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Male urethral swab: What to expect? in Health ·
Betty Alvarez78 said:Of course it isn't funny—it hurts, plain and simple. It’s a nightmare—but when you have no choice, you just deal with it.
Someone's asking about swab procedures versus vasectomy—specifically which one hurts more when done on women. Not sure why anyone is conflating those two things, but here we are.😍
I’m curious about the actual reasoning behind ordering these swabs—what kind of symptoms are we talking about? Specifically, I want to know if this is strictly for detecting something sexually transmitted, or if there are other factors at play here.

So, the guy isn't going to give you a diagnosis? Typical.
Double chin issues in Health ·
I don’t know much about liposuction—not my area—but they definitely do it under anesthesia, so there’s no pain involved.

But honestly, why even bother with surgery? You can actually use a double chin for some pretty useful things—like storing snacks for later. You could just tuck a handful of almonds in there and snack on them all day whenever you get bored.
Psychology: Is it all just fluff? in Psychology ·
Angela Morris said:Good grief. Seeing someone as pathetic as you makes me feel significantly better about my own situation. 🙄 Escaped from Brooklyn, did we?

Wait, you aren't a fan? 😕

So what happened to measuring the size of the stain on the concrete?
Or the group consensus on how high the jump was?
Or chanting "ONE FEWER!!" at the top of your lungs?
😁
Psychology: Is it all just fluff? in Psychology ·
Angela Morris said:Things have felt a little easier lately. I've been reflecting on life and finally accepting that there might be no inherent meaning—just one vast, chaotic mess. Since our time here is so fleeting, I suppose I can try to make my brief stay somewhat comfortable...
As for self-love, I hope it yields results. I've begun implementing some positive changes across several areas of my life. I lack my old enthusiasm, but I suspect I'll be alright for a while. :-) Once the old feelings resurface, I'll be back here typing again. Though, I do hope they don't...
Thank you all for the advice! :-)

Noooooo!!! 😲
Life is suffering! Life is an uphill battle! How can you even think about being "comfortable" when kids in starving nations don't even have a meal to eat?
Psychology: Is it all just fluff? in Psychology ·
Angela Morris said:This is not an isolated occurrence. Ever since I began studying psychology as a young girl around age twelve or thirteen, consuming books in an attempt to improve myself... I find myself once again losing the will to live. Besides, life lacks inherent meaning...

doesn't?
that's actually good news. personally, I always find myself rooting for those people standing on the edge of skyscrapers—just wondering if they'll finally pull the trigger or hesitate. just make up your mind and jump already. there's something about that sound—that sickening thud when they hit the pavement😁😁

btw, if you decide you prefer cutting instead, just remember—go down the arm, not across the wrist. 😉
and watch out with the pills; you don't want a massive dose to just end in vomiting. that's a messy way to go.
Psychology: Is it all just fluff? in Psychology ·
Angela Morris said:I have just come to the realization that things may never truly improve. I spent years hoping to find some semblance of peace or happiness, but it remains elusive. I have read countless psychology books, attempted to adopt positive thinking, and worked extensively on myself... there are brief windows of progress, only for me to slide back into those same dark thoughts—the desire to simply not exist, the urge to end it all. (Though, perhaps I lack the courage for such an act, as the physical pain terrifies me; still, in those moments, I wouldn't mind if a car struck me in a crossing. My recklessness in traffic tends to increase during these periods...)
After so many attempts to force myself into being happy, satisfied, or free from fear... everything reverts to its original state. I am losing my faith that any change is possible. I have even watched documentaries on the subject. I saw a segment about someone with symptoms similar to mine undergoing electroconvulsive therapy—you know, the kind where they use 😛 electrical impulses. In movies, people with traumatic childhoods almost always end up as serial killers, seemingly beyond any help.
Is this actually how life works? Do the wounds we receive once never truly heal? Or is modern psychology merely suggesting that everything can be fixed...

Man, you're a lost cause. Not even books helped? That's... that's unbelievable. To hear that books didn't work for someone. In my entire life, I haven't heard of a single person who wasn't helped by reading.
Roger Morgan2 said:So I’ve been scrolling through your posts for a bit, and I can’t help but notice how much everyone here seems to be crying their eyes out. For some reason, I just can't seem to do that—not even before I was on antidepressants, and honestly, not really now that I am either. Is it possible I'm just suppressing everything, or do I actually lack emotions altogether? 😕 While everyone else is having their big emotional breakdowns, I’m just sitting here totally numb 😕 why does it work like this? 🙂
Sometimes I feel like I'm just completely heartless 🤷
Anyone got a smart explanation for this?

So, what does that actually feel like for you?
I'm at my wit's end with my ex in Psychology ·
Megan White4 said:It isn’t quite hoarding trash... it’s more like an obsession with specific items...

Yesterday, I asked $67 for gas money (since I was running on empty)... she immediately started rolling her eyes and lamenting about how we can't afford it (though she did eventually give it to me). It’s as if we lack funds for basic necessities, yet there’s always plenty of money for her irrational whims and nonsense.

That is exactly the plan...

Precisely. She inserts herself into everything, and when you tell her to back off (usually after ten failed attempts and finally raising my voice), she takes massive offense and plays the martyr. 🙄

It’s her money—she should be free to blow it however she damn well pleases. 🤷
Exactly that... She just forces her way into everything. Then, after you've tried telling her to back off—ten failed attempts later, usually involving me having to raise my voice just to be heard—she plays the victim. It’s always the same routine: she gets deeply offended and acts like she's some wounded soul. It's exhausting. 🙄

Let her pout. Let it pass. You’re the one who taught her that throwing a tantrum or acting helpless would get her exactly what she wants—total control over the situation—so now she’s just playing the hand you dealt her. You make it far too easy to manipulate you, and frankly, you don't need that kind of drama in your life.
I'm at my wit's end with my ex in Psychology ·
Megan White4 said:And go where?

Into some... you know... apartment.
I'm at my wit's end with my ex in Psychology ·
Megan White4 said:What exactly do you think I'm after, or what have I decided?

No. They’d always find a way to squeeze themselves in, though. Usually accompanied by a lot of shouting or a bit of shoving.

It’s either this or a total mess.

If I'm reading this right, you've been living off her dime for a while now. You figured it was easier to just beg and deal with the constant nagging than to actually get a job and deal with the same nagging (which, honestly, sounds like a logical trade-off)🤷

Maybe you want something else—but wanting things and actually working for them are two different worlds.
Quincy:
No. But we’d always find a way in. Either through a massive blowout or by playing hardball.
So you were letting it happen.
Quincy:
It’s either that or an all-out fight.
Your call.
I'm at my wit's end with my ex in Psychology ·
Megan White4 said:Everything she imagines becomes an absolute necessity, regardless of logic or reason. Of course, trying to reason with her is a completely futile exercise.

We can't bring ourselves to toss out her belongings, even when they’re ancient or worn out, but anything that isn't hers just becomes clutter that could actually be useful...

Whenever she decides she needs to buy something—even if we don't need it at all—she spends whatever it costs. Then she has the nerve to lecture me about "going broke" when I need cash for gas or unexpected car repairs.

She nitpicks every tiny, insignificant detail, and nothing I do ever seems to be quite right.

She insists on doing everything herself, only to complain later about how much she has to carry.

The moment I question her actions, she immediately starts the theatrics, acting like the entire world is out to get her.

My patience is wearing thin because her constant nagging and whims seem to escalate every single day... 🙄 ...while my father was still around, he managed to handle her somehow, but now (since I'm just a kid to her, it feels like I'm talking to a brick wall no matter what I say)... 🙄

So why don't you just move out?
It seems like the obvious fix. You'd dodge the drama and finally learn how to hold your own.
I'm at my wit's end with my ex in Psychology ·
Megan White4 said:It’s a long story, but since I have to explain myself... I first enrolled back in 2003. Before that, I cycled through a few different programs, mostly because my parents were insisting on specific majors they thought would guarantee a steady paycheck or a "good" career. In 1999, I finally gave in and went to the school they chose for me. Once they realized I was struggling, they let me choose my own path, so I started a different program in 2001. Since studying wasn't exactly my forte at the time, I took a job and worked for about a year until early 2003. Eventually, I quit, decided to go back to a field more aligned with what I actually studied in high school, and things finally clicked. I'm a senior now. So... there's your answer regarding "laziness."

And yes, every time I mention looking for a part-time gig through a campus job board—just so I don't have to ask for money for every little thing—the response is always some variation of "Decide if you want to study or work. How do you expect to graduate like this?" and so on.

The pattern has always been the same: whenever I wanted to take the initiative on something, they’d jump in to do it for me (or lecture me on why my way was wrong), yet whenever I had any other responsibilities, I was expected to jump at their every command.

:asshole:

NHF

🙄

It all comes down to one decision—whether you actually want financial independence or not. Simple as that.
Quincy:
It was always the same pattern—whenever I actually wanted to build something myself, they’d immediately scramble to take over—or, more often than not, they’d just start lecturing me on all the reasons why my idea wouldn't work.
And you let them do your work for you.
Quincy:
Back when I was working my other jobs—you know how it goes—I basically had to jump through every single hoop they threw at me. Just mindless compliance, really. Every little command, every arbitrary rule... I just had to follow it without question.
Did you really have to?
Is there anything beyond human perception? in Philosophy ·
Think about watching a herd of elephants. If you start with the smallest one, you'll naturally assume there's a bigger one following—then an even larger one after that—but eventually, you hit the ceiling. You reach the biggest one.
Is there anything beyond human perception? in Philosophy ·
Jessica Gonzalez7 said:

Isn't that just basic logic?
While it's true that not everything can be laid out in a perfectly linear, logical sequence—given the numerous paradoxes we encounter—it is entirely reasonable to assume there are consciousnesses for whom reality is simply broader and more deeply understood than it is for us.

We shouldn't limit the definition of consciousness strictly to human awareness. Animals, plants, and everything surrounding us possesses its own mode of existence, which is to say, its own form of consciousness. Every entity acts according to the information available to it within its specific parameters. Water boils when heated. A human dies when subjected to extreme heat. Everything operates with the same level of consciousness relative to its own inherent capabilities.
Isn't that just basic logic?
While it's true that not everything can be laid out in a perfectly linear, logical sequence—given the numerous paradoxes we encounter—it is entirely reasonable to assume there are consciousnesses for whom reality is simply broader and more deeply understood than it is for us.

We shouldn't limit the definition of consciousness strictly to human awareness. Animals, plants, and everything surrounding us possesses its own mode of existence, which is to say, its own form of consciousness. Every entity acts according to the information available to it within its specific parameters. Water boils when heated. A human dies when subjected to extreme heat. Everything operates with the same level of consciousness relative to its own inherent capabilities.
Unfortunately, no. Since we haven't even begun to grasp the true nature of consciousness, making any absolute assumptions about it is pure guesswork. For all we know, "consciousness" might be a closed loop reserved strictly for humans—thanks to our specific brain structure—or perhaps primates or marine mammals.
We need a rigorous definition of consciousness first, and frankly, finding one will take a long time.
Is there anything beyond human perception? in Philosophy ·
Jessica Gonzalez7;11293390 said:Through higher consciousness or expanded realities, it might be possible to grasp the paradoxes we can't wrap our heads around now—or perhaps we simply lack the cognitive capacity to perceive them. It all leads back to the same point.

I don't see what's paradoxical about this topic.
What's even the point of the opening question?
I find it interesting to compare humans to animals sometimes. For instance, when an animal travels somewhere, do you think it realizes it's in the US or Uzbekistan? It can't comprehend our version of an "expanded reality"—to them, our paradoxes are just like ours: things they can't understand. To a higher consciousness with an expanded reality, our deepest questions would be easy to explain.

So, you believe multiple layers of consciousness exist, and you're basing that theory on the existence of lower ones?
Is there anything beyond human perception? in Philosophy ·
I don't think a simple yes or no actually cuts it here.
For instance—I have no idea if God exists. I can't perceive such a thing, so answering the question feels impossible.
Is there anything beyond human perception? in Philosophy ·
If we aren't aware of it, it doesn't exist. Period.
Secondhand smoke issues in Health ·
Nancy Gomez4 said:Trying to fight against smokers is a total Sisyphus task. Honestly, the worst part is how non-smokers end up feeling like the guilty ones in the argument.

That’s on you—it shouldn't be "uncomfortable" to demand clean air.
Secondhand smoke issues in Health ·
Jerry Phillips2 said:So, have you finally called it quits yet?

Yeah.
Secondhand smoke issues in Health ·
Jesse Ortiz4 said:And what exactly are these "sources"? Pretty vague.

Books and the internet—just some random links I found:
http://quitsmoking.about.com/cs/afte...ing20minut.htm
http://www.quitsmokingstop.com/repai...ngsmoking.html
http://www.tobaccofacts.org/quitting/when.html