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Where would you move him? 😕

Some people swear a woman can't have a male best friend, while others claim she can't even have a female one.
So, what's left?

A best enemy? 🙄?

Not me, I'm telling you, it's 100% the same 😛 😁

Keith Lee2 said:Yeah, I read a book once too—just can't recall which one off the top of my head🤔🤷

Me too, if it weren't for the exact same 🤷 🤔

Robin Jackson9 said:That’s exactly why I started this thread... It’s true. If people say there's "no time for that" during the heat of the moment, what happens later? Once the hookup—or sex in general—is over, don't they end up saying things like, "Hey, remember when you told me you were really good at..." and then they use the wrong tense or some weird phrasing?

Are you seriously trying to turn this into a debate about grammar and sex now? 🤷

Christian Sanchez4 said:I actually had a bit of a debate with him about this recently, it was wild🤣

Basically, we were watching Yo-Yo Ma and I found her absolutely stunning. I started rambling about how everything about her performance felt so erotic—you know, the way she sits with her legs spread wide and all that—and he actually agreed, just from a completely different angle.
For me, seeing her play always brings to mind nothing but self-pleasure. For him, though, it’s purely physical; he sees her body as the focal point, making the whole thing erotic, whereas to him, the instrument isn't a sexual metaphor at all—it’s just a cello (which is honestly baffling to me, especially coming from Him😕 who usually has such a vivid imagination🤔 and isn't exactly straight-laced😁)
Yeah, when I see a cellist positioned like that, wedged between those open legs, it screams high-quality, skillful, truly passionate masturbation to me. I love watching her, whether she's sitting there or moving around with the cello, riding it, getting lost in the rhythm and the sound and whatever else.😁
We eventually moved the conversation toward Slash and my take on that scene where he walks out of the church and starts his guitar solo. My interpretation was intensely sexual again; I view Slash’s guitar as a woman in the hands of a true professional, someone who makes her wail and cry out in pure ecstasy while he simultaneously melts away under the sweet agony of it all.🙈

Though, I have to admit, Angus Young only ever reminds me of an autistic child fixated on a toy.😁

That's an interesting way to look at it.
I'll drop the attitude for a second and look at it from that angle, because for me, the sound of a cello or a violin is... well, it's a long way from any kind of
sexual ecstasy or whatever. 😉

Which one?

You've got it wrong—I wasn't posting naked women. That woman is a violinist, a stripper, and a poet.
I'm pretty sure you just stumbled onto her while Googling. I was just giving you another example of... what? 😕
Here's the article if you actually care to read it. I didn't dive in, just skimmed it, and honestly, she doesn't seem much like a poet to me... but hey, to each their own. 🤷

Zachary Mendoza2 said:I find myself equally captivated by the image of a nude violinist. I am not sure about you, but to me, there is an inherent sense of culture and sophistication in that imagery—it creates such a palpable tension. It is far more elevated than just seeing a naked woman who, once she starts talking, sounds like she’s herding sheep in the Midwest. "What are you looking at?" It simply isn't the same experience, is it?

I wouldn't know for sure, but once you're stuck, I guess it's just 😉

So, it's finally settled 😁

Robin Jackson9 said:Why is it that in like, a million music videos, you see these girls playing the violin almost half-naked or just totally exposed on set?
I mean, seriously, they seem way more stripped down in these videos lately....
Why is everyone so obsessed with violinists?
And why am I so turned on whenever I see a woman with a violin?
Look, obviously any attractive woman catches my eye, but when there's a violin involved, it hits me on this whole different, extra special level,

Other guys can try to lie and say they don't feel the same way, but let's be real... everyone's feeling it...

Don't come at me with those "castration complex" or "anima" psychology theories... none of that actually explains it for me.
I started this thread because most other discussions online are just people whining about stuff like "why do I feel so bad, life sucks, I don't know why"... and I don't want to give the impression that psychology is just some study of bad vibes we can't explain. Let's make this a thread for "why does this feel so damn good" (whenever I see a violinist).

Go ahead... feel free to post similar topics here.

Does that include the ones who aren't basically walking around half-naked?

Check out this one?

So why the hell not? Just jump into Miscellaneous every single time. 😁 😁 😁

I’m just over here, totally relaxing.

amberseal13 said:I’ve been thinking about looking at this country from a few hundred thousand miles away. Everything would probably seem pretty ridiculous from that distance... just a tiny rock spinning around the sun in the middle of nowhere, hosting a life that lasts for a mere fraction of infinity. And don't even get me started on how little we actually know about anything. It honestly feels like some kind of video game.
It’s like we’re all playing through a level—as if before we were born, someone asked if we wanted Earth or some other planet. You wouldn't have to think too hard about it; you're only stuck there for a few decades anyway. 🙂
We have absolutely no clue how absurd our "massive" problems actually are.
To me, the only thing that makes any sense is the idea that there's something else after this.
What do you guys think?

It probably wouldn't be funny; honestly, from that distance, the perspective would shift entirely, leading to some pretty strange realizations.

we have no idea how absurd our "massive" problems actually are

Just uzdigni yourself above them and look at things from a million miles away. Again, they might not be hilarious... but they'd look different, definitely. You’d see things you’re missing right now.

it feels like the only logical thing is that there's "life" after this

Jbg, I think there isn't. Maybe there is, but we aren't aware of it—if we don't know it exists, does it even matter? And even if we did find out, it wouldn't be good. You know how much we love procrastinating; people would just keep putting everything off until some second or third life. They’d never actually show up for this one.
It's easy enough to believe in those kinds of things, just a casual little thought... 🙂

Go ahead and give it a shot then, let us know how it goes—it might actually be useful for some people.
I’m not so sure anyone can truly help you get over someone... 🤷

...but man, I sure do love reading all these stories about Denise here, so... 🙂

LIQ, you little jerk....

So, what are you waiting for?
A real conversation, a firm agreement, and probably the inevitable "end."
There isn’t some magic wand or a potion out there to make someone stop loving you.

I mean, sure, maybe if she just gets her head on straight... but if nothing changes, you already know how this plays out.

Stuttering? 😉

mistybison said:There is something truly beautiful about realizing that our minds function perfectly fine whether we pay attention to them or not. Just like the body—filtering blood, processing nutrients, and managing cell regeneration—the mind is constantly gathering sensory data, sorting it, analyzing it, and storing memories. It knows its job. While understanding these biological and psychological processes can certainly help us live more intentional, healthier lives, we aren't actually the ones calling the shots on how our existence operates. Humans have thrived for millennia without even a basic understanding of neurology or physiology. They lived, loved, grieved, celebrated, and simply existed. Isn't there a profound sense of freedom in knowing that we continue to exist quite effortlessly, even when we aren't thinking about ourselves? 🙂

So, I think it's best to just let those thoughts take a vacation whenever they start feeling like too much to handle............

We'll still be here, existing just fine, while we wait for them to come back... 🙂

Douglas Price5 said:Does anyone else ever feel like they’re living out those lyrics, "laughing on the outside while crying on the inside"?

.....
looking for an answer in a glass of bourbon
drinking just to drown out the truth
it wouldn't hurt if I hadn't known
that others were stealing you away from me
but it kills me that I was the last one to find out 😁

Neither good nor bad.

Just some juice, my keyboard, and headphones (I’m not really a fan, but sometimes you just gotta deal with it), plus some music... watching the temperature drop outside... it's actually below freezing now... meanwhile, I'm staying nice and warm.
Wondering if everything will be covered in white by morning... I've got plans tomorrow...
It's not like I'm driving a BMW or living on government assistance...

But all in all, I'm doing alright.🙂

There’s a massive difference between being blunt and just being straight-up intolerant.

I don't even think I was being harsh, though maybe my brain just short-circuited for a second.