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So, once everything finally lined up and I started comparing actual expertise rather than... well, whatever else:
First round.
2. Dealing with the exact same issue or something similar to what the patient is going through.
That feeling... you know, like that sharp, cutting sensation? Or maybe just that specific kind of discharge?
I get the feeling a female gynecologist carries a bit more weight here... not even about the medical expertise, because that’s not really the point, but just in terms of the overall approach.
I guess I agree, though looking back at my own experience, everything seems to be pretty hit or miss depending on the person. I originally went out of my way to find a female gynecologist for that exact reason—I figured a man just wouldn't get what it feels like to deal with ovarian pain or brutal periods. So, I stuck with a woman for years. But given my recent issues, clinical expertise and specialized experience with HPV ended up being more important than gender, so I made the switch. Up until the CIN and HPV issues, my regular doctor was wonderful. She was empathetic, always willing to talk, and felt incredibly professional and reliable. It was important to me to have that kind of rapport early on. Honestly, my biggest issue had always been yeast infections, which I usually just handled myself since my mom works in healthcare. But that doctor hadn't dealt with HPV before, and I could see the genuine panic in her eyes when those bad results finally came in after all this time. Plus, she’s just a general practitioner, so the protocol is basically the same for everyone: swab the cervix, apply Betadine, wait for the labs, and then move on to specific treatments or a colposcopy once the results are in. However, she wouldn't even prescribe the Betadine for me because of my kidney issues.
Well, she already knows....nor was there any need to get an HPV swab because...
With CIN III, you don't really need to prove the same level of evidence.So, according to the protocol, I need an urgent colposcopy. And honestly, her being kind and gentle doesn't really help much right now. Because of how confused and clueless those doctors were, I wasted months before finally seeing this one. Not to mention, they only bothered to tell me my Pap results after two whole months—which, I guess, is just standard procedure when you're dealing with a clinic covered by Medicare. And don't even get me started on that time a year ago when I switched partners; I was basically sent home just because I asked for a Pap smear (it had been six months since my last one). They told me everything was fine and that I should just come back in half a year.
It really matters which cytologist is reviewing your results. My own report ended up being totally contradictory—it actually went against both my PhD's findings and the colposcopy performed by my doctor.
Honestly, if this doctor had been rude or lacked any empathy—regardless of how much experience or expertise he actually has—I wouldn't have stayed with him. I'm just thankful everything worked out in the end, and I don't regret spending a single cent. He’ll be managing my pregnancy, too. Plus, he has two daughters who are gynecologists and incredibly skilled, so I can't even imagine going back to my old OB-GYN.