Rachel Stewart36 said:I wouldn't be so quick to make sweeping claims like that. Looking at people and the world around me, I haven't really seen massive variations in those "facts" based on gender. It feels more like certain groups just have different "modes." Let me complicate things a bit—I'm male (biologically speaking), identify as a man, and I'm straight, yet my default mode is pretty "feminine"—non-aggressive, passive, indirect, and super focused on emotional harmony. That said, I switch to the "male" mode whenever it makes sense—you know, situational awareness. So, how do you explain my passivity given my testosterone levels (which are pretty obvious from my physique)? I think things are a little more nuanced than what you're suggesting. But hey, just my two cents. 😉
We’re all just descendants of male and female traits, varying in how much of each shows up... Most women lean more feminine, most men lean more masculine. I wasn't trying to say it's black and white or strip away the complexity, and I certainly wasn't trying to present my view as the absolute Truth. It's just an opinion...
Let's be real, most football fans are guys, even if plenty of women are into it too. Then you've got figure skating, where it's mostly women, though some guys get into that as well... Is this stuff actually taught in school, or is it just how we're wired...
We all have traits that people usually label as the opposite gender. There’s a clear distinction between men and women—anatomical, biochemical, hormonal—which ultimately shapes our psychology. Every individual carries a mix of both masculine and feminine qualities, but I'd bet my life that when you add it all up, your "masculine" traits still take the lead. Am I hitting the mark...
Sure, some guys definitely lean more toward feminine traits. That’s why using "gender" makes sense from a scientific standpoint—it lets us differentiate between social identity and biological sex, which is just a fact we don't get to choose...
But look, here's the catch... By introducing the whole concept of "gender," they're actually admitting there are inherent differences between what we consider masculine and feminine traits. If we follow that logic, it’s totally plausible for someone born female to have masculine qualities. There’s really no reason—as mentioned in the opening post—why a biological woman couldn't just be seen as one variation of femininity, rather than forcing this weird split between sex and gender. As strange as it sounds, labeling it "gender" under the guise of social constructs actually implies that these male and female traits exist independently... otherwise, the term would be redundant...
Basically, there wouldn't even be a need to make these distinctions if we just accepted that a guy who's "gentle, emotional, passive, or gay" is just a man with a different personality type... it doesn't make him any less male, just a less common version of it. But instead, people keep obsessing over trans identities, and that whole mindset really just relies on the idea that "gender differences" actually exist in the first place...
Maybe I'm wrong, but the most fundamental thing in life is just finding a partner to reproduce with and pool resources... There are some pretty huge differences in how men and women actually behave in that regard. That doesn't mean anyone can't choose to find purpose elsewhere—that's their right—but the biological reality is there, whether people want to react to it or not...
I personally just identify as male because I don't really get this whole gender concept...