into this current setup, people would be whining, "Waaaah, why didn't they start with yellow cards first? Waaaah." But here's the thing—we started with deletions, then moved to yellows, then small reds, and now the reds aren't even that small anymore. And you know what? People are still complaining. You can't win with the folks who hate change. Even if we rolled over on our hands and knees and sent a bottle of expensive champagne to every single user's house, there’d still be some guy somewhere bellyaching about it.

But again, it's not just the users' fault that things get messy.
Every sub-forum on this site has the same (or at least similar) rules, but they aren't enforced the same way everywhere. And why should the users be blamed when they got used to a certain level of allowed behavior? If nothing was being sanctioned for a long time, it's only natural to assume it was okay.

Yeah, things weren't working for a while. We beefed up the staff to get everything back on track, and finally, it's actually happening. Just because something isn't working doesn't mean you shouldn't fix it. If we realize there's a mess on another sub-forum, like what happened over on the RiD, we're gonna clean it up. Probably even more aggressively than what we're doing here.

We've chewed this bone already a few times. Any more talking about this is pointless unless we're discussing specific strikes and stuff like that. The situation on RiD is exactly where it needs to be—the mods like it, most users like it, and that's how it's staying.

James Lee3 said:Here we go again!

Why on earth is there this constant need to end every single post by belittling or insulting whoever you're talking to? 🤷

I thought people were actually trying to ask some civilized questions here and get actual answers, but instead, I guess at my age, I'm just being branded a spoiled brat...

Look, we get it, you're the moderator. We get it, you call the shots. We just wanted to ask a few things, but hey, thanks for telling us to go back to daycare since that's apparently where we belong. Bravo. 👍

You're wrong.
Mod election in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Peter Doyle2 said:I absolutely agree. I think I mentioned the exact same thing in another thread here once.

RiD has been in shambles for quite a while now; changes are necessary, and of course we support them!!

But there’s still a bitter taste in my mouth after everything that went down about a week ago...

Yeah, I know, you'll probably tell us we were warned via threads, which is technically true.

But, just so you know for the future—and for any other subforums where sudden purges might happen—a huge number of people don't read back through old posts. Sometimes they don't even see the last few posts in a thread.

That's why it would be way better to just put a notification in the top topic or an announcement specifically for that subforum letting everyone know the belt is tightening. 😁
It's a win-win: we're happy because we get warned in time, and you're happy because you don't have to leave bolded warnings in screaming colors across fifteen different threads that most people end up ignoring anyway.

That doesn't make it okay for anyone, though. Sorry, but the whole foundation of being decent online is, you know, actually reading the thread you're jumping into before you start typing.
Lawsuit over a leaked photo and the forum's liability in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Jacko, you're just a clone of a user who's already banned, so you don't have any business participating on this forum anymore.

Peace out.
Mod election in Feedback & Suggestions ·
The veteran mods can easily jump onto any other sub-forum without breaking a sweat. Even if there are slight differences in how things are handled, besides maybe the Off-Topic section and DIK, all the sub-forums basically follow the exact same playbook and stick to the same core rules.
Complaint about thread removal on Red Bull regarding pregnancy in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Look, if a thread is actually trending and everyone's talking about it, it’s gonna stay at the top anyway. No point in forcing it to stay pinned there just to keep it visible.

The other thing with making everything a featured topic is that it totally kills the vibe. If you pin a thread about breastfeeding, then sure, why not pin a thread about daycare or car seats? You could basically pin every single thing on the board, and then the whole idea of having "top topics" becomes completely pointless.
Complaint about thread removal on Red Bull regarding pregnancy in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Jose White18 said:You don't actually mean we should put a warning about sanctions in the intro post of every single thread, do you?
That’s already covered in the general forum rules—chat isn't allowed unless it's explicitly permitted.

Another thing is that discipline on Red Bull had slipped a bit, so things became weirdly casual...

And honestly, that's all that matters.

This is like the fifth thread about basic hygiene here on RiD and the answer is always the same: The chat is moving. It's getting shut down or moved to Off-Topic.

The whole point of this forum isn't the chat; if people want to chat, there are plenty of other services for that, like Chatroulette and stuff like that.
I'm your Moderator, and there are no other Moderators besides me in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Tyler Grant76 said:For instance,

my own post—which I'm only bringing up to show that PL is quoting me:

and then I get this response: (it starts off with "you're making things up and twisting words, as usual" 🤷),

just so the grand finale, in response to yet another objection ends up being this:

Do I really need to go on?

Nah, you don't need to. I took a look at the thread and honestly, I don't see any issue here. Personally, I’ve got nothing against things getting a little heated, as long as people actually have an argument to back it up. Besides, both you and slybison8 are top-tier users on this board—and I mean that sincerely, no sarcasm intended—your posts are always a blast to read. Yeah, you might throw a sharp jab at each other once in a while, but I don't think it's a big deal. It’d be nicer if we could skip the toxicity, sure, but if I have to choose between a high-quality debate that gets a bit salty or some polite, boring conversation that's just plain stupid, I'm picking the first one every single time.

Zachary Gomez2 said:Just a small contribution from my side—I have no intention of hijacking the primary purpose of this thread, so if I drift into generalities in the title, bear with me. Since you all decided on the other thread that Powerlock has every right to his own opinions as a forum member (or a "Forumer," in his preferred terminology), and that such views don't interfere with his moderation duties, I feel compelled to remind everyone once more: having an opinion is one thing, but influencing the direction of a discussion by permitting sub-par discourse is quite another (though I suspect my previous posts failed to convey that distinction clearly enough). In that particular example, it isn’t that one shouldn't be allowed to claim homosexuality is a disorder or a deviation; rather, it is that a moderator's decision cannot be to allow anyone walking through these digital halls who insists "homosexuality is a disorder"—without providing any actual reasoning—to simply hide behind their "right to an opinion." Because, let me repeat, that isn't an opinion. It's just noise.

That is one matter; here is another. Regarding the recent ways in which Powerlock’s stances (which are, admittedly, better reasoned than what he was attempting to shield in the aforementioned examples) might influence moderation, consider the timeline of when and why the original thread regarding General Brodarac was closed (was it deemed irrelevant? outdated? pushed out of scope?) and when it was subsequently reopened. It was shuttered at 9:58 AM on the day of General Brodarac's death, only to be reopened much later at 2:37 PM that same day following a comment from a user. A six-hour silence? (And please, I mean no disrespect to the tragic nature of the situation or the legitimate questions surrounding the circumstances of his passing: those factors could not possibly justify closing a thread concerning allegations of war crimes in Sisak only to redirect the conversation toward entirely different content and tone.) Suddenly, a nonsensical instruction appeared on the thread: "Please refrain from mentioning the late General Brodarac..." (and to add insult to injury, they wrote "General," but let's move past that). Only then did someone mention that there were actually two other suspects involved and that the thread exists as a standalone entity (effectively admitting that for at least six hours, the moderation was being driven by personal bias):

Thread Closed
Thread Reopened

These are merely illustrative examples; if you look at the thread concerning Brodarčev's death itself, you can see a series of exchanges (and deleted posts) that specifically critique such moderator steering.

It was honestly uncomfortable to watch people struggle to explain that these two things—and these two distinct threads—cannot be treated as one and the same.

Look, when a topic starts blowing up like crazy, the posts just pile up way too fast for any Moderator to actually keep up with. It gets messy. In those cases, sometimes we just gotta lock the thread for a bit—just a temporary shutdown to clear out the junk, do some basic cleanup, and get everything back in order before we open it back up again.
Mods, post some pics! in Feedback & Suggestions ·
driftingangler11 said:If I’m reading this right, these kids playing moderator clearly have some... let's call them "personal issues"... but honestly, why do we all have to deal with their drama?

...

I mean, if you can't find enough decent people to actually moderate the site, just hire one single adult who's actually sane. Someone to keep these kids' hormones in check so us older folks don't have to babysit them here. I get enough of that with my own kids at home.

Just a little tip for anyone thinking about complaining about this:

Don't.
MPO thread - what counts as a chat ban? in Feedback & Suggestions ·
velvettrucker52 said:I'm saying it again—posts that are just "hang in there," "sending good vibes," or random updates about beta stuff... they don't actually make the thread better. They just make everything a mess to read.
If you want to do that, go use a chat app. We aren't going to tolerate those kinds of posts in random threads anymore.
If someone is actually looking for real info on how things work, they shouldn't have to dig through pages and pages of fluff just to find one useful sentence. It's just pointless.

That's exactly my point. This is a forum, not some instant messaging service. We literally have an Off-Topic subforum specifically for low-content filler that clutters up threads that could actually be useful.

Go start a thread in Off-Topic if you want a little support group to hang out in, but leave the actual topical threads alone so people can find what they need. Real discussions? Advice? Yeah, that's great. But the "thinking of you" and emoji-only posts? They just create clutter.
Why does Reddit smell like Clorox? in Feedback & Suggestions ·
This whole thing is pretty pointless, honestly, both the thread itself and all these replies.

🤦

I'm heading to bed, I'll dump a bunch of memes on you guys tomorrow.
A few quick questions in Feedback & Suggestions ·
[quietpuma29] says:
Man, seriously... mellowraven22, what happened to the mention system?

Nothing. It's just not on the roadmap right now.
A few quick questions in Feedback & Suggestions ·
ambermason16 said:
[Razor] says:
1: What’s the tolerance level for trolling on this forum?

12

2: Are there any plans to upgrade to a newer version of vBulletin? Honestly, the first thing I noticed is this terrible "skin" you guys are using—it’s a total eyesore and makes me want to close the tab immediately.

We're looking into the Hello Kitty skin... but an official announcement will be coming out soon.

3: I’d love for someone experienced to walk me through the general rules, like how infractions and bans actually work.

some wise and seasoned veteran

just another academic...

Basically, I wanted to point the head admins toward the old MPGH.net site. If you look at their layout, they really nailed the design and kept it at a professional level. Please give me a shout if you address my comments here so I can stay in the loop with the feedback. Thanks in advance!

If my experience with Reddit has taught me anything, it's that the high-level summit is already being planned behind closed doors.

P.S. Is there a specific section where I can introduce myself?🙄

You've got tha' covered... 😁

What do you mean Hello Kitty.

image

My Little Pony.

[Razor] says:
Stop joking around ambermason16 I asked four questions and you haven't answered any of them properly. =|

ambermason16 is a... uh, woman. 😁

How do I set an image as my signature?

You can't. It's just not possible, and we aren't planning on adding that feature either.
Trolling like Katie is my new personality in Feedback & Suggestions ·
I guess we can wrap this whole thing up after reading 🤔African Pepper's
post.
Trolling like Katie is my new personality in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Isolated anecdotes and your own little religious beliefs are, honestly, total bullshit arguments in any actual, sane discussion. That’s exactly why you got flagged. And if getting that warning sent you running straight into a ban, well, that’s hardly the moderator's fault.
Trolling like Katie is my new personality in Feedback & Suggestions ·
What exactly are you whining about? You got your warning fair and square.
Direct Messages in Feedback & Suggestions ·
I could always ask my boss what he thinks about it, but I'm pretty sure he’s just gonna shut me down.
Banned for posting memes in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Emily Kim67 said:Anyway, where can I find the info on how long a membership lasts based on points? I know I 😬 read it somewhere once, but now I can't find the thread for the life of me.
Complaint against moderator Zodiac regarding jokes. in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Rachel Foster44 said:I’d also report that specific moderator, silentsailor5, because of his jokes. He keeps hitting me with negative points even when I send him what is honestly a super polite and nice message. I don't even know how he does it. Can someone please help me out here? Who do I talk to so he actually gets held accountable? Also, I tried pointing out an entire off-topic thread to him, but he just completely ignored it... thanks

There's really no point in complaining about the strikes you got from silentsailor5. You earned them.
Dwarfs in Feedback & Suggestions ·
wiredviper said:I'm wondering if this site's policy actually bans using standard medical terms just because they exist, even if you aren't trying to be offensive or anything?

There isn't one big official rule for the whole site. It basically comes down to the individual sub-forum moderators—they decide on their own whether to let stuff like that slide or shut it down.

Honestly, what Kevin Morris12 said makes total sense to me.